[paperbunny]

I've known this one guy for about 2 weeks?
Yesterday we both confessed our feelings to each other.
I do realize that everything is happening too fast



But I don't know if this is just a crush that will pass by.

[smiile]

you guys should just date around, and not be official (aka-seeing eachother) and see what happens.

[Sasha100]

When you just randomly start smiling because you thought of what that person said or did, thats when you know you atleast like them a bit more then just friends.

[kathy]

the only way you can REALLY tell is through time.

idk, there are some people who believe in love at first sight though.

just relax, enjoy the relationship (i wouldn't get [i]too[/] serious if i were you though) & only time will tell. Good luck

[hewoniex]

haha ^^ i had like the same situation
we knew eachother for a month though and we were just seeing eachother
aka just going to places first with a big group of people then next with just ourselves.

i think it's better to date someone you dont really know THAT well cus like the relationship becomes so boring since you know everything about them. but it's also good not to rush into anything and do anything that serious.

me & my current s/o have been going out for almost two months and i know that i really like him cus it's to the point where i know that i cant break up with no strings of emotions attached.

hrm well i know that i really do like him because i cant imagine being his friend LOL. when he says things like "but you're my best friendddd." i'm like "stfu i'm not your friend."

hrm, well to stop word vommiting, there's just certain people in the world that you know are hard to find. like the certain type of person who actually understands your humor and intellegence, acknowledges your talents and etc and the one you aren't self conscious in front of.

for all my past bfs, i've always been self concious and shy and so have they. but with my current s/o i beat him up and grab his fat (= HEHE. well..... sorry for word vommiting.. :T

[back,sue]

I felt the same way when I first started hanging out with my current boyfriend.
I waited 3 months before actually going out. He waited for me for 3 months,
and he also waited for me for 3 weeks while I was in Korea.

Wait, and see if he'll wait for you.

[yellowfishieee]

I agree with Kathy, time is the only way to tell. Time and really getting to know the other person, even their bad qualities.

Infatuation fades but love only grows stronger with time =)

[jincx]

i'm actually in a very similar situation, just that i'm not sure if i like him or not, or maybe i just don't know....but as of right now, time is all i have to find out...so yeah....i agree only time will tell

[youraDouche.]

to me,
i know i like someone so much that it hurts.

[Shui]

me and my boyfriend knew each other for like a month
but i think you know you like someone when you can see there flaws and STILL like them

the matter of overlooking the flaws and still have that strong feeling

[Sam Sik]

but i think you know you like someone when you can see there flaws and STILL like them

the matter of overlooking the flaws and still have that strong feeling

I agree with this comment.

One of my friends recently started telling me how much he liked this cute girl that was in our school. Every day he'd facebook stalk LOL, tell me about how he should go on about making a move, etc etc. I told him it was infatuation, but he refused to agree. About 2 weeks later when I asked him about that girl, he said "Nah I'm done with her".

As for me, there's this one girl I've liked for the past 2 years (sad..), and yes I've made moves, yes we've been close friends, and yes we're not really talking anymore like we used to. However, regardless of her looks, her flaws like Shui had mentioned, her personality, etc. I still really really like this girl. And after a couple of months an infatuation would truly die out, but this one is still going strong as ever.

[Misao]

me and my boyfriend knew each other for like a month
but i think you know you like someone when you can see there flaws and STILL like them

the matter of overlooking the flaws and still have that strong feeling

but what if you have strong feelings for their flaws. o.o for some reason, i get infatuated with people's flaws easily. you know acne.. BLACKHEADS gawd i love those blackheads. makes me daydream of squeezing it out<333 -sigh-

[insanelyCRAZY]

you'll know when you know.
you should know when you love a person, without any variables involved. like any question marks or insecurities or flaws and whatnot.

infatuation can turn into love.

sometimes love takes time to sink in and when you really really mean it.

when i first told my bf i loved him..
it felt like i've been saying it to him forever. <3

[princextammy]

when your interests go past those with sexual intent.

[Apple.Mint]

me and my boyfriend knew each other for like a month
but i think you know you like someone when you can see there flaws and STILL like them

the matter of overlooking the flaws and still have that strong feeling

I agree~~
hahahah this also made me realize that i like someone
and not just infatuation
because oh man..he has soo many flaws =P

[:0486]

i've never had a bf before, so don't mind my decisions or w/e, but if i was in your position, i would do like a trial period i guess? LOL i still dont know the difference between friends and like-like

[mojomunkeez]

When you stop fantasizing about raping her and actually do it.