[saolaoane]

So yesterday I was working and these two guys came in to buy a snowboard, boots, and the bindings. After they bought it and left, one of them I noticed came back. I saw him looking at our sunglasses and whatnot and I thought to myself, oh he must be shopping for more accessories when he goes snowboarding. And then I was doing a return for a customer and it was taking a little while to get it processed and also there was a line building up and I had to call backup cashier. I noticed the snowboarding guy was next in line to pay and he had to move over to the other side to pay for his stuff. A few minutes later I saw him come back again and this time I was ringing him up. He was buying one ugly wallet and after he handed me the wallet to scan he comes out and asks, "Would you like to have some coffee with me?" I was so shocked. My face basically did this My initial thought was , "Are you joking me?" I looked down at the phone to see what time it was and coincidence, my lunch was in 4 minutes. I told him that and asked if he wanted to wait outside for me. After he paid and walked out, I was still hella I went upstairs to clock out and I told one of my managers and she was laughing hysterically. Then I came back down and told my other manager, and he said, "well, if you don't come back in 30 minutes, then I know what happened to you."

So we walked to Starbucks and started talking and after sitting down and really started talking, turns out we have A LOT of things in common. I mean, we even like the same season of the year, Winter. And then after Starbucks, of course I had to get back to work. When I got home I checked my cell phone and I got text from him saying, "Wow ur like amazing.", "Hey im srry too bug u again but if u really want me too stop talking to u I will I mean I can understand. Bc I did juss come out of no where and ask u too coffee lol." And then I called him, talked for about an hour. And I mean, he's nice and all, but he just kept saying I'm beautiful. He would literally say it every 2-3 minutes. It's creeping me out. I mean, great, nice of him to say that but it's constant and I'm thinking, am I dealing with a pyscho? And I added him on my myspace and so did my cousin, who I live with, and she commented him and vice versa. And these were the things he was saying:

"hey how r u doin . well too answer it im great since i actually became not shy and talked to ur cousin lol .
by the way tell her shes beautiful bc she doesnt beleive me "

"yea and im gonna keep on tellin her she is . and thank you . god i cant stop thinkin bout her lol . like when i firstsaw her i got butter flys .
shes amazing too me �

�yea she deffinately is .
i hope she eventually likes me idk bc shes like perfect and i would like to buy her gifts and write her poems and make sure she knows how beautiful she is� Okay, this cracked me up. I started laughing to where my stomach was hurting.

�ty .
i havent been in a relationship for 3 years and theres something about her �

�cool . yea i basically spent 90 just too talk to her and ask her then i paid 100 so my friend will go wait for me so i can drink coffee with her .
i was so nervous but like u no how washington is so cloudy when i talk to her my world is sunny � <-- that was corny to me. made me chuckle

�like i dont even know her views about me lol .
but idc shes amazing and i cant stopp thinkin about her shes on my mind like crazy im gonna screw upat work tommorrow lol jk but she will be on my mind�

�i will try lol . we dont do much anyway . we train sometimes i juss gotta run 5 miles tommorrow but thinkin about her will be my motivation .
so how is she doing ? tell her shes beautiful lol im not gonna stop till she knows she is �

�y she doesnt need to do anything she can be covered in mud and she would look great too me �

�yea she is well i have too let my friend go on the computer .
if she gets bored or anything and she wants to talk she cann call me im usually up till 1"

And when we were on the phone, he said he would never ask a girl to get coffee, but that I was different. There was something about me that made him ask me. And he changed his display name on myspace to "she so amazing".

So I don't know if it's just me or if he's really weird or something. The reason why I'm saying it might be me is because I've never gotten this. I've never gotten, "you're so beautiful and i wanna remind you everyday." To me it's plain creepy if it's repetitive. Can you guys give some opinions on this. Is he pyscho? Or am I just not receiving this well? Or something else?

And to give you guys a bit more info. he's in the Army. 20 yrs old. and uh.......I'm Asian. he's Caucasian. And actually my preference is asian.


EDIT::

well, my cousin keeps telling me and like some of you here, that i should give him a like a week and if things don't become less creepy/psycho-ish, i'll just say im not looking to be in a relationship. im going on a double date with him tonight. i'll be back to tell you guys how it went.

that is if you guys want to hear it.

[Kawakji]

He's a psycho who's out for a trophy asian girlfriend. Give him the slip!

[Nerdy]

Wow, creepy dude.

Just like poster above said--he's looking for a trophy Asian girl to take back to his den of creepiness.

[her_heart]

why can't a guy be amazed by a girl? why is it when he likes a girl and thinks a girl is beautiful he's under the psychotic category?

he's just a nice guy and he's just amazed with himself that he could even get a girl like you to talk to him. it ain't weird. if you don't like him that way you need to make it clear with him that you're not interested but interested in being good friends (thats if you are). the repetitiveness is annoying, easy as that just make it clear to him that you don't like it. i couldn't stand a person calling me that either everyday.

[leejunkified]

Give him the benefit of the doubt... for a week or so :X

I mean, just get too know him a bit better to see if he�s creepy or just too amazed by you XD
And tell him to cut the "you�re pretty" thing, for reals, because it creeps you out :X
He needs to calm down, really. But that doesn�t mean he has to be a creep... he�s just overenthusiastic and that can be a bit scary, so tell him to cut it and see if he does that or not. If he doesn�t, I�d ignore him after a week or so.

[Blu_Velvet_Sea]

I think he's just really caught up in you. I don't think he's done anything that is psychotic or creepy. He's just laying it on pretty thick.

[ilovemesomekorean]

oh you live in washington? haha me too...


but imo i think its weird.. i would let him down nicely though cause you never know.. haha dont mean to you scare you though. but i guess its nice and all. maybe you could just tell him to tone down a little.



egh.. idk..

[coreancc]

It's really impossible to know at this point. ^ I agree with the three posters above me. Only time will tell if he is or is not psycho. Give him a chance, but do so cautiously, haha. Be a skeptic - if he wants you, he's going to have to prove that he's not psycho. The reason I say this is that, believe it or not, some of the sweetest married couples I know started out this way - with a guy who was a bit overly excited at first, lol.

EDIT: ilovemesomekorean snuck in before my post, so I'm referring to the 3 posts above her.

[Daikirai]

Uhhhhhhhhhhhh. Freaky.


Was he good looking? I'm seriously asking that.





He sounds kinda.. creepy. Obsessive creepy.. like what the hell creepy. Watch.. you reject him, and he'll start stalking you.. Oh geez. Be careful?

[saolaoane]

^ hahah yea. that's what im thinking. careful. he's in the Army and he's does uh....what is it called...mortar? where you drop grenades down a tube and it BOOM!!

[Nerdy]

why can't a guy be amazed by a girl?

I'm amazed by girls all the time, but there's a pretty clear distinction between that and being desperate. Desperation is unattractive to pretty much everyone, and this guy radiates an aura of it. He spent $90 on something in the store, just so he could talk to her. That's kinda...out there.

[saolaoane]

^ and don't forget that he gave his friend a 100 bucks to go away for 30-40 minutes while he had coffee with me.

[aznxkaiser]

How hot are you? That makes all the difference

[saolaoane]

^ that's the thing. i don't think i'm attractive. i don't even think im on the scale of hot. that's why the things he says creeps me out. he just told me a few minutes ago how perfect i am and how i was the motivation for him to today of running his 10 miles. and the dude isn't all attractive either. and i'm not into caucasians like i said. i prefer dating my own race.

[aznxkaiser]

Just stop talking to him cold turkey. NEVER meet him. Ever. And if he comes to the store again, NEVER look at him in the eyes.
Hes a stalker type

[The Fey]

he writes like a dumbass. spray him in the face with mace next time he approaches you.

[abusegirl]

he's like amazed. lol

it's cute but something tells me he isn't the smartest guy.

just feel it out for a bit. if something makes you feel like you're in danger and need to run...no matter how small it is (that "omfg im gonna die" kind of primal instinct)...then run.

otherwise if he makes you a bit uncomfortable...just tell him. but yeah....sounds like he just really doesn't know what to do around chicks....or he's just a dumbass.

[DAJUNG.]

Well maybe he just seems to be coming on too strongly since he hasn't been in a relationship in like 3 years as he said, so he's excited and out of practice. Let him know if the whole "you're gorgeous/beautiful/blahblah" thing is bothering you; the whole situation seems to be making you uncomfortable enough as it is.
Oh, and um don't take this offensively, but if a 20 year old was writing about me with that kind of grammar, it would have been a deal-breaker right there. :x

[bbyxwinnie]

runn awayy =o he's obsessed! lols you must be really pretty haha

[flyxme.]

wtf? hes so corny and creepy
i wouldnt have went out to coffee with a stranger