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I Just Cannot Find That Special Someone

#1 User is offline   sigh991 

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Posted 20 October 2008 - 10:24 PM

deleteeeeeeeed, thanks!
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#2 User is offline   theurbandecadence 

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Posted 20 October 2008 - 10:26 PM

hahah, honey, where've you been all my life? (;
just kidding. on a serious note, i'm in the same situation.
but honestly, i'm not waiting around or searching. that's wasting time!


soooo. i'm just having my fun. who cares? we're still young anyway.
someone will show up along the way, for me and you both. but until then, handlesssss!

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#3 User is offline   小甜密 

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Posted 20 October 2008 - 10:31 PM

Picture please.

20 chars.
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#4 User is offline   FusionGT2 

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Posted 20 October 2008 - 10:41 PM

Just be patient. Good things come to those who wait. Shoot I didnt have my 1st gf til i was 18. Some dont find their first til 20+ ... and some dont even care. People always say, "Dont go looking for that special someone, let them come to you." Maybe you should just chill and let it happen.
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#5 User is offline   spearmint20 

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Posted 20 October 2008 - 10:55 PM

i understand how you feel.
im 18 also and ive never been in love.
having a significant other does not guarantee you'll be in love.
just wait and chill and one day soon you will find that special someone :]
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#6 User is offline   DeeIsRadicalYeah 

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Posted 20 October 2008 - 11:23 PM

QUOTE (小甜密 @ Oct 21 2008, 12:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Picture please.

20 chars.


bahaha, picture pls or GTFO.

j/k!

i'm sure the opportunity just hasn't risen. that special someone will come soon and it'll totally be unexpected. smile.gif
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#7 User is offline   KaiLien 

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Posted 21 October 2008 - 12:04 AM

Like the saying always goes...you can't go looking for love. It will come to you eventually. Plus, being with someone has its headaches as well. You are not kidding yourself when you say you have good qualities, those sound like awesome traits! It is harder to make friends at a cc. I think you are on the right track...joining clubs and transferring. Don't worry and keep your hopes up. You aren't the only one that feels that way. A lot of people don't meet their s/o until 20+ anyway.

Should I be more aggressive when pursuing a girl and make my intentions clear eventually? Yes.
Maybe I'll have better luck after I transfer to college? Highly possible!
If you ladies ran into a guy with similar qualities, would you possibly be interested? Of course.
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 12:48 AM

Thanks for the replies so far. Glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way :\
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 01:06 AM


LOL he actually posted a picture ph34r.gif
Perhaps girls are intimidated? I suggest you become more straight foward in your courting, but make sure you don't seem desperate -- that's definitely a turn off :/ It just sounds like you've had bad luck with girls so far, but nothing should really be stopping you as long as you play your cards correctly ;D


muchlove!
-jisoo
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 01:49 AM

QUOTE (NJSK. @ Oct 21 2008, 10:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL he actually posted a picture ph34r.gif
Perhaps girls are intimidated? I suggest you become more straight foward in your courting, but make sure you don't seem desperate -- that's definitely a turn off :/ It just sounds like you've had bad luck with girls so far, but nothing should really be stopping you as long as you play your cards correctly ;D


muchlove!
-jisoo

I KNOW, LOL. xD!

From what I can see [in your picture and post], you seem like the type a LOT of girls would like. But I think that although they like you, they must be intimidated, or think that they stand no chance. Or, maybe, they think you already have a girlfriend. xD

Be more open about being "single and looking", I guess. Since this isn't high school, don't drop "hints" and the like [not like I can say anything because I'm in high school] and just speak of your interest in said person. Straightforwardness is the way to go!
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 01:58 AM

maybe once they leave the class or whatever, just don't give up on them or so ?
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 02:09 AM

Dude, what's wrong with you! the picture of your face is perfectly fine. with a bit of cockiness or confidence, you'll be scoring chicks all over the place.

i'm half kidding. as you can see, i'm typing this at 3AM in the morning. forgive me. ph34r.gif
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#13 User is offline   DeeIsRadicalYeah 

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Posted 21 October 2008 - 02:17 AM

QUOTE (sigh991 @ Oct 21 2008, 02:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Might as well if I'm here sweatingbullets.gif

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Thanks for the replies so far. Glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way :\


dude, wtf, ur fkn cute azz.

get off Soompi and start picking up chicks at a club or something! i'm sure it wouldn't be that hard for u, fahhh.
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#14 User is offline   supasheep 

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Posted 21 October 2008 - 02:39 AM

im 19 and never had a single gf as well...or anything near...loL. i think its quite special being like, single u know? like, no strings attached...'fresh' as well. but hey im worse off all chicks say i look like i have a girlfriend and stuff. i duno aye hahaha. im like...the most single boy u could ever find...=.= gud luck loL. jia you jia you~~~~

ps: fob chicks are easier to chase u know.....
I say guns are better than wives. Why? Cause u can put silencers on guns. HAHA!!!!~
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#15 User is offline   unforgettable_misses 

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Posted 21 October 2008 - 10:04 AM

lol. its because you're looking...
when you're looking you never find what you want
just let it happen naturally...she'll come along
I like like you...
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 10:14 AM

This reminds me so much of me it's scary. ._.
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 10:23 AM

are you too picky with girls? o_O
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 10:33 AM

that s one of the most unike topics posted since a while now heheh and yet very relatable! but hey that s a lot of...demands in one body u know hehehe cut down a little bit, she may appear then happy.gif
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Posted 21 October 2008 - 11:17 AM

QUOTE (sigh991 @ Oct 20 2008, 08:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Some background info I guess:
*Asian
*6 feet, lean, works out
*Eagle Scout, active volunteer
*Self learning the piano
*Drug free!
*Love to make my friends laugh


Ahahaha, you're me.

Im, asian, 5'7", MMA fighter, Eagle Scout, plays violin and learning guitar, drug free, and love to make friends laugh.

*facepalm*

Just meet everyone you can when you get to college, and when you've finished all your homework go to as many parties as you can and you'll eventually meet a nice girl, just be a little careful... Yeah. Enjoy.

Rangerboi

P.S. KAWAKJI, I've been wondering for a while now why you dont have a girlfriend actually, you got everything you need...
The greatest poison is the human heart.

Wow my avatar sucks...
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#20 User is offline   Daikirai 

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Posted 21 October 2008 - 11:28 AM

The picchur is so blurry..@_@
If that really is you, you don't look so bad.
I don't know why you're still single..
<.< Except for the community college thing.

BE AGGRESSIVE!

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