[mashimaru211]

it all started from last year, around december
i was walking with my friends to my class just like all the other ordinary day and then he showed up, put his arm around me and dragged me to the side, then looked down and said "oh, sorry, i thought you were my girlfriend~" <-- later i figured out he had no girlfriend
then in that same day (he was in my bio class), he came from behind and put his arm around my friend's and my shoulder again~ we seriously had no idea who he was and we never paid much attention to him
then from that day, he started to hug me every single day in school, at lunch, at that same place
at first, he just put his arm around me and tabbed me gently on the back, then later he actually hugged me~
i was so confused but i know that i liked it too
so when my friends told me to ask him why he hugged me, i refused to ask, because i was afraid that he might stop. yeah, i know, i sound pathetic but i never received much of affections like that before
it occured to me a lot of time that he might just be playing around, and that he probably does that to every other girl that he knows~
but my friend, who had a class with him the year before, said he never actually flirted with a girl, or do any of the "player act"
then i started to look forward to my bio class, not because i like the subject, but because i wanted to see him there
but in class, he usually ignored me, like he never saw me and that i wasn't there
but one day he jsut came up, during class and said "hi" , i briefly smiled back but nothing happened
he still hugged me for the next 3 months
then one day i refused to let him hug me (b/c i saw him talking to another girl like super friendly, so i guess i was jealous --> pathetic~~!!)
he stopped from that day on, he ignored me like i was nobody,
and like nothing ever happened
but occasionally, i caught he looking at me, just briefly
he once smiled at me for no reason

so does that mean he likes me? or he being a jerk?
i know i sound so pathetic but i never experienced anything like this
im not used to being so close to a guy and a hug means a lot to someone as lame as me

[Harbl]

Maybe you should go in for a hug first, when he's least expecting it. Test the waters a bit, if he reciprocates then it's all good.

[CKalvin]

wow

move on

being hugged by him randomly isnt being close to him

[Rekidai]

o____o;; umm just move on, who cares you just want him to hug you, its not like you like him because you guys talk alot or something. lmao honestly theres alot of touchy guys out there, so let go.

[heyitzthatfc]

it all started from last year, around december
i was walking with my friends to my class just like all the other ordinary day and then he showed up, put his arm around me and dragged me to the side, then looked down and said "oh, sorry, i thought you were my girlfriend~" <-- later i figured out he had no girlfriend
then in that same day (he was in my bio class), he came from behind and put his arm around my friend's and my shoulder again~ we seriously had no idea who he was and we never paid much attention to him
then from that day, he started to hug me every single day in school, at lunch, at that same place
at first, he just put his arm around me and tabbed me gently on the back, then later he actually hugged me~
i was so confused but i know that i liked it too
so when my friends told me to ask him why he hugged me, i refused to ask, because i was afraid that he might stop. yeah, i know, i sound pathetic but i never received much of affections like that before
it occured to me a lot of time that he might just be playing around, and that he probably does that to every other girl that he knows~
but my friend, who had a class with him the year before, said he never actually flirted with a girl, or do any of the "player act"
then i started to look forward to my bio class, not because i like the subject, but because i wanted to see him there
but in class, he usually ignored me, like he never saw me and that i wasn't there
but one day he jsut came up, during class and said "hi" , i briefly smiled back but nothing happened
he still hugged me for the next 3 months
then one day i refused to let him hug me (b/c i saw him talking to another girl like super friendly, so i guess i was jealous --> pathetic~~!!)
he stopped from that day on, he ignored me like i was nobody,
and like nothing ever happened
but occasionally, i caught he looking at me, just briefly
he once smiled at me for no reason

so does that mean he likes me? or he being a jerk?
i know i sound so pathetic but i never experienced anything like this
im not used to being so close to a guy and a hug means a lot to someone as lame as me

For one, damn, you need to treat yourself better lol.

For him, I don't know, he's tryna spit the game at you hahaaaa.

As for why he stopped, it's probably because you didn't let him. He still likes you if he ever did in the first place, that shouldn't change, only the fact that he thinks he did something wrong.

Also, you know his name and at least know him a bit right? Get to know him. Don't fall in love with somebody you don't even know. And I don't just mean his name, I mean ABOUT HIM. Anyone could have done that and you could end up with a horrible person that would skewer your dating experience.

[smiile]

did you atleast talk, as in a convo with him and get to know him?
seems like he was interested, but you didn't do anything, but take it in and smile.
uh, if you want him, make your move.
if you dont, forget about him.

[Seraphyx]

What an odd duckling. Asking us to see it in your perspective kills the point of asking for advice on a very diverse forum. Just because you want attention doesn't mean you should seek it out wherever it should happen to come by. Don't worry about this "playa" "loser" or whatever you want to call him.

[ShadowMax76]

talking to him might help figure it out.

" DD: WHERE'S MY HUG???"

Lol. you may as well ask him why he did it now, since he can't exactly stop hugging you since he's not hugging you anymore. o.O'


_ i reckon he's gay. :/ but hey. that's just my p.o.v _ i'd only ever hug someone so casually or randomly if i wasn't attracted to them, but found them utterly adorable and irresistible to grab and squish teh life outta them. :]

i'd be more considerate if i actually did like them... o-o' but.. i'm not him. :]

+ don't feel so down about turning his hugs down when you were jealous. it's normal to feel like that.
just try to have some thick skin next time and smile, without holding back the question of ' new friend?"

. in the end, just talk to him and get what you need off your chest.
and ask, if you want, to restart the odd friendship. o.O' if you want.. _ just remember that if you get a bf, he might havta stop.

[xoskwxo]

i totally get wat u mean .. guys like this make us girls SOO confused ..

i gota friend like that .. one day he acts like hes full into me and huggin me too .. i ask him wats up ..

and the next day he acts like he doesnt noe who i am .. wat thee ..?!

my advice is jst 4get abt it .. if hes there then say hi, if not then who cares? like dont play too easy ..

if he reli likes u .. he'll try harder and he WONT ignore u so easily.

[cookiesncream]

umm he kinda sounds like a douchebag..although that move he did with the "o sorry i thought you were my gf" is pretty cute. ignore ignore ignore him move onnn