[._.]

ok so i'm going out with this wonderful girl :]
we decided to keep it sort of on the low, and only tell people if it's necessary cause her parents don't really approve of dating.

she also has a best friend who's a girl and they are always together. they are like REALLY tight

ok so that girl basically isn't that interested in guys and is willing to hangout with my girlfriend and I (sorta like a 3rd wheel ><)
so we went to a carnival a few days ago at her school (we go to diff. schools) and we met up with a mutual friend. he went around with us at the carnival so it was 4 of us. he had no idea we were going out so he did the usual things he did with most girls (he's the playerish type) like putting arms around them and stuff although my girlfriend kept pulling his arm off but wasnt offended cause that's his personality. i wasn't really that either even though i was a tiny bit annoyed >:[
he acted especially like that to my girlfriend so i thought he was interested in her he even asked me if i liked her so up to that point, i thought he really liked her.

well i told my girlfriend this and she was sort of surprised and went to ask him if he liked anyone. turned out he likes her best friend and is just nervous around her. he keeps bugging my girlfriend about what to do and she gets annoyed even though she likes him as a person since he's a funny guy but she's really getting annoyed. she also said today (they all go to the same school except me) they were out in the cold and the guy offered his jacket to HER and not the other girl, which is really weird. even though the other girl had much less warmer clothing on. she said she told him to give it to the girl but he just insisted on her taking it so she just took it since she was cold anyways.
then today he asks to hangout with the 2 girls and my girlfriend said she's busy and told him to take her friend and go out with themselves. he said it was awkward so she told him to bring his other friends. he said he didn't want to and right now she's pretty annoyed since she doesn't want to go cause we're talking on the phone + she has homework.

isn't that weird? it seems like he likes my girlfriend, even though he says so otherwise.
what the hell? i even talked to him and asked him if he truly likes the other girl, not my girlfriend and he insisted he likes the other girl. so....i really don't know what to think
im really uncomfortable with how it seems like he's hitting on her -_____- even th ough we told him we're going out after the carnival incident

help!

[Christie]

Well.. It seems like he is indeed hitting on her.. but yeahh you can't really blame him.. because he doesn't know about your relationship!

[misturrho]

some guys like to get the girl jealous to get attention.. it's a lil weird but yeah. as long as he's not going over board with your girlfriend.. don't worry.

[WildSevenGirl]

...
LOLWAO.
Seems like he really does like your girlfriend. >_>
Right now, it doesn't seem THAT big of a deal. One of my guy friends is like that too me sometimes and he knows I like someone else, as well as the fact that he only likes me as a friend.
But of course, if he starts crossing the line, like hugging her or saying weird things.
...
FIGHTFIGHTFIGHT.
Lololol, no jk.
But talk to him about it. AGAIN.
And if he still does it, try to distance yourselves from him.
... I hope all that helps. ._.

[GOOMBA]

Why doesn't she tell him she's taken? She can't be THAT oblivious...

[._.]

we already told him
right after the carnival lol

[ChromeHearts]

didn't read the whole thing but yea kick his ass

[._.]

didn't read the whole thing but yea kick his ass

he's like that to every girl though

and he's a mutual friend, my friend would get pissed at me.

and i dunno.. he's sorta big and fat
he might sit on me o.o

[shl979]

Ahhhh I didn't know she was taken!!

But really though.. just tell him he's hitting on someone that's already taken. And if all else fails.. resort to the fist. (yup I love promoting violence)

[sirce]

If he doesn't know he's getting too much:
Either you or the girlfriend must clearly tell him to stop being so attentive to her, since it's getting too much, even if he didn't mean it. A good friend will back off. (besides, the other girl might get the wrong idea about who he likes. And wouldn't he want to avoid that?)

If he does know and doesn't stop, after he was told to stop being so attentive, then he likes your girlfriend.

[MaryMagdalin]

Well.. It seems like he is indeed hitting on her.. but yeahh you can't really blame him.. because he doesn't know about your relationship!

he just said at the end he told him after the carnival
why dont you tell him to stop doing it then?
just say you`re uncomfortable with what he`s doing, intentional or unintentional

[mrsjaejoong]

well you stated that you're keeping it on the low and that you'll only tell ppl if necessary... well its necessary now
if he doesn't like her, then it won't hurt to tell, right? he won't really care
but if he does, it'll give him a clear sign to back off
and i doubt he'll go and tattle tale to your gf's mom ㅠ.ㅠ

we already told him
right after the carnival lol

tell him 'stop macking on my girl, i dont give a sht about how your personality normally is about all girls, but don't start using that crap my mine'

[rhaize]

Dude she's your gf and you're letting some dude act like that around her? Man up. Put YOUR arms around her and kiss her or something.

[infifinity]

as long as there's no sign of her liking him, you should have nothing to worry about. Just tell the dude you are not comfortable with what he's doing to your gf or grab your gf and make out with her in front of him just to show him whom she belongs to lol

[d a y.b r e a k]

^^^^ lol yeaaaaa!

man fight em if you have to
the other guy needa back off
man pride!!


-TEAA`

[supasheep]

get a man to man talk with him man. bring a baseball bat to make sure u 2 understand each other

[heyitzthatfc]

Man up and tell him you're dating her.

You said you tell people when it's necessary, so tell him or he'll keep hitting on your girl.

[KAITOU KID.]

Guys, he said they've already told their friend after the carnival that they were dating =_=;;

Anyway,
Idk, if he's still like that, tell the fool to back off, and stop bothering your gf (:
Doesn't matter if he's a mutual friend or whatever, she's your woman, you protect her god damnit, rawr!

[Clix]

Be a man. It's your girlfriend. You've already told him to stop. If he doesn't listen, be creative and make him stop. Don't do anything that will get you in jail.

If you don't get your friend to stop hitting on your girlfriend, she might see as it as a weakness and not taking care of your own problem.

[heyitzthatfc]

Guys, he said they've already told their friend after the carnival that they were dating =_=;;

Then just ignore half of what we said, and man up and make him stop.

Be a man. It's your girlfriend. You've already told him to stop. If he doesn't listen, be creative and make him stop. Don't do anything that will get you in jail.

If worst comes to worst, physical confrontation won't get you into jail if you do it right. I don't recommend this, but if you have to, you don't really need to have a fear of landing in jail or nothing.

Probably better to stop kicking it with him all together though.