[Kawaii-chan]

so, i met this guy a 2 weeks ago. (i know its really short, but just let me explain. ) we met at a club meeting and we instantly hit it off. let call him R-chan. I like guys that come up to a girl, and he came up first. i was talking a guy friend, and then R-chan came up and started talking to my friend, and then introduced himself to me. we were friendly and we left each other to go talk to other people. i was alone at some point and then he came up to me, and started talking to me. he runs a dance team and so we were talking about dancing and how he wants to do a workshop. he then asked for number, saying "if i do, i'll def call you up."

not to sound vain, but i knew we were attracted to each other. you know how u just have that feeling? well i had that feeling...MAJORLY.

the thing is, i can't help but say its almost like love (or attraction you might call it) at first sight. i'm christian, and i like guys that have some faith. he's christian and he's not a hypocrite. he doesn't smoke or drink, but he's not so god like that you can get sick of it. we're both into dancing and he loves sports, especially bball. which is a definate plus cuz i played it.

and i know he's not a player, cuz me and my other girls were talking about him, and i'm only the one that got his number. plus, one of my really close guy friends is close to him, which i didn't know, and he said that he takes girls seriously.


PROBLEMS:
1.he is 25...i'm 18. a 7 year difference
2.he seems really popular with people, like he added me on facebook and i just see all these girls saying, "hey how you doing? or wats up??
3.i feel like i keep on missing him. like just this friday, i missed just 1 call, and i found out that my friends were going somewhere and he was going. last week, i come to my friend apartment like 10 minutes after 6. i found out he left like just 5 minutes before me.
are we not meant to be??
4.should i call him? because i wanted to comment him on facebook...but seeing all those girls, i felt my confidence go down.
5.i have never had a boyfriend, so i don't know how to act around him.

what i really need is some advice from random people, cuz my friendst think i'm over thinking...i can't help though...i feel like i met the guy of my dreams

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[Kawaii-chan]

lol thanks AKALoveholic!

like i'm not in love...but i feel like i won't meet a guy like him. the fact that i don't see him since he's not in college sucks because it would be so much easier to get closer to him.

and with the whole assumptions thing...i can't help but feel intimidated...i've only ever liked a guy this much 2 years ago...and it took at least a six months to get over him. i feel nervous and the thing is, i really like the guy. it might be a short time, but i really like him. i feel like i know him even though we only met 2 weeks ago. i know it's stupid, but i can't help it lol

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[Kawaii-chan]

it's funny, cuz that is really how i feel. like since i've never been in a relationship, i can't miss what i've never had. but i when i met this guy, the emotions of liking somebody brought some loneliness. and it really made feel like i might miss something if i don't talk to this guy.

i seen him probably only 1 in the last week. my friend is really close to him, and i went to his apartment and "he" was there. the thing is, i can't really ask this friend to help me out because he's not slick at all lol.

since he already graduated, i feel like he thinks i'm too young too. which sucks, because i'm just as mature as he is!

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[Kawaii-chan]

goooood advice lol!!!

i've calmed down a bit and my doubts are that bad anymore. i was just freaking out because i was having a lonliness mode.

OMG!!!i'm hanging out with him this thursday!!!!! well...not just with him, but with my guy friend him, and the other guy friend that close to him...I"M SO EXCITED!!!! since he has alot of inside connections, he got us in to this fashion show that his friends run. it's at a club and it's supposed to be over 21 but he got me in!!!

i feel like this is my chance cuz when i saw him today, yes i finally saw him!!!, he was really interested in me coming. and like he kept on talking to me and we totally hit it off again lol!!! and if i hang out with him this week, he'll want to hang out more so it won't be awkward if i call him or if he calls me...we can just hang out!!

wish me luck!!!

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[ann!e]

so i've been in a 5+year relationship with this guy and we broke up for 7 months. within those 7 months both him and i dated other people. but recently since school started we've been chilling back together again and started to seem like we're back as a couple.. (doing all couple things.. saying 'i love you' every so often etc.) though he hasn't really "official" went straight up and asked me out again. So what should i do? what does this mean?

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[ann!e]

yeah i do want to get back together with him. but he hasn't really 'officially' asked me out. and when we're with his friends we don't hold hands or display clingy-ness. at the same time we both are not dating anyone else. So i don't understand why he hasn't "officially" asked me out.. or is it because he's ashamed to get back together with me and tell all his best buds? =/
what does this mean?

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[ann!e]

thanks akaloveholic! =)

[ann!e]

hmm but how do you go about starting this 'serious' talk with a guy? (as to ask him 'so where is this going?')? kinda thing..? any good advice or approach?

[Kawaii-chan]

so, i must tell you what happened on thursday!! i dressed up of course and he picked me up...omg!!! he rented this HOT car...OH EM GG!!!!

we all went out to dinner and we went to the club....AMAZING!!! we danced with each other after the fashion show was over...he can dance REALLY well...and then after ward we we went back to his apartment to justs chill.

this is where the romance kicks in lol.

so we were joking outside of the balcony of my friends apartment and we were talking about dancing and my guy friend was like "why didn't just go up and dance with that one guy"
so i used "him" as an example. i started dancing with him and said "wouldn't be awkward if i randomly just went to a guy and did that?"
AND THEN, he puts his arm around my waist and says it would be weird but i wouldn't mind...and then cute smile LOL!!!

i was joking around with these fake glasses that had no lens and i was like they are so real. "he" touch my face and put his finger through the lens and said there so real, while his hand was totally just staying on my face...i totally turned red lol.

and then later in the night i had to leave and there was the song "Ay ay ay" by Taio Cruz (yes i remember the song) was playing. my friends were like, give him 1 last dance and "he" was like, yea, you should give me that dance. so we danced really close and he was sooooo warm and he smelled nice. we were basiclaly hugging each other and swaying with each other...

and then we broke apart and we he said, "we should hang out sometime soon.." and smiled
and i smiled and said, "we really should". we hugged each other goodbye...the hug was AMAZING.

probably the most romantic thing thats happened to me lol. even if we don't get together, i will always remember that night lol...

[mojomunkeez]

...So when is the part that you become the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air?

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