[jawnjohn]

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I personally think the two that told you DID do the right thing.
Because I know your guy friend (who is going out with the girl) would have wanted to tell you somehow or another-
and he SHOULD have told you. You know what I mean? Like he couldn't have lied to you until he was certain you were over, because he CAN'T know, you may SAY you're over her, but you could only be just saying that so you don't make him feel guilty.
But yeah anywayyyy.



I personally think your friends did the right thing to tell you, and the two hating on your friends are being a little immature.
Sure that truth may have hurt, but it would have hurt even more if it had been kept secret for longer and you found out later and you guys probably wouldn't be on good terms later on - and had that secret been kept for longer, then the longer the grudge would go on.

You want the group to be back again, right?
Then I think you should tell the two that are hating on your friends that told you the secret that you don't mind (even if you do, I don't think you do, right?), and that you're over it and yuhhh... If you know what I mean?
Like if I was in your position, I would probably tell them, "Look it's ok now, me and my friend are on good terms again and it's all in the past =) I'm actually thankful they told me earlier." something like that.

And I'm not sure how bad the situation is between the two groups that your one big group split in to - by swearing at each other, do you mean like they're full hating on and cussing each other in their face? And are you certain that you're the only one in the group who wants the group to get back together? If you are, then I guess you could try REAL hard and talk to everyone and tell them what you feel - "I want our group to be back" but if you know others who really want the group back together, talk it out with them and maybe you guys can come up with something T_T?




Poor Jawnny T_T. Never knew you were going through all this =(
Hope everything goes well, and sorry if I haven't helped much T_T.

[MaryMagdalin]

LMAO
sorry but
that is way too much drama for high school
they will most likely not be together for very long.

[Meenuh]

that's a lot of crying.

i think the two that told you were just being good friends. the other guy is fake and so is the girl. keeping something from you that you will obviously find out is a stupid thing to do. they were selfish because those two wanted to be together without the trouble of you getting in the way so they decided to lie to you. they were the ones being selfish by not letting their relationship be known from the beginning instead of sneaking around behind peoples' backs like they were commiting adultery or something.

seriously it's not that big of a deal. you're young. they're young. they're gonna break up sooner or later. to me, friends don't hide things from eachother and they don't curse at eachother. i'd rather have some alone time or go find some new friends or something. this is way too much drama to even bother with.

[her_heart]

yeah sure is a lot of crying,

friends don't keep secrets from each other!
didn't we learn this in the episodes of barney????



lucky they didn't keep it from you for like 2 years like that one girl

[Poop-Shoop-A-Loop]

^ LOL

I'm amazed that you took this nicely. but then you're a guy.. I'm sure if a girl had posted this it would've been like those other threads: my friend(s) betrayed me! she knew I liked him but she went after him anyway! she's no longer my best friend D:<

but anyway the people talking crap about your 2 friends who told you are stupid.
you're cool with the guy
you're cool with them being together

if the reason they kept it from you was to "keep you from being hurt", but in the end you took it well and accepted them, i dont understand why they're mad..........

if anything you have reason to be mad cause the secret was kept from you and you were lied to. if those 2 hadn't told you, how long would have they have kept it a secret? goodness gracious, horrible friends. don't understand why you want the group back together if you have friends like those. dirty liars

LMAO
sorry but
that is way too much drama for high school
they will most likely not be together for very long.

i dont think they're in high school anymore.
you should probably properly read the first line. O.o

[xChristineee]

Your two friends who told you were nice.
I think they did the right thing.

Wtf @ the girl's friends -___-
and your friend; he shouldn't be keeping secrets from you

I have no idea how you can get your group back together, sorry... but I guess over time, they'll forget & you all can hang out together again