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Romance On The Internet X3 Why not? ♥ Anyone met their current bf/gf online?

#1 User is offline   chilovesjj 

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Post icon  Posted 12 October 2008 - 07:46 AM

This bothers me a little.

People still seem to think that the internet is a haven for paedophiles and weirdos.
That you can't trust anyone you meet online.
And that any couple that meets online, is not serious and cannot last.
That any connection you establish through the internet rather than RL,
somehow doesn't compare to meeting people in person first.


But the internet is a wonderful, wonderful thing! laugh.gif
And there are almost no limits, to what you can do with it.


I became kinda famous in fall last year (singing in Korean, DGDY, all that jazz. Ilu YouTube! XD)
And while I was in discussions with a company to be brought over to start training
I started talking to a guy on myspace. Turns out we had loads in common, a great connection,
and lived really close too! Started talking more on MSN and meeting up loads in person too.

And eventually I chose him over the potential singing career.
Because there was just something about him, I couldn't leave him behind.
He's my first smile.gif So it was really nervewracking! But it's all gone brilliantly and...
We got engaged recently ^_______^!!! <3


Also, Sharon [the other half of DGDY] was contacted by a Korean named SungJoo
Who really loved her voice ^^ they got talking on msn and skype, and started falling for each other!
So they got together too, taking it in turns to visit each other.
I've known Sharon for years, and I've never seen her so happy!
Even though SungJoo lives in London and she lives in the Netherlands,
they make it work, and she's going to move over here to England next year!! smile.gif


Anyone else have stories of how they or people they know got together?

Internet = Love biggrin.gif ...xDDD


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#2 User is offline   Raix 

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Posted 12 October 2008 - 08:06 AM

OMO CHIIIIIIIIIIIII YOU'RE ENGAGED?!? <3 Congrats.

Ut's really cool you and Sharon have working relationships from meeting online.

Personally though, I don't think I could do it. If it was through friends, I might not mind. But if it was completely random, there are too many things that can be lied about on the net. =/
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 08:07 AM

It can happen, people are just skeptical cause of all the misinterpretations and propaganda about the internet.
I know people who met off games and got married. (: ... and my friends got kids! Ha.
My aunt and my uncle met off the internet too, and have a beautiful baby boy.

The internet is a wonderful thing.
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 08:08 AM

congrats on you.


iunno, its not worth it for me.
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 08:10 AM

But didn't you say the guy you met went to the same school but just never really talked? lol. So does that really count? =p you guys are already engaged after a year? xDD (btw~ congrats ) and cooooool you get to meet your other DGDY half ~ lol

I guess the internet could be a good thing but you have to be very very wary and cautious.. I don't think I'd ever date someone from online :X

any-avocado a storyyyyyyy..

My cousin likes to play these online yahoo games (LOL) and she met this guy there. They ended up falling for each other, except he was out of state. They would visit each other occassionally, and eventually they got married :] theirs was the best wedding i've ever gone to muahahha. the only thing that makes me ]:< is that she moved to his state ;_; they had the wedding here, but moved there. i guess it was a trade off!? lol

they've been happily married for 4 years and have a son that's about 2 yrs old now I belive :]
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 08:24 AM

Awesome. i havent heard of you until now. im checking out ur youtube

thats such a sweet fairytale smile.gif

what was involved in your record they were offering you ?
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 09:13 AM

that's so cute ^^ but yeah it's hard to trust who you meet on the internet
I know this girl who went to my school...she met a guy on myspace who lived in texas and before her senior year she went to go live with him and now they're engaged
but she ran away from home...without telling her parents...that's setting yourself up for some trouble haha
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 10:25 AM

My sister currently lives with her boyfriend whom she met online. And they are perfect for each other!

So yes, the interweb is wonderful.



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Posted 12 October 2008 - 10:42 AM

I totally understand, not to be mean but I think the girls that
meet those pedos or what ever are quite naive and they get so caught up
and they don't know how to discover real true people.

My boyfriend and I met on soompi :]
and we've been together for more than a Year and half.
We've meet each other in real life numerous amounts of time
and I've never felt this way about anyone before.
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 10:53 AM

ok this is where it's different. he is LOCAL to you. both of you have similiar culture upbringings. that's DIFFERENT.

and plus, people get manipulative online, if they can find you online they can find others easily as well
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 11:40 AM

thanks baby sigh~~<33 i can't believe you and i are engaged, i mean it's like one, you’re like a dream come true Two, just wanna be with you Three, girl it’s plain to see That you’re the only one for me and Four, repeat steps one through three Five, make you fall in love with me If ever I believe my work is done Then I’ll start back at one.

I'm just playing with you, but i wish that i was happy as you right now. Sigh i want to taste that happiness
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 11:44 AM

QUOTE (LUVSSOURCREAM @ Oct 12 2008, 11:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok this is where it's different. he is LOCAL to you. both of you have similiar culture upbringings. that's DIFFERENT.

and plus, people get manipulative online, if they can find you online they can find others easily as well


Just because you had a bad experience doesn't mean the rest of us have. tongue.gif


I notice a lot of older people think that there are paedophiles on the internet all the time ... probably because they've been watching too much of the "How to catch a predator" show, haha.

I met my boyfriend a looong time ago when I was just entering high school online. We hit it up, met each other every few months and I just moved down here this year to be with him. tongue.gif Nothing too special, hahahaha.
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 01:55 PM

COOOOL;; it's you.. you still exist biggrin.gif

congrats on the engagement!

congrats on you both meeting your significant others...

i still think iinternet relationships don't work though tongue.gif
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 02:25 PM

me and my bf met online

it was really weird because when we met in person we found out that our dads were actually good friends and my dad was best friends with his uncle and they were going to set me up with his cousin

haha small world

we've been together for 2 years and are currently living together saving for a wedding and house biggrin.gif

but yeh, just because it happens well for some people doesn't mean that everyone is genuine so be carefull!
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 02:46 PM

holy CRAP

i demand your story be adapted into a film. directed by steven spielberg hehe

mm met people online, invited them out for a drink or muckaround. ended up pretty good =D

but no gf. i like to see and talk to someone 1st before chatting online a lot =P
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 03:38 PM

Met a lot of my previous and current girlfriend(s) and other romantic partners from the internet, however we had no romantic relations on the internet. It wasn't until after we met that things 'hit off'. Internet is a great thing if you play it safe smile.gif
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 04:04 PM

I met the love of my life online

Even though things didnt work out

He still is the love of my life =)
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 04:05 PM

QUOTE (rokky123 @ Oct 13 2008, 10:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I met the love of my life online

Even though things didnt work out

He still is the love of my life =)


Until you meet the next guy? biggrin.gif

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Posted 12 October 2008 - 04:11 PM

QUOTE (Torento <3 @ Oct 13 2008, 02:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Until you meet the next guy? biggrin.gif

Haha

Hah Naii

I dont think ill ever find anyone like him =)
But Me and distance doesnt go well together,I just cant handle it so yeah ..

Anywayz to the topic started,Ur story is pretty cool
Bless ya both <3

and i saw the pix ^^ u two look really cute ^^
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Posted 12 October 2008 - 05:00 PM

wanna know the real truth? People use internet because they can't do anything irl.
internet = fail.
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