[bonitagirlx]

if i talk to a good looking or even okay looking guy i start developing a growing interest to him

i am 21 and i still act that way..

its pretty pathetic but i dont know how to fix it or what my problem is...

it could be because i am shy and dont talk to many guys

but i dont know how to fix that!

its hard for me to change..

anyone else have this problem?

[fizzl3]

no I don't have this problem at all lol not much help

have you had a bf before? i think this could be a considerable factor.

and yeh, maybe your shyness has an input too, do u get excited when people pay attention to you?

erm, can't think of anything else, it probably didn't but i hope that helps u a bit =]

[superjenny]

I have this problem
Especially with guys I don't even know. *sigh.*
But it usually goes away soon. Haha, not the entirely, but only a little bit of the crush remains and it soon vanishes into nothing. 8)

[BakaPrincess]

Hah, same here!
I can't help it, it just happens! Hehe.
But it goes away soon for me and it ranges too.
Sometimes it's a one-day crush and sometimes it's a one week crush.
Nothing serious.

Don't worry, you're just doing that because, well, it's normal.
It sucks, but it's normal. Hehe.
You just haven't found that right one yet.

[babybuggyY2K]

i used to. it's ok though. you just have to start talking to more guys or maybe have a couple more dates or boyriends... then you'll start to be able to tell the difference between friendship and romance with different guys

[ShadowMax76]

if you play down your emotions from the very beginning, you'll be fine.

o_O' helps to know a lotta guys too. having a sense of 'brother' type guys who have gfs and those ones that act gay. LOl

+ make friends with 'ugly' guys you're not attracted to? o-O though that might be messy.

[worldpeace82]

hahaha i kinda sorta have this problem. but those crushes usually fade away in a week....

[xChristineee]

I DEFINATELY have this problem xD
My crushes change from week to week

[popolala]

u need to develop standards & think you are special and your price is high!!
Only that way, u will believe u deserve to b with the best! Treat yourself well!
Dont fall for anyone so casually ~~ eventhough we may all been there, done that! .. we change eventually..

[youraDouche.]

yes.
i also get my heart broken too easily....

[hunny]

that happened to be when i was in HS.
now i'm 20, i hardly develop feelings for any dude.
and i'm not shy at all, so, try to be.. shameless?

[I.like.foood]

I crush and get over easily :S
But yeah, currently I like my bffl. That's soo awkward for the rest of my friends T_T I'm not sure if that's just a normal crush anymore either :S

[f_r_E_a_K]

I COMPLETELY KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!

It's soooo annoying...because the guy won't have the slightest of feelings for me, but I take EVERYTHING they do as a "flirt" to me. It's so pathetic , like everytime they smile at me or even attempt to TALK at me would be "flirting".

Obviously, it's not...so...sigh..

[leeahh]

dude, that's like me xD
just even with little compliments i blush like an idiot
and start crushin on them hahaha
so i tend to have more than one crush at a time

"i'm not a player, i just crush a lot" LOL

but dw~~ it gets easier i guess haha
i don't crush as much as i used to xD

[SillyyJenn]

LOL. i used to crush on people so easily ><
sure it's good to know you have a secret crush to daydream about but reality is (usually)you don't know them that well.
i got over it during the summer. enjoying this free-ness x]

[xAdorableHero]

It happens to me..alot ><
Well I cant help it. Even if its someone i dont know, i go crazy ><
But eventually, it dies down... (Not with celebs tho)
If that person i think likes me back..
I start to feel embarassed and start to push that person away ><
Like spend less time with him [:

I also have tiny crushes even when i just see the person on the street or the bus or somewhere a few times or even once.
>< I guess its part of growing up..?

[abviolinplayer]

ughhh don't worry, you're not the only one...
If you're a male with a great personality, half decent looking, and really nice to me, I will likely form a crush on you
I have like 5 crushes right now...so annoying -___-;;

[INSANE]

don't worry, you are not alone. i crush very easily too, but it's not like i just crush on anyone. i crush on people i think i have potential with, so i still have my standards set. i had crushes on two guys at the same time, then i stopped crushing on both of them. the first guy turned out to be a total jerk =x and the second guy.. i don't know, we just stopped talking..

[RoseTHaI2336]

i have the same EXACT problem as you do.
im shy so i understand ur situation!
but i guess what others says, to talk to more guys i think that i should do that.
i dont have as much guy friends, thats why im trying to talk to as much as i can x_x
but i still cant accomplish that, but must do it!!!

[repeat_on_echo]

Ah same here, actually. It's all infatuation but y'know. Still awfuul.