[happy_tomato]

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[blissfultranquility]

i dont think anything is wrong with you! you seem like a perfectly nice and sweet person.

its probably just them though. maybe your friend just didnt feel like hanging out because something was wrong with her at the time? i mean, since your both shy and introverted then maybe shes not too comfortable in telling you some things. i know i dont tell my close friends somethings about me or what happened if im not comfortable with it.

or maybe she really just felt lazy and didnt want to go anywhere?... sometimes i do that to my friends when i just dont have the energy to do anything... -.-;;

... im not sure if this is really all that great in advice though... sorry...

[happy_tomato]

i dont think anything is wrong with you! you seem like a perfectly nice and sweet person.

its probably just them though. maybe your friend just didnt feel like hanging out because something was wrong with her at the time? i mean, since your both shy and introverted then maybe shes not too comfortable in telling you some things. i know i dont tell my close friends somethings about me or what happened if im not comfortable with it.

or maybe she really just felt lazy and didnt want to go anywhere?... sometimes i do that to my friends when i just dont have the energy to do anything... -.-;;

... im not sure if this is really all that great in advice though... sorry...

aw.. thanks for replying..

idono.. i think if she just said outright "i'm feeling lazy.. i don't feel like going anywhere" i would've felt better, but like she had to use an excuse to not meet me hurts..
i guess i'll buy her some stuff for her cold when i see her on monday class..

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

because you care too much.


if someone says 'im sick, i can't hang out today' when you obviously know that its not true.

you HAVE to take her word for it.

fcuk this. play stupid. why? because you already know the truth.

don't assume though, because if you do, you're only cutting yourself off from further opportunities to socialize with this person.

you're still not sure but in TIME, if she'll turn out to be a friend or just an acquaintance.

and an acquaintance is good enough if you can't trust her.

you can keep that doubt behind your head, but you move on and just say 'ok, maybe next time'

and not really care about it.

don't dive into thoughts like 'why......why won't she hang out with me'

'what did i do'

'ugh i KNEW SHE WAS A LIAR!'

um yea......it's not really healthy to think that

oh and NO ONE owes you anything.

so just because someone says they'll do something and they don't follow through......remember...they don't have to.

but this shows you who they are......and this is suppose to help you, not hurt you. why are you keeping track of people who hurt you?

you just need to ease up thats all, you're fine.