[AigoBoy!]

Okay, there's this girl that I've liked since last December.
I gave her a Valentine's Card + Chocolates on Valentines day.
Hours went on, Days, Weeks,. No response.
I see her everyday at school. She's clearly avoiding me.
She's not in any of my classes.

So fast forwarding to earlier this month.
She transferred into two of my classes. To some coincidence we sit very close to each other.
Waves of awkwardness arouses me everyday in those two classes.
I glancing at her only once, and she happened to have caught me.
She smiles at me and looks elsewhere.
I'm confused at this point.

Later, she tells her friend to tell me that I'm being "rude" to her. And demands that I apologize.
Again, we HAVENT spoken a word to each other. Not even a hello. So I don't know if I should. (and for WHAT?)

Occasionally, I can see her glancing at me at the corner of my eye. I turn my head towards her direction,
she looks away.

>>Currently: Avoiding & Ignoring Her. Looking for the "next step" of what to do.

So here are my questions for you guys:

1) Should I approach her and explain?
2) What would you do if you were the receiver/giver of the Valentine in my scenario?
3) What are your opinions/speculations?

Cuz seriously, No response? That's pretty cold....

So thanks for reading and I will your responses!

[ashunbaby12]

Ignore her man. Shes obviously not interested in you. Shes not being cold...she just doesnt like you at all. Get over her , its nearly November now!

[AigoBoy!]

Yeah I'm currently doing that. Looking to find out what the "next step" is. That's why I'm ranting about it on soompi . Thanks for the advice though

[blissfultranquility]

1) i dont think you should apoligize. you have nothing to apologize for.
2) to be honest, i dont do valentines day, i hate that day with passion and frankly i dont think it should even exist.... but anyway, no ones has ever given me valentines stuff except for friends. and i would probably respond, unlike the girl.
3) yeah just ignore her. if shes going to act like this, there's point in liking her.

[AigoBoy!]

1) i dont think you should apoligize. you have nothing to apologize for.
2) to be honest, i dont do valentines day, i hate that day with passion and frankly i dont think it should even exist.... but anyway, no ones has ever given me valentines stuff except for friends. and i would probably respond, unlike the girl.
3) yeah just ignore her. if shes going to act like this, there's point in liking her.

Aww poor you.... *sends e-valentine next year*
Thanks for your input!

[su ellen]

well... this girl obviously has some issues. if she's been giving you the cold shoulder, then i think you should stop pursuing her. she's not worth the trouble. but if you do want to pursue her... then maybe you should try to talk to her. for example, you should talk to her in a friendly way after class so that she feels comfortable and hopefully she'll feel comfortable and can talk to you. =]

[ShadowMax76]

for some reason, i'm imagining a dork [not a bad thing] doing valentines' for a pretty chick, and the chick turns out to not like the dork that much- because it's rather awkward that someone random did that for her.

you spent money on her man, i'd start a little talk if i were you.
"hey. oO' know me?"
"yes. the dork."
"D: psh. mean. liked it?"
"what?"
"the valentines'."
"oh. i-
"it was random. i know. o_O' but . you seem kinda nice. "
etc.

-shrugs- it's freaking me out how there's this vivid understanding of her to a silent relationship. seriously. o_o' make some female friends man..

[!L0VE]

oh dang. she's such a snob.

just pay no attention to her & just act like you don't care-and you really shouldn't.

haha, you shouldn't apologize or explain anything to her.
she doesn't deserve any of it -__-;

[littlemayie]

Just talk casualy with the girl! - hey how's it going?

[AigoBoy!]

for some reason, i'm imagining a dork [not a bad thing] doing valentines' for a pretty chick, and the chick turns out to not like the dork that much- because it's rather awkward that someone random did that for her.

you spent money on her man, i'd start a little talk if i were you.
"hey. oO' know me?"
"yes. the dork."
"D: psh. mean. liked it?"
"what?"
"the valentines'."
"oh. i-
"it was random. i know. o_O' but . you seem kinda nice. "
etc.

-shrugs- it's freaking me out how there's this vivid understanding of her to a silent relationship. seriously. o_o' make some female friends man..

We've been friends for a few months. She's not that pretty. I'm just crazy over her personality. I started becoming attracted to her a little after. And yeah I agree that I should say something... Let me put it this way; she would rather pretend to be talking to someone on the phone than say "hello" to me.

oh dang. she's such a snob.

just pay no attention to her & just act like you don't care-and you really shouldn't.

haha, you shouldn't apologize or explain anything to her.
she doesn't deserve any of it -__-;

She really doesnt.... but then again, I sit two seats from her in class for the next... semester or so. its gonna be quite hard. xD

[HSuke]

1) Should I approach her and explain?
2) What would you do if you were the receiver/giver of the Valentine in my scenario?
3) What are your opinions/speculations?

I don't know what else you did around her, but you must be creeping her out.
She's not interested in you and doesn't want to talk to you.
Yes, she's rude. But you'd be ignorant to not realize her feelings that she doesn't want to see you.
So just ignore her, and be casual if you ever are in a situation where you are forced to talk to her.

[marasshi]

1) Should I approach her and explain?
2) What would you do if you were the receiver/giver of the Valentine in my scenario?
3) What are your opinions/speculations?

1) Why? You don't even know why she wants you to apologize. Ignore her.
2) I would have given you a response immediately.
3) She obviously isn't interested in you, so move on.