[AMIbunny]

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[Makaveli]

My mother has cancer, kinda complicated wont go into details.
Anyways you should make time to spend time with your father.
His time in the world will not last forever, even if he gets through this.
Life is short. I'm sure your bf will understand if you spend less time with him
and a bit more with your father.

[Meenuh]

My mother has cancer, kinda complicated wont go into details.
Anyways you should make time to spend time with your father.
His time in the world will not last forever, even if he gets through this.
Life is short. I'm sure your bf will understand if you spend less time with him
and a bit more with your father.

yeah i was thinking along the lines of that too. spend more time with your dad rather than your boyfriend. or spend time with your boyfriend and your dad. use the money you get at work to help your dad out or take him somewhere special. i don't know anyone that has cancer but then again who knows, anyone in my family can have cancer. none us go to the doctor for check ups. i really want my parents to go but they won't. my aunt ( mom's sister )and uncle ( dad's sister's husband )passed away from cancer. i also met a guy that had cancer. just stay strong and cherish the moments you have. as sad as it is to say, everyone dies.

[papaya123]

My grandfather died of cancer. But he lived a really long time with it. Cancer is really complicated thing and so many different types. Some people get rid of it and some people live with it. Sorry I don't know too much about it either. ^^;;
Many times people don't even know what causes cancer.

[jiwoneex3]

and I'm always out with my bf..and I don't have enough time to stay home and be with him

take the time away from your boyfriend and spend it with your father. DUH?!
i wish the best for your father. family comes before boys or anything else in the world.

[P a p e r_C l i p]

my aunt just died of lung cancer
her visitation is tomorrow
i wrote a reflection thing i'm going to say at her funeral..
x_x
cancersucks.

[ephemeral.]

My aunt and my grandmas passed away because of cancer.
It's thoroughtly a bad experience.
I regret not spending more time with them.
You should take up more time to spend with your dad.
I'm sure you won't regret it, and he'll be very happy. (:

[dorkafied!]

my grandpa, died from lung cancer; i really
regret not getting to know him since he lives
in vietnam and i cant really visit everyday.
Spend some time with your dad, and plan
fun activities you can do. good luck to your
dad and family =)

[ichigo.<3]

My mother has been diagnosed with cancer twice.
First it was lymphoma and the second time round it was breast cancer.
I agree with above posts, I think you should take time off your boyfriend and spend it with your dad.

[trankimuyen]

Yeah, it's quite clear you don't understand how serious this is at all. It's cancer. You can't just hope for it to go away, and I don't mean to snap at you but you sound so oblivious! Your boyfriend will be there for weeks, months, years to come but your dad has cancer, and he could go at anytime, and it's not just cancer that can take him away. The doctors told my best friend he had until he was 20, and any chances of making it after that would be strained, and one night he just went to endsville and that was it.
It doesn't matter what kind of cancer your dad has, everybody's already said it, I won't say it again.

[kibabibawiba]

My aunt had breast cancer a few years ago
And just like your dad she went through all the therapy until the doctors said that the cancer cells were gone
But a few months ago the cancer cells were back and she had to have one of her breasts removed along with more chemotherapy
She's alright now
I just hope they won't come back

You should spend as much time with him as possible but don't smother him
Because chemotherapy can make a person really irritable...
I wish you the best of luck >.<

[oksusu]

Cancer has a very high chance of coming back even if all the cells are gone. It's like a never ending battle. I have lost my dad to cancer and still cry about it. I'm tearing up now just thinking about him. Don't miss the chance to spend time with him. Boys will come and go, but you only have one father. My dad looked perfectly healthy a year before he passed. He got it treated too, was better for two years before it came back, and within a year, it took him from us. Cancer is scary. Don't underestimate it. I wasn't at his bedside when he passed and still to this day regret that.

[joychin89]

My grandfather died of colon cancer....sigh. I know a friend who had brain tumor but they managed to get rid of it. She was hospitalised for like...3-4 years

[kissez*]

My grandmother, my great grandmother (I think) and my cousin all died from cancer.

[huongface]

one of my close friend had brain tumor at 24 and my aunt has cancer. good luck to all and stay strong!

[nelly]

My best friends was a cancer survivor. Although she her cancer is gone, there still a 10% chance that it might come back. Once it comes back, there is like 0 chance that she might survive it again. I get worried whenever she say she's feeling sick or something cause I'd immediately assume it's cancer. Call me paranoid but yeah... I'm worried.

It will help if your dad and you will remain positive throughout this process. I wish you all the best and your father.

[NotFromThisPlanet]

my paternal grandfather died of lung cancer.
my maternal grandfather has badder cancer. hes receiving treatment currently.

[HighSkies]

My grandad has kidney cancer, and that spread to his lungs and his brother just died of cancer around a month ago. Cancer sucks ><

[megan92]

aw. my grandpa died from cancer about 2 months ago. i wish the best for your dad, but i agree with everyone else. you should spend time with him because he might not be here as long as your bf.

[likeunicorns]

Eh, kinda seems you don't really think of cancer as serious? But it is . . . no matter if it is a mild form of it, etc. I also kinda get the feeling you think your boyfriend is more important than your dad? Blood is thicker than water. Spend more time with your dad; it's kinda the obvious thing to do .__.