[Slug]

I am in an odd predicament. Things are going quite well with AAA. However, BBB is trying to get in the way. I have mentioned to BBB that I am into AAA, but BBB won't quit. BBB wants to do couple things with me, but I feel very uncomfortable about that, and I've established that. However, this isn't the only problem.

My roommate wants to get with girl CCC, who happens to be best friends with BBB. If my roommate is to get with CCC, I have to wing it with BBB. CCC and BBB doesn't know my roommate very well, thus the reason why I have to be there. CCC suggested we double date, but I don't want to do that; I'd look like a player and a jackass to AAA.

So my question here is, do I become the wing man to help my roommate or just let it be? I want to help my roommate out, but do I do it on my own expense? Am I this so called nice guy? Lol!

I think I already know the answer, but I want to know what other people would do.

Update on page 2...

[pencil_geeks*]

Does A have to know about the date? or you can be a wingman for your roommate and explain to A what the situation is and she'd probably think you're nice for doing that for your roommate.. See if she's okay with it. yeah.

[rokky123]

lol whats up with ppl using AAA's and BBB's
Just make up names

less complicated

[Linnsterr]

i can see why BBB isnt giving up
if i was to want something, i would definitely go after it no matter what.
i wouldn't give up.
and if you really liked AAA then you would had asked her out since she seem like she liking you too right?

[TiFFaNiZeD]

just talk to your roomate man....he handles his own relationship. maybe im not understanding it but i dont' see why ur roomate trying to get with CCC has anything to do with you having to wing it with BBB. if they're just trying to get to know your roomate, can't just be like a friend get together thing?
if you don't like BBB then don't start anything with her.
and if you really like AAA, then like the person above said...ask her out.

[Slug]

We've gone out a few times already and have given each other good company. I'm not trying to rush anything.

CCC and BBB are best friends. CCC feels uncomfortable hanging out with my roommate alone because they don't know each other very well, but I am the mutual friend that can hook them up. That's why I have to wing it with BBB if my roommate is to get with CCC.

I was thinking about asking AAA what I should do, but that seems kind of odd. I don't think she'd like it.

[Pogichinoy]

Simple, go on a double date with your roommate, his interest CCC, and BBB. But also bring along your interest, AAA.

Let's hope the night doesn't end too quickly in bad terms.

[HtyPotter]

No. Guy code doesn't require you to play the wingman in this situation.

[Daikirai]

Tell CCC to get BBB, and the two of them can hang out with your room mate.

[Meenuh]

throw a party. invite A B and C. lol.

[eximius]

In my opinion... You're not exactly obligated to play wingman for your roommate.
CCC sounds like she's just trying to let BBB have a shot with you by using this situation to her advantage.
Have your roomie and C talk online or something and get more comfortable with each other... then they can go on a date by themselves.
You have no romantic interest in B so playing "double date" with her would just lead her on, and as you said, A would think you're a douche.

[小甜密]

To be extremely obvious, NO you don't have to help him. Don't your friend got game too?

[Ayuu~]

common sense is...
tell AAA about how u have to help your friend with CCC...

[The Fey]

To be extremely obvious, NO you don't have to help him. Don't your friend got game too?

THAT ^.

you dont have to be wingman. this will only lead BBB on (thinking she has a chance) and piss AAA off

[cheerydumdum]

i think you should just bring AAA along. BBB might not be all that happy about it, but you've already pointed out that you like AAA. if she's hurt, it's not your problem. it'll probably help get your point across too.

[night]

I think you shouldn't go on that double date with B. She might get the impression that she's finally luring you in, and thus will even annoy u more, but most importantly, A might get hurt. U risk losing your chances with A - and if u really like A, you don't want to send her the wrong msg. If that's the only way to get ur friend with C, then bring A along as your date, i say who cares about B.

[yellowchocolate]

haha
i have a chance to use a line that i've been itching to use.
FOLLOW YOUR HEART!

hurhurhur...

okay, no seriously, i think that... you should go with the girl you want.
it wouldnt work out with someone you dont like anyway.
and you'll probly always harbour resentment towards your roommate for ruining what could-have-been.
not good.

tell BBB again [haha, i like how you've named them xD]
no girl has unbreakable self confidence, its part of being a girl
xD

[leejunkified]

Ask BBB to help you bring them together. Say you´ll go all together somewhere, but not as a date. Tell BBB to bring some other friends, so it doesn´t look like a double date.

Or you could be mean and bring AAA too, but I doubt CCC would like to hang with your friend if she sees BBB is sad.

[twig*star]

common sense is...
tell AAA about how u have to help your friend with CCC...

if i were A i would consider him to be dodgey if he did that to me, nevermind the fact he would be leading B on.

is B a potential bunny boiler or just determined?

[Bellatrix]

Your roomie should handle this himself with C. I think the 4 of you hanging out could give B the wrong idea that she still has a chance. Talking to A about this situation might be okay, depending on A's personality, but she might not like the sound of it. So I think there are other ways to help out your roomie that doesn't involve hanging out with B.