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Am I Wrong? i donno what to do anymore

#1 User is offline   hong863 

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 12:09 PM

basically it like a chain of reaction.

last 3 weeks ago....
i was really frustrated in caluslas and i was just sitting at home trying to figure what effin problem out ( word problem you know) and plus before that i went to tutoring so it was like at least 5 hrs or math bo,bing in my head. and then he calls me asking what wrong??? so i said u know im kinda in a mad mood i dont wanna talk , so then later he and his friend (tommy)all of a sudden calls me and says i have an "attitude problem" so i felt like i was ganged up on accusing me

2nd week.....
he calls me and he's like i dunno if u going to like this(laughing)...and im like what is it?? and he said "well me and tommy got rings" so in my head im like WHHATTTTTT??!!!!!! YOU got couple rings?! i dont even have an effin ring and u went to get rings with a guy!!! i was really upset and all. then he trying to defend himself that the ring was for accountaibliy and symmetry or whatever it was some logical reason to have rings. i was so mad. who gets rings with another guy when they have a gf? and it on the wedding finger??? soo i was like soo mad. when i saw the ring it wasn't like some 18 k gold ring so that kinda settle me down. omg if it was like some kind of real ring ill probably go ballistic

yesterday...
was my 18th birthday. so ii went to class and everyone was like happy birthday and whatever u know. and the teacher like get ur book from the shelve. and so i didnt wanna get up to go get a book so i say " can you go get a book for me" and he basically snap and glared at me tellling me to say "please" so im like okay please can u go get a book for me ?" and he said you should have said that in the beginning. it was so mean so i went to go get it myself. and later he note a little note saying he doesnt wanna be treated as a lesser being like he's my ho or whatever. he could have picked any other day but my birthday to agrue with me. i was soo madd.. and thenn he didnt even bother to say happy birthday to me!!!!! soo i thought maybe he'll say it later at the end of the day. NOPE
so i post on myspace how "blank" did whatever. and he figured it out. and create this youtube video saying happy birthday to me. which was cute, but it lost meaning cuz he really forgotten to say just 2 simple words

later....
i reply on myspace how i was disappointed in him and he reply back in this formal harash tone that im childish. and so dramatic in the most unrealtistic way. and he tried to be nice by making a video and all . and basically im treating him poorly and he's being walked on.
i didnt respond back

so what now?? i donno what to do??? im kinda sick and tired of all this crap. yet i know i still wanna be with him. gahhhh it make me feel so depress and sad.


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Posted 25 October 2008 - 12:53 PM

COuples fight.. and get irritated which each other.. it's common..
But him forgetting to wish you happy birthday ? blink.gif

Option = talk about it in a polite manner..
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 01:04 PM

Has he always been like this? Maybe something's wrong, or something happened.
Forgetting your birthday, though?
I don't know. He probably has his reasons, but it seems like you two need to sit down and talk about what has happened, and especially how you two feel about it.

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 01:12 PM

he forgot your bdai? dude thats just wrong
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 01:23 PM

he wants to break up.


That's what most of us who don't know you are probably thinking :'(

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 01:39 PM

WHAT, so ur bf got couple rings - with his guy friend. That's just wried, shouldn't it be with u, and then he bragged about it, that's just childish and plain mean. How could he forget ur b'day! - eshhhh.

Has he always treated u like this in the beginning, or just recently after he accused u of having an "attitude". Don't put up with that type of behaviour, no body deserves to be treated like that. Ask him for why is acting like that...maybe he wants to get even with u, or maybe it's like about others have said...hinting that he wants to break up.


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Posted 25 October 2008 - 02:02 PM

He a little pinkberry
and doesnt see that girls act different from guys, and have different reactions.
i think he hasnt been aorund girls much lol.

plus he's a john tesher for forgetting your bday


BAM.

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 03:25 PM

guy + guy getting a couple ring...? whoa..
and forgetting your birthday :\ that's not cool at all!
especially if everyone said it to you but him..
he's a little late on timing dry.gif with the birthday video..
you have the right to be mad at him for the whole birthday thing
calm down and talk it out with him
also happy belated birthday

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Posted 25 October 2008 - 03:37 PM

Either he's gay. Or he wants to break up with you indirectly, aka, you make the move.
But that's a creative way of him, kudos to that.
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Posted 25 October 2008 - 03:41 PM

at least he made most of it up :/
but u guys seem to have a nerve for small things
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