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Being Dumped For Your Bestfriend Or Dumped For Your Worst Enemy?

#1 User is offline   HealthyLiving8 

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Posted 15 October 2008 - 09:58 AM

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Posted 15 October 2008 - 10:02 AM

worst enemy... then you at least still have your best friend. being dumped for my best friend would leave me with 2 enemies, and no gf =/


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Posted 15 October 2008 - 01:25 PM

I think you being dumped or passed up for your enemy is worse. Both have happened to me. It felt way worse when it was my enemy. I felt just downright disgusted about it just because it was like.. hello this guy is duping you.
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 02:30 PM

QUOTE (viper2788 @ Oct 15 2008, 11:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
worst enemy... then you at least still have your best friend. being dumped for my best friend would leave me with 2 enemies, and no gf =/

btw, wrong section i believe...


I guess this question has some merit, although tenuous, to the subject of this forum...

but anyways, I agree with you... at least with your best friend, you can plot your revenge.

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Posted 15 October 2008 - 02:39 PM

Enemy, because it's easier and more natural to hate them.
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 02:43 PM

Enemy. That way, I'd have a reason to kill that person. If it was my best friend, I'd be seriously wtf'd and maybe kill her/him by accident.
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 02:43 PM

I'd say being dumped for your best friend is worse. If you're dumped for your enemy, at least you can hate on your bf/gf & the enemy. Being dumped for your best friend hurts more because you actually trust/care for you friend. It's like being stabbed in the back.
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 03:28 PM

OUCH!!!

i rather be dumped for my enemy,

that way i'd at least have my best friend to plot revenge with! lol tongue.gif j/k

you could always find more enemies, but finding a good friend? no way!
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 03:30 PM

being dumped for my bff would be hell.
i'd be pissed at both of them, and cut them out ofmy life.

but being dumped for my enemy, ill just be like she took in the left overs and get over it.

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Posted 15 October 2008 - 05:04 PM

i have to say being dumped for your best friend is worse because that best friend knows everything. at least with the enemy, you have all reason to hate them. you can hate them and show that hate to the world as opposed to your best friend where you can hate her, but you'll end up twice as hurt.
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 05:45 PM

enemy..Atleast you'll have your bud left then you can hate on the enemy more
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 06:01 PM

Definitely enemy. It would be less strenuous for me to hate them all the moreso, and at least I'd still have a best friend by my side to hate them with me, haha.
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 06:03 PM

I don't have an enemy
so getting dumped for no one is better than someone important ;].
but yeah i'd have to say an enemy if i had one.
With my best friend it's like,
how could you do me like that =[

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Posted 15 October 2008 - 06:34 PM

Best friend, Because it's not one betrayal, but two and the emotional turmoil in the aftermath is absolutely gut wrenching
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 09:34 PM

Enemy.
But whatever, the guy is missing out either way [;
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 09:37 PM

bestfriend. cause then like one of the posts said. i'll have 2 enemies and 1 pinkberry of an ex.
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 10:15 PM

i think being dumped for my best friend is worse than being dumped for my enemy. When my bf dump me for my enemy, i can go to my best friend and cry on her shoulder smile.gif . But if my bf dump me for my best friend, it's not like i can turn to my enemy and cry on her shoulder. lol
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Posted 15 October 2008 - 10:30 PM

Depends on how much I like the guy. If it's a lot, then I rather he dump me for my enemy; if barely... then my best friend.

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Posted 15 October 2008 - 11:42 PM

enemy gosh i dislike her so much UGH i'd rather the guy go for my friend cause @ least my friend is a good person and isn't 2 faced shiet
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Posted 16 October 2008 - 02:49 AM

You know.. abit off topic, but i was just thinking of something crazy. LOL

Imagine you supposedly KNEW that your partner was going to dump you for your enemy, and then she asked you to meet her (to tell you upfront), you opened up your mobile phone and typed the message "i'm breaking up with you", and when you both meet, you push send. Then she'll be like, "i'm breaking up with you, for your enemy"

and you'll be like "excuse me? check your email bia*chhhh" i officially dumped you 10secs ago, and now i'm dating YOUR enemy. "how do you like them apples?"

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ok.. this is crazy LOL
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