[._.]

So i'm a guy, just to get that clear.
And I recently was got to be acquantainces with a group of girls a few months ago and soon became friends with them. (A group of friends that numbered around 4 people?) So I was friends with each one of them, but before I did, I was interested in 1 of the girls. I confessed to her when I knew she liked someone else, so she kindly told me she didn't return the same feelings but thought I was a great guy. Well somehow, we clicked really well as friends and now we're BEST BEST friends. I would trust her with my life and vice versa.

Turns out, another girl in the group likes ME.

So 1 day I decided to watch my friends (both guys and girls) practice for a performance and I was talking to my best friend. We were laughing and making jokes and it turned out that girl got really jealous and upset?

So when I went online she IM's me and we talk. Then she randomly mentions "omgosh i was supposed to yell at you today but i didn't :]" i ask why and she says it's because i made someone sad. I'm thinking "wtf?" cause I didn't do anything and I found out it was cause that girl got jealous. Apparently, the whole group of them believe that I still like my best friend and that she likes me I tell 1 of the girls to tell the girl that likes me that me and my bestfriend are just FRIENDS. Somehow, they took it the wrong way and started flipping out on me. They said I was being inconsiderate of their feelings and that I should've just kept it to myself.

How is it my fault that they just ASSUME that we like each other when we already told them mulltiple times we are BEST FRIENDS and was it my fault that 1 of them leaked it to me? And it's not my fault she likes me either, if you want to even have a chance with me don't blame me for things I didn't do just cause of your childish jealousy.

thing is, now everyone is against me and my best friend they think that we secretly like each other and that i cruelly turned the other girl down. (she confessed after) like what the hell
now everyone is spreading sh.it about us

what would you do

im trying to be a nice guy still but i don't think i can stand this crap

i've apologized to them even though i did nothing wrong and they said "oh.. its fine" when i know they're saying sh.it behind our backs because i heard from the 1 girl who tells both sides everything

[7thprincess]

Well what did your BFF do? Did she say anything? Wait, does she like you?

But anyways, I guess right now no matter what you say or do, they wont believe you.

[justwildbeat]

This whole thing sounds rather childish to me. As long as you have you good friend next to you to weather out the storm of back stabbing then try not to give it too much thought. Also once you were aware of that other girl's feelings you maybe should have let her know yours in person. Don't play this telephone game, intentions and words are often lost in translation. Other than that this whole drama will settle down and be forgotten, it's just now you know more about the ugly side of your friends.

[jvang_07]

They are taking it the wrong way, yes we understand that.
Now since you want to be the nice guy, you should be the one that steps up first, not just tell the girl's friend that likes you, but tell her, I know for sure you know who she is.
Don't let them get miscommunication, you should be the person to tell this person that likes you, how you really feel towards your best friend.
Also, don't make your friends or your best friend friends get you wrong.

The nice guys will be the first to step up.

[._.]

They are taking it the wrong way, yes we understand that.
Now since you want to be the nice guy, you should be the one that steps up first, not just tell the girl's friend that likes you, but tell her, I know for sure you know who she is.
Don't let them get miscommunication, you should be the person to tell this person that likes you, how you really feel towards your best friend.
Also, don't make your friends or your best friend friends get you wrong.

The nice guys will be the first to step up.

yea i talked to her when she confessed lol

and we made it clear so many times yet they still believe that we like each other... what the hell

[PhuongNguyen]

It's none of their business who you like? Your friends seem have this inferior complex; that everything should pass by them or something. I know quite a few people like that, who expect you to tell them everything about your life when it's none of their business.

Honestly, with people like that. NOT WORTH YOUR TIME. If they can talk mini cooper about you so easily; over something they don't even have proof over, it's very likely tht another thing would come up, and back to square 1 again. I dealt with these kinds of "friends" so many times, that eventually, I just got tired of explaining to them, and just told them to screw off.

You know what, even IF you still like your best friend, it's none of their business nor problem. I don't understand what they could possibly held against you. That girl acts like she owns you or something... "make her sad"? Oh gosh, she makes herself sad. And lol at the whole "considerate" toward their feelings thing. They act like you humped your best friend and had sex in front of their face.

[Meenuh]

would you really go as far as to call them friends? sounds more like people who know your bestfriend and like to gossip to me. who cares what they say. sounds like a bad highschool movie.

i'd thoroughly explain it to them once and if that doesn't register into their heads then i'd ignore them because i don't like to deal with stupidity.

[._.]

they were cool before this whole incident though

gah ._.

i really want it like how it was before

[heyitzthatfc]

they were cool before this whole incident though

gah ._.

i really want it like how it was before

Well, this is a bit hard to explain, but it's really childish what's going on here lol.

I didn't really get the whole story though, you're still friends with your best friend right?

[baby-swts]

well what did ur best friend do?
did she also say that u guys are just friends as well?
gosh the girl who likes u is very immature

[._.]

Well, this is a bit hard to explain, but it's really childish what's going on here lol.

I didn't really get the whole story though, you're still friends with your best friend right?

yep we're still tight

[lilatlbabishorti]

*pokes* i'd say if they didnt understand the third time there is no point to explain anymore to those 'friends' or yours and your bff's friends. maybe they're trying to ruin your friendship with her..cause its stupid to not understand it so many times ==
and seriously it doesnt matter to them whether you still like her or not your life not theirs. (rawr i wanna meet them and bash at them xD)

tbh i definitely know how you feel...im friends with this guy and since 8th grade..rumors been spreading about b/t me and him being together and we been telling them its NOT....9th grade i confess but then he told me nicely that he prefer us as friends so we are cool..however the girls that liked him before were assuming me and him have something going on. ironically but not suprisingly they were my friends == who apologize to me counless times of misunderstanding...tis what happens when girls like the same guy and gets jealous of a friend (me) cause i known him a bit longer =_=