[LUVSSOURCREAM]

i added an update at the end of this post

*********oh come on people! even if the answer maybe obvious, that they are most likely not to work, give me REASONS. because im trying to persuade my friend NOT to go through with this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i don't want him to get used. should i just let it happen? i don't know


girl: just turned 20. still in college. lives in california. international student.

guy: 25. has a job but not career. lives in texas. looking to settle down.

info:theyve been together for two weeks and already saying 'i love you'. and it's an online relationship, they haven't met yet but they label themselves as boyfriend and girlfriend. and they've already jacked off to each other on cam

my opinion: i mean the SIX years of difference. ok let's not just talk about the numbers but they're at different stages of their lives. i just think the girl wants to use him for his green card. im pretty sure the girl would want more freedom when she realizes she's only TWENTY.

so do you think this relationship would work? and why would it?

update: he told me he texted his ex-gf from like yesterday which is oct 14 saying 'you okay? just checking up on you' and she was confused by it. she told me she even checked their myspace and was telling each other 'iloveyou' and about marriage already......i don't know what to tell this (guy) friend of mine. my friend and her broke off, they've been having arguments towards the end of the reltionship.

sorry, got the date wrong about the text but (currently fixed) eh not like it really makes a diff eh? i don't know what to tell him......well actually i didn't talk to him for awhile now but i still somewhat talk to that ex of his
the ex-gf still loves him but it seems like he's stuck on this camwhore. so yea, as a friend, i don't know what to do

[Swtess]

Honestly, no.
Are they announcing their undying love with one another right now?

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

Honestly, no.
Are they announcing their undying love with one another right now?

basically yea.
well the thing is his then six month old relationship fell apart because he's been having arguments with his then gf.
but within days he found another girl, this 20year old girl. his then gf didn't know.
but she still begged for him back but anyway it ended cuz she felt like she couldn't do anything

[chilovesjj]

"im pretty sure the girl would want more freedom when she realizes she's only TWENTY."
...I'm 20 and I recently got engaged, and my fiancé is only 18 ^.^; If you find someone you really want to spend the rest of your life with and are ready for a commitment like that, it doesn't feel like a limitation, like being tied down and restricted. Anyway ^^

I had a friend who started saying 'i love you' over the internet to her new bf as well. Started talking about marriage etc and it all seemed very fast but apparently, when you know, you know. s:? I've seen weirder age gaps than that before, too. They've been together quite a long time, now, too s: Meeting over the internet isn't such a bad thing xD

Chances are slim but I have heard of crazy scenarios like this working out lol. (There was some guy who married a woman within 3 weeks of meeting her and they lived happily ever after XD) I don't know. I guess I'd still find it strange, but whatever works for them...? xD If it all falls apart then at least they haven't spent months together seeing each other everyday.

[Kawakji]

It's doomed, man. Doooooomed!

'Sides, it's over the internets, so how does she know he isn't some sort of crazy rapist, or even has a job?

[Meenuh]

ok, so this is a scenario of on of my friends. and i will tell you what i think and you tell me what you think.


girl: just turned 20. still in college. lives in california. international student.

guy: 25. has a job but not career. lives in texas. looking to settle down.

info:theyve been together for two weeks and already saying 'i love you'. and it's an online relationship, they haven't met yet but they label themselves as boyfriend and girlfriend. and they've already jacked off to each other on cam

my opinion: i mean the SIX years of difference. ok let's not just talk about the numbers but they're at different stages of their lives. i just think the girl wants to use him for his green card. im pretty sure the girl would want more freedom when she realizes she's only TWENTY.

so do you think this relationship would work? and why would it?

i'm sorry but ... that's really creepy. lol. no offense to your friend. she doesn't know anything about this guy except the things that he tells her and they've barely met (and not even in real life) and they're having cyber whatever it is through webcam? that's ... creepy. he sounds like a perv. =x
but then again i can be wrong. anything is possible but 2 weeks into a so called relationshp and already in love? i don't see it. they'll get sick of eachother.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

oh come on people! even if the answer maybe obvious, that they are most likely not to work, give me REASONS. because im trying to persuade my friend NOT to go through with this

[mintcracker]

^ dude come down

jeez you think ppl will be able to help if you sound ungrateful like that?

anyway my opinion

net relationship=fail
two weeks and already 'love??'=fail
age difference is ok
whole cyber thing= =S




It's not going to last. They haven't even met each other, how do they know if they can get along? Your real life personality is different most of the time.

How can there be love if they don't know much bout each other? Love means accepting each other's flaws, two weeks is way too short to know much about sb.

[Monologue]

*********oh come on people! even if the answer maybe obvious, that they are most likely not to work, give me REASONS. because im trying to persuade my friend NOT to go through with this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i don't want him to get used. should i just let it happen? i don't know


girl: just turned 20. still in college. lives in california. international student.

guy: 25. has a job but not career. lives in texas. looking to settle down.

info:theyve been together for two weeks and already saying 'i love you'. and it's an online relationship, they haven't met yet but they label themselves as boyfriend and girlfriend. and they've already jacked off to each other on cam

my opinion: i mean the SIX years of difference. ok let's not just talk about the numbers but they're at different stages of their lives. i just think the girl wants to use him for his green card. im pretty sure the girl would want more freedom when she realizes she's only TWENTY.

so do you think this relationship would work? and why would it?

I had online relationship from different continent. I'm not so sure because it is in the States, but if I have chance like that, I'm think I can make it work because it sounds easy to me.
But, dont do online piece of sh*t. I will never do it again

[Jennibeans]

be realistic =-= if you want it to work your gonna need to try REALLY REALLY REALLY HARD

[asianpanthers]

job but no career and he is looking to settle down? it's tough to pay the bills for only one with an hourly wage job...ridiculous.

it wont work, but...whatever. they're still allowed to like each other

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

the thing is i think the girl is looking for a greencard and the guy knows this but accepts it!

[Torento <3]

Wow, even adults are throwing around the words 'I love you' that easily?

You suck! Stop doing it!

Seriously.

I am 17 (male), and my girlfriend is 25 (Japanese girl in the process of obtaining her permanent residency). It's even harder when the male is younger, so don't give me any excuses! It's all about how mature the relationship is. I'm going to be living with her in a few months, and we have already talked about marriage/children. She knows I am no where near ready and she is okay for it.

I know so many stories of Asian international students (almost always girls, but I know a few cases of guys too) getting used just for easy sex and/or their money. Watch out.

[jbigdog123]

*********oh come on people! even if the answer maybe obvious, that they are most likely not to work, give me REASONS. because im trying to persuade my friend NOT to go through with this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i don't want him to get used. should i just let it happen? i don't know


girl: just turned 20. still in college. lives in california. international student.

guy: 25. has a job but not career. lives in texas. looking to settle down.

info:theyve been together for two weeks and already saying 'i love you'. and it's an online relationship, they haven't met yet but they label themselves as boyfriend and girlfriend. and they've already jacked off to each other on cam

my opinion: i mean the SIX years of difference. ok let's not just talk about the numbers but they're at different stages of their lives. i just think the girl wants to use him for his green card. im pretty sure the girl would want more freedom when she realizes she's only TWENTY.

so do you think this relationship would work? and why would it?

Six years of age different is NOTHING, a none issue...however, loving some one whom you've not seen face to face, whom you've only chatted online for two week is very immature and appears to be lonely.

The question is, who initiated whom sexually? In most cases, whenever a girl opens up (no pun intended), guys can easily be manipulated to get their egos stroked (again, no pun intended).

Will it work? Who knows, without knowing motives of those two, it is hard to say.

[idiotsucks]

in my opinion,
I feel that online relationship usually don't work
and moreover like what you said,
2 weeks and they started saying 'i luv u' to each other..
That makes things even more senseless ?
yepp, I felt that the girl trying to use his "card" as well
advice your friend (the male right?)
know her longer, meet her first and so on
before he date her and claim her as his gf

[Torento <3]

in my opinion,
I feel that online relationship usually don't work
and moreover like what you said,
2 weeks and they started saying 'i luv u' to each other..
That makes things even more senseless ?
yepp, I felt that the girl trying to use his "card" as well
advice your friend (the male right?)
know her longer, meet her first and so on
before he date her and claim her as his gf

If they have sexual interactions, make sure he applies his own condom. I've heard of stories of girls poking holes in them beforehand etc to get her pregnant and then he's screwed. Scary stuff.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

Six years of age different is NOTHING, a none issue...however, loving some one whom you've not seen face to face, whom you've only chatted online for two week is very immature and appears to be lonely.

The question is, who initiated whom sexually? In most cases, whenever a girl opens up (no pun intended), guys can easily be manipulated to get their egos stroked (again, no pun intended).

Will it work? Who knows, without knowing motives of those two, it is hard to say.

the girl initiated the camsex first

[Torento <3]

the girl initiated the camsex first

Haha. Where is she from?

This is funny.

Camsex, what a joke!

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

Haha. Where is she from?

This is funny.

Camsex, what a joke!

she's from vietnam. he says she's not after him for a green card because she calls him 15times a day and tells him she doesn't mind going back to vietnam. she tells him it's more than just camsex and he believes her. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[Torento <3]

Camsex is nothing.

Random kids on chat room do that.

People that have camsex/cyber are funny and have issues (unless it's like a girlfriend/boyfriend think and then one of the partners had to go back to their country or something, making it now long-distance).

25 year old's doing camsex. How lame! Both of them are jokes.