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#1 User is offline   aky93rkfka 

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Posted 23 October 2008 - 04:21 AM

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#2 User is offline   LOLWTF 

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Posted 23 October 2008 - 04:58 AM

Guy A seems way better than Guy E.
Why would a guy talk about a dozen of other girls when you his going out with a girl? That's just stupid..
He should talk about them to his male friends.
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Posted 23 October 2008 - 05:48 AM

It doesn't seem right what guy E is doing. It seems like that is the only flaw in guy E, you should try and fix it somehow or let him know that you are really uncomfortable about him doing what hes doing. If you decide to go with guy A without knowing if he likes you or not, even though it seems liek he does, then in might be a double loss if he doesn't
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#4 User is offline   mikomi 

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Posted 23 October 2008 - 06:58 AM

Guys are not complicated. You either like him, or you don't like him. If you are refuting my statement, you just don't know it yet but you like one and not the other. Keep dating E for a few more weeks and you'll find out if you really have feelings for E or you'd rather try A. If you really like A, being with E won't feel the same.
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Posted 23 October 2008 - 07:07 AM

I'll choose A if I were you
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Posted 23 October 2008 - 03:18 PM

so basicalli if u find out if A likes u then u will dump E???

i think u kno who u want to b wit
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Posted 23 October 2008 - 05:27 PM

dump E go with A
from what you wrote....E isn't trustworthy
guys (or girls) who make big mistakes, such as by talking too much about other people in a certain way, and saying ''i love you'' too easily should be avoided. It's great that E can be sweet and romantic, but it doesn't seem like he gets the whole picture.
You've been dating for only a week and already you have doubts about him. So unless you confront him or he does a miraculous 180 degree, this feeling won't go away for a veeeerrry long time
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Posted 23 October 2008 - 06:18 PM

You should settle your feelings before doing anything about A.
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Posted 24 October 2008 - 12:24 AM

Write a list of things that are good/that you like about A and E. Then make your choice from there.

E to me doesn't sound like a nice guy- well, from what you've wrote.
Go with A if he is the type that doesn't have a million female friends. A sounds like a better guy.



QUOTE (aky93rkfka @ Oct 26 2008, 04:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
on the other hand... at the game A came to hang out with me and while we were there, i told A that i was having a really hard time with E. he told me not to cry or be upset over him because he's not worth it... and i asked him then who is? he said no one is... because you are too special. that was a sign... in a way that he might like me but anyways i told him i have feelings for someone and that he's one of my close friends and he said he does the same too and then he said... "well... i think i have feelings for you." then i told him i had feelings for him also. well things are going good for us and i told him that i will see things bout E and get back to him but, he said i shouldn't break up with him if i like him because then that would hurt me a lot... so that's the story.

That's nice. ^ ^
Well, it's a good ending and I think that would help you get over E.
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#10 User is offline   aky93rkfka 

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Posted 24 October 2008 - 04:19 AM

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 07:48 AM

my advice is slightly different.
since you are already going out I think you should confront E and tell him to stop talking about other girls because you don't like it at all. take a stand and depending on his reaction, i guess you'll be able to tell whether you'll keep him or not.

jumping from E to A is not very nice.
Are you certain A likes you?

Well, it seems like A will be there for you. I think you should try fixing your relationship with E if you care about E. If you don't, just break it off! Make sure if you do enter into a relationship with A, you have no more feelings with E etc.

goodluck!
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#12 User is offline   Slybeans 

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 09:32 AM

Sounds like E is just trying to be honest with you smile.gif
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 11:30 AM

Guy E doesn't know what he's doing, imo.
If you're his girl... he shouldn't be talking about other girls all the time. (Once in awhile is ok.) My bf used to do that, but that was before we started dating. After we started to date, he stopped and let go of all his little crushes. I didn't really mind, but he was the one that told me that it would be low. And it's not like my bf is the most mature, sensitive guy around... far from it.
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#14 User is offline   f0reveralways 

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 11:34 AM

uh. it depends what E is talking to you about those girls.

i might talk about my guy friends. but they mean absolutely NOTHING to me romantically. it's like, "ew." i get weirded out when someone even suggests me liking one of my guy friends.
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 11:50 AM

ahh that totally sucks for those guys you're after...
don't play that game of which one because you'll end up with no one
believe me, you'll be the one hurt in the end
if you're with the E now then brake it off if the whole girl talking really bugs you
and as for A don't even think about him until you're done with E
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 12:18 PM

i prefer A over E..

but it really depends who YOU like right? =/
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 12:49 PM

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 03:15 PM

I don't know what to really say about E
he seems like he's messing around :|
why would he get jealous if he already has you..
I think you should talk it out with E or just dump E for A
on the other hand A seems like the nice caring one
he doesn't want you to be sad and seems to really care for you
A > E imo.
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 03:29 PM

E is john teshing with your feelings. For instance, he got another girl in his head. That stupid excuse of his is bullcrap. When a guy is into a girl, there's no other chick that can invade his brain. It's like a nooby hacker trying to get information from a CIA database. (bad example, i know) So i say just get the hell out of that relationship. He ain't worth your time. But A, on the other hand, is a different story. smile.gif
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 06:57 PM

I like guy A better.
Long distance is hard. I tried..
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