[britnex]

okay.. my boyfriend textes me almost every dying minute but that was before we got to our first month.I dont really text him until he textes me first. but a day after our first month, he texted me saying "its already our first month and Ive been wondering,why dont you text me first? dont you wanna say hi to me?"

after that, he dont text me as much as before?
now, Im the one who textes him FIRST(but not as much as his back then).
I text him and sometimes he doesnt reply at all. and sometimes he makes excuses that his busy or sleepy

the thing is we just see each other twice a week, because he works and I got school..and texting is our way of communication. and our relationship is a secret from my parents because his older than me.

the question is:
has he lost interest in me?
Is it my fault?
should I feel like this?
what should I do?

[ALYSSA]

I don't think that he lost interest in you. In the beginning, guys or girls texted a lot cause u're in the phase where you're getting to know eachothers. Don't worry about it.

[7thprincess]

Maybe because, he went over his txt limit.

[Linnsterr]

Maybe because, he went over his txt limit.

LOL

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[JASON;]

if he texted you every moment before... theres a problem. lol

who cares. you guys can show affection elsewhere

[winteryskys]

i guess maybe he's just tired or doesn't feel like txting? i dont like txting that much takes too long.

im sure its nothing at least u still see each other.

[Soulistice]

has he lost interest in me? I don't think he's lost interest in you.
Is it my fault? No, I don't think this is your fault.
should I feel like this? It's normal to feel a bit dejected since the attention once given, is now diminished.
what should I do? Try to talk to him about it.

[prisonerzero]

If you two have time to text, can you not have time to talk on the phone for a few minutes?

[☆원이☆]

he did mention that he feels like he's the one always initiating the conversation.
maybe he feels like you don't like texting that much and so he texts you less.
as for the excuses....i'm not sure but hey. for all you know, he could be purposely avoiding you so that you'd miss him more or something.

[Kiribati]

Just talk to him...staying silent (and alone) won't help either of you.

[L.FOR.LOVE]

hasn't lost interest
mabe his afrad his annoying you by texting too much"
or his really busy

[<3 Kim]

Doesn't mean he lsot interest. My bf and I never text eachother anymore, better to save up phone credit ahaha

[suki_*]

it's just the end of the honeymoon phase. no worries if you're suppose to keep up the same pace for the rest of your life, u'd have a really hard time and a hefty phone bill!

it takes alot of confidence to text less than before, shows that they're more secure about the relationship.

[PhuongNguyen]

Things like that aren't that big of a deal; don't overthink it.

In the beginning of my relationship, my bf and I talked around 7 hours a day, and texted each other constantly... but that's because we were still in the "learning" about each other stage. Eventually, there's just not all that much to talk about... or at least, not as much as before. It's natural.

[Nine]

has he lost interest in me? I don't think he lost interest in you
Is it my fault? no it's not your fault
should I feel like this? we all have our down moments about relationships.. it'll get better again dw
what should I do? talk to him about it and ask him what's going on with your relationship, sometimes it may be because you guys ran out of things to talk about

[jaeka]

Why not talk over a phone? It's quick and instant! XD

[Christie]

Haha I can sooo understand this situation
Happened 2me2.. I just wasn't used to texting.. so he always texted me first thehe..
But yeahh.. It's understandable that he doesn't want to text you first all the time!
Hmm If he doens't reply back.. that's just annoying, right?
I find it annoying.. even when my friends do that especially when I ask them a question!

Ur questions:
has he lost interest in me? Off course not!
Is it my fault? Again an 'Off course not' !
should I feel like this? Nahh just chill=) only when he's not replying &has a lame excuse
what should I do? Tell him.. be honest.. even if it's just about texting..

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

Bring it up jokingly and see what he says.

[jvang_07]

Is two times a week to little?

has he lost interest in me? No no, you two have your own lives. You have school, he has work. When he's not busy, he's sleeping, depending on the time he works.
Is it my fault? Nah, don't blame yourself. Don't blame him. It's nothing to blame.
should I feel like this? If you want to.
what should I do? Sit back, relax, and don't worry about it. It's the first month, you do crazy get together, endless nights without hanging up as you or he sleeps in on you.

[xcarebear]

This happened to me too and I felt really sad and insecure about my relationship with my bf. But we're good still so..

Has he lost interest in me?
I doubt it, is he showing you affection in some other way?

Is it my fault?
NO why would it be?

Should I feel like this?
It's understandable since the same thing happened to me.

What should I do?
Tell him how you feel.