[supa'Wanki]

Have you guys ever felt this way? I feel so independent, insensitive, emotionless, dull, and boring. When I talk to people, I have conversations with them instead of laughing our asses off and joking around all the time. When I talk to a girl, its the same, like i don't flirt, and i just talk to them and get to know them. Did I mention I get annoyed easily? I hate obnoxious loud people. With the personality of what I have, I dont think any girl would like me. It's a reason why I have never been in a real relationship but in multiple of flings. Makes me think to myself that I could never be in a real relationship. This is just a thought that's been going through my head and I need to let it out. Do you guys ever feel the same way I do?

[nhii]

I think i am the exact opposite of what you're saying lol >_<"

But it also depends on the mood and context of the situation, as well as who it is i'm holding the conversation with.
With people that i've just met, i'm more friendly, neutral and chatty. Close friends, i can be an idiot, laid-back yet i can hold deep, serious and meaningful conversations.

I guess you're just the type of guy who is naturally mature and prefer to communicate in a "no-nonsense & to-the-point" type of manner.
imo, yes you are capable of being in a relationship despite what you think of yourself (independent, insensitive, emotionless, dull, and boring).

Man, do i even make sense? LOL >__>

[Flicksityy]

I'm a girl, and I feel as though I'm incapable of being in one D:
I'm just what you call 'lazy', I will not sacrifice my time, my effort, my attention on a person.
I feel bad because that they plan the dates and everything, I don't do anything at all, I feel as though I don't need to.
I don't do the first moves, I'm not exactly boring and everything and I do envy cute couples out there, but I would not think that I'll give up my enjoyment of being single and independence for someone else.

I order words I can't be stuffed for a serious relationship, especially when it applies clingy-ness, man I hate that.

[yujiniffer]

Maybe this is just me, but I'm not quite sure I understand what you mean when you say that you don't flirt with girls, you get to know them. Because to me, this seems "relationship" instead of "fling". In a fling you just flirt around right? nothing serious. Yet you say you dont do that but you're only involved in flings.
Who doesn't get annoyed by loud obnoxious people?

And alot of people get annoyed easily. I'm fairly intolerant of conceited people whereas all my friends are very tolerant of it. I'll never understand that. But hey, I guess thats how things work: some people are able to handle different personalities better than others. It doesn't mean no girl will ever like you. I think we criticize ourselves most harshly. Sometimes I dont think I see good things about myself that other people are able to see. So don't think you're dull or boring.

I think maybe you just havent found a person you'd really like to be in a relationship with.

[supa'Wanki]

Maybe this is just me, but I'm not quite sure I understand what you mean when you say that you don't flirt with girls, you get to know them. Because to me, this seems "relationship" instead of "fling". In a fling you just flirt around right? nothing serious. Yet you say you dont do that but you're only involved in flings.

I used to play girls. after a while it got boring, and I ended up with nothing but flings after flings. So here I am now being the lame person I am trying to actually get to know a girl and "wait for the right girl to come along". hahaha this makes me laugh.

Makes me feel better that theres people that feels the same way I do.

[sidney]

I'm a girl, and I feel as though I'm incapable of being in one D:
I'm just what you call 'lazy', I will not sacrifice my time, my effort, my attention on a person.
I feel bad because that they plan the dates and everything, I don't do anything at all, I feel as though I don't need to.
I don't do the first moves, I'm not exactly boring and everything and I do envy cute couples out there, but I would not think that I'll give up my enjoyment of being single and independence for someone else.

I order words I can't be stuffed for a serious relationship, especially when it applies clingy-ness, man I hate that.

i am exactly the same as you on this. i'm in a relationship, and i think my s/o is sorta suffering from it. I can't stand more than 2 phone calls a day. I get annoy easily.. I'm the kind of person that needs a lot of space. i'm trying to change to be in this relationship. I guess one day when you find someone you really like or love.. You will be willing to compromise and sacrifice to be with them. I even call him sometimes now =) i'm slowly changing a little......it just need to be with the right person.

[BattleRoyale]

yeahh i kinda think im incapable of being in a relationship.. and i never would've thought i would be like that. sometimes i jst think im not relationship material = =''

mee too, i seem emotionless, insensitive at times when it comes to guys expressing their feelings or whatnot.. and im more independent and for sure, i think i am dull and boring. = ='' cause whenever i see myself interested in some guy, @ first our conversations start off really good, we laugh and jk.. but eventually it dies out.. then we hardly talk anymore either cause we have nothing else to talk about, it gets boring or conversations just stop. derno if thats me or what, but it has happened all. the. time. so sometimes i just give up on that and just go on my usual independent ways.. not that im in a rush looking for someone or anything.. jst that i think its gonna take me a looong while until i find that significant other for me = ='' oh wells hoooo~

ok i jst ranted. derno if that has anything to do with wat ur talking about x| LOL

[Torento <3]

Sorry, but the longest I've gone without a relationship since I was 14 was 2 weeks

[koneee]

It's a sign that you're mature, and that the girls who you're annoyed with... are just annoying.
At least you know what kind of person you are and you know what you want.
The only thing you have left to do is find someone who appreciates the characteristics that you hold.

I'm the type of person who enjoys stupid conversations, but I definitely love meaningful, serious conversations too. It shows people you're intellectual!

[ketchup?]

And I thought I was the only one! PHEW.

[ShadowMax76]

before i used to think that, but then i came to realise a couple of things.

when you see death , you won't give a mini cooper about your pride
you'll drop it and laugh for no reason

_ humility is a virtue,
relationships are our weaknesses but what we're most proud about.
m... contradictory..

_it might not make sense now. x3 but it will.

[starforme]

I feel like... the same way with you although I'm a girl. x: As in I'm too impatient with idiots so I don't even try once I see that they're not very 'enlightened.' Which rules out a lot of the population in my school/the people I know/see. So yeah... relationship-less but with reason. It's okay. I think (hope) there will be people who aren't as shallow/obnoxious that we'll meet.

[supertammie]

It's not so much being in a relationship that I'm incapable of... it's staying in one. For several different reasons, I always end it pretty quick. On average, my relationships last a max of 2 weeks. The longest one is my current one (1 month), and even now I don't let him call me girlfriend.

I only respond to pimp.

-commitment-phobic-

[FusionGT2]

Sometimes I feel that I cant commit and that makes me wonder if I'll ever be in a lasting relationship. Who knows though, only time can tell.

[abusegirl]

you just don't give a damn.

you need to find a chick who also doesn't give a damn.

now put on a shirt.

[eximius]

I don't think it's so much 'incapable' of being in a relationship.
I'm thinking it's more along the lines of you needing to find someone who can share your same outlook on things.
That, and like you said, you get annoyed easily. I guess, meaning you won't bother to tolerate a girl who isn't 'up to your standards,' strictly romantic or not.
Pretty much what abusegirl said.

[PoooBear]

you just don't give a damn.

you need to find a chick who also doesn't give a damn.

now put on a shirt.

Your posts always crack me up xD


and I know how that feels. sigh.
I just... don't care anymore... ya know?

[supa'Wanki]

haha its cool knowing others feel the same way. Now I don't feel so weird anymore.

[la folie]

I'm a girl, and I feel as though I'm incapable of being in one D:
I'm just what you call 'lazy', I will not sacrifice my time, my effort, my attention on a person.
I feel bad because that they plan the dates and everything, I don't do anything at all, I feel as though I don't need to.
I don't do the first moves, I'm not exactly boring and everything and I do envy cute couples out there, but I would not think that I'll give up my enjoyment of being single and independence for someone else.

I order words I can't be stuffed for a serious relationship, especially when it applies clingy-ness, man I hate that.

I kind of feel that way too. I don't have enough dedication and effort I think?
In terms of meeting guys and getting close with them (friends etc), it's kinda difficult 'cause I grew up without much male interactions? I used to never talk to guys and never have any guy friends. but now I'm slowly changing for the good. Even so though, I still think I can't interact with guys very well :/ my conversations with a guy die instantly. I don't have much to talk about lol therefore there are always awkward silences. It's not that I'm very shy 'cause if they get to know me better, I'm actually out going. Or sometimes, say a guy meets me and wanna get to know me better, i think they find out that my personality and behaviours are (very) different from how I look? Most people say they wanna approach me 'cause I "stand out" and I'm "unique and interesting".
Ah, oh well. I'm not desperate.

Did I go off topic.. XD

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

yes, that's me and i am a woman

i was independent, unwilling to compromise, egotistic

but then........i was only being scared

the right person will change that, trust me