[LAlaLA xD]

So.. I've been together with my ex/first love for 2 years and we broke up 2 1/2 years ago.

I haven't seen him since we broke up which was in 2006.
But, I just saw him a couple of days ago in my city and I just started to feel so much pain.

I mean I thought I was over him but the minute I saw him I suddenly got so sad.
I've been single ever since we broke up. I've had crushes on guys here and there but I feel like it's so hard for me to fall in love again.

I feel so stupid. it's been almost 3 years and I still can't move on from a stupid guy...


How long did it take you to completely forget your ex? Are you dating someone new and are you happy with him/her?

[MaryMagdalin]

It took me about 2 months to completely get over my ex
he left me for another girl who isnt even from this country haha
but anyways that was around the time i started dating my bf
and he told me the best way to get over it completely is to think how much better I was without him and how much it would have hurt if it happened even further into the relationship.

[AsianL0ve]

It took me about 2 months to completely get over my ex
he left me for another girl who isnt even from this country haha
but anyways that was around the time i started dating my bf
and he told me the best way to get over it completely is to think how much better I was without him and how much it would have hurt if it happened even further into the relationship.

WOW the same thing happened w/ my last ex.
I left him because he liked his BEST FRIEND.
for 4 years he liked her, which means when he liked me
he liked her and thought about her the whole time.
I really hurted so bad
and I currently still hurt, I thought there was something wrong with me.
Then she told him she don't like him so
well ouch.

[eximius]

Uh. I've never forgotten any of my exs. Unless you mean how long it took to get over them? o.o
When I was on my 'impulsive dating' phase, it took me a day or so to get over my ex (thanks to rebounding).

I'm dating a guy I've already dated 3 years ago, and I'm happy with him.

[yamaki_LOVE]

Hmm like a long time 3 months? It was like I believe his ex girlfriend she made up lies & he was the same & all these bs from people telling etc ...

But I was glad I broke up with him made me met another guy [ one of his friends; but not so close ]

& my ex's cousin told me to forget bout him & friends & cousin

Basically I was like his rebound & he really didn't like me =\ but whateva its over & done!

[Apple.Mint]

it's been three months and im still working it on
it's especially hard since i see him everyday in school hahha
i think it'll probably take from somewhere of 1-2 years =P

[小甜密]

It doesn't matter how long I've been with that person, 3 months or a year, the maximum time usually takes me 3 weeks to get over the whole thing.

[0nekhmer]

pretty fast. didn't really like her anyway never really good friends either. I have a new and forever lasting love now! so itsallgood

[swt_boo]

So.. I've been together with my ex/first love for 2 years and we broke up 2 1/2 years ago.

I haven't seen him since we broke up which was in 2006.
But, I just saw him a couple of days ago in my city and I just started to feel so much pain.

I mean I thought I was over him but the minute I saw him I suddenly got so sad.
I've been single ever since we broke up. I've had crushes on guys here and there but I feel like it's so hard for me to fall in love again.

I feel so stupid. it's been almost 3 years and I still can't move on from a stupid guy...


How long did it take you to completely forget your ex? Are you dating someone new and are you happy with him/her?

Omg, when i was reading this, i thought i was reading my own life. We're in the same club my ex/first love and i broke up in 2006 as well (we went out for abit over 2.5yrs too, lol!) but i did see him heaps even after our breakup, up untill recently, there's been no contact at all for about 2 months now. So I guess all those times spent with him within the last 4 yrs or so contributed to why i'm still not over him even after all these years. But i do know how u feel. When we first broke up, we stopped seeing eachother for about two months and i thought i was fine, until i had met him randomly on the streets - and it hurt. Even now i question why within the last few yrs, i'm still standing in the same spot, if not sinking even lower, not moving forward in life at all.

i've forgotten what it feels like to crush on someone, to the point where i start to think i'll never feel that something special for anyone, cause all i feel is loneliness.

I'm gettin better, i think, lol so don't worry, you'll eventually move forward, no matter how long it takes. It'll hit you one day, and you'll see how all those times spent moping was time wasted.

Good luck babe! When one has fallen, only way to go is up =]

[ITS VIVIAN! =D]

It didn't take long, mostly because I got pretty close to a guy friend of mine when I was going through the emotional stage of heart aches from the previous relationship. He pretty much cheered me up when I'm really upset, and held my head up high till the end of senior year.

I have to say though, it is easier for girls to get over their ex if they go out there and meet other guys. Also, I think I would still be stuck in that heart ache phase for awhile if I didn't meet my now called boyfriend.

[Kiribati]

Mmm, I'll never forget any of my ex's. Even if things went down the drain between us, they play a big part in who I am today...
But since we're talking about getting over them, it took me three or four months of constant kicking it with friends and going out to get over 'em.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

It took me a year and a half to get over my last boyfriend. Every single day I would think about him, miss him, and wished so badly that he would come back to me. Thinking back, I really don't know what was so good about him. He literally treated me like crap and left me for another girl who used up all his money.

My boyfriend now is simply awesome. He made me realize how a guy should really treat me and what I really deserved.

[zoo]

i have never really gotten over my ex, but that's probably because he was my first boyfriend. things have been super awkward since (like we run into each other and ignore the other's existence), but i guess i'm content with my current boyfriend. it's almost been 3 years

[Daaarian]

Takes me exactly 3 days for me to get across the river.

[Joanne <3]

^ Wow, that's some fast time to be trekkin' across the river! How do you do it?

Mine lasted 2 months (he was my first) and it took me a little over 2 years to get over it. I mean, I won't ever be able to completely forget him. I still think of him from time to time even now, but after those 2 years, I finally realised...

[CKalvin]

Mm i was over her before it ended, which was why i broke up with her.

So my answer would be negative 2 weeks?

And I'm definitely happy where I am now.

[l1lvi3tqt]

i think about a year later that when i met my bf. once you find someone else better than him then u will get over him.

im glad that we are way over because eventhough my bf isnt really an angel but i know he loves me way ,more than my ex did

good luck sweetie. i know its hard.

[L.FOR.LOVE]

with my ex, it took like 2 years ish honestly ?
everytime i saw him i`d always question myself
then yeah
but now im like over him because im with another awesome one (;

[wr3ck3dd]

2 years, 6 months, and 13 days.

But I love my current girlfriend so much and I wouldn't trade all that hurt and pain if it means I wouldn't have met my current girlfriend.

[missinu]

really fast =____+.





a few days?! I can't rmb......