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Would You Consider This As A Form Of Cheating? give me your thoughts :x

#1 User is offline   xBLiSSFUL 

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Post icon  Posted 19 October 2008 - 03:21 PM

If you were at a club dancing, grinding on another when you already have a partner already, would that be some form of cheating? Regardless of the amount of time ( less than a song ) , would that be an effect of anything? Please give me your thoughts about this because I've asked this questions to others and I receive answers of both yes and no, so I would like to get thoughts about this from soompiers.

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i get answers of
no's - because they're just having fun.
yes = because it's just being unfaithful.

would you get to the point of breaking up? or - what would you do?
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#2 User is offline   Pogichinoy 

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Posted 19 October 2008 - 03:30 PM

How intense is the grinding? Can you please be more specific?
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 03:36 PM

Like body to body but with clothes on. His front to my back?
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 03:43 PM

erm..no... but kind off.. it depends how far it went!! but i would b very very angry at him! & i would reconsider the realtionship! If he can do that even if he has a gf.. he can do it again!! simple as that! but personally.. this typa guy wouldnt b my boyfriend in the first place!!

our love must b weak for him to dare do that to anotha girl! so hes dumped for me..

its not a little thing by the way! little things have big meanings!!
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#5 User is offline   hewoniex 

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Posted 19 October 2008 - 03:47 PM

i consider grinding 100% cheating
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 03:55 PM

Yeah, I consider that to be a form of cheating in an exclusive relationship.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 04:15 PM

how is it not cheating

as a guy, who would want their girl to be grinding some random stranger
if that happens ... its punch on time
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 04:34 PM

i wouldn't go as far as to call that cheating but that type of action would lead me to reconsider the relationship.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 04:48 PM

I wouldn't say it's cheating but I'd definitely be mad. So just avoid doing it. Dance with your girls. Just think if you'd like to see him grinding with some girl.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 04:48 PM

not cheating at all
its just dancing
everyone saying its cheating are over reactors and should get over it
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 04:52 PM

I don't think it's EXACTLY cheating, but you're taking it a bit too far. If your boyfriend was grinding another girl like that, would you feel bad about it?

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Posted 19 October 2008 - 05:29 PM

I wouldn't want my boyfriend's crotch grinding into some girls ass. Nor would he want some other guy to grind his crotch into my ass...

It's not exactly 'cheating,' but just unacceptable to the point where someone will be upset... I mean, freaking is like having sex fully clothed, or the imitation of sex... pretending to have sex.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 05:31 PM

It's not cheating, it's just something uncool to do.
Regardless of what it is, your partner has a right to be mad at you :\
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 05:47 PM

I'd consider it cheating mellow.gif ...

Grinding is just too sexual nowadays for it NOT to be considered cheating.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 06:10 PM

sorry that is cheating to me. that unacceptable to me.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 06:14 PM

Yes.

If not, that`s an excuse for me to go rubbing against girls as I please, right?
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 06:15 PM

i dont think itz cheating...
but one would expect not to grind with someone else when they are partnered up already...
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 06:21 PM

QUOTE (Ayuu~ @ Oct 20 2008, 12:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i dont think itz cheating...
but one would expect not to grind with someone else when they are partnered up already...


I just asked my girlfriend, and when people do that or try to grab her ass or front, she tells them to stop. If they don`t, she tells security or staff.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 06:21 PM

i think its cheating. i think that if you inappropriately touch the opposite sex and they're not your bf, it's considered cheating.
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Posted 19 October 2008 - 06:23 PM

QUOTE (cheerydumdum @ Oct 20 2008, 12:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i think its cheating. i think that if you inappropriately touch the opposite sex and they're not your bf, it's considered cheating.


Exactly right.

I don`t want to date sleazy girls, no thanks ]:
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