[vi3tazntoan]

My gf and I just broke up like last week, and we been together for almost 2 years.
We been on and off only about 3 or 4 times, but this time is for real.
i told her that i cant forget the fact that she cheat on me over 5 times,
and everything like that.
So i broke it off with her, but she isnt take it very well.
my phone is beeping of the hook, i get more then 20 text in like 5 min. at least 2 times aday.
the text are all the same, things like "im john teshen hate you" or "I going to make you feel how i feel "
she havent taken any action yet but im scare she will, so whats could i do about this.

[PhuongNguyen]

Eh, that's not "so" bad. My ex went and beat up/start fights with every guy he saw me with, and came down to my house at 4 in the morning and started crying while banging on the door. You know what I did? I told him to go john tesh himself, and tell him he's freaken pathetic and desperate. You should just tell her straight off and make her dislike you to the point that she don't even want to bother with you. The chick cheated on you over 5 times, no use being nice to her.

[mintcracker]

no offense or anything, but you let her cheat on you five times?

should have been out of the relationship after the first time.

[JazzyMina]

^ Totally Agree with what they said.

Mmmm Tel ur gf to leave u alone since its over o.O or talk 2 her and tel herrrrrrr to stop txting u becz its oer I Dunno XDD

[Meenuh]

no offense or anything, but you let her cheat on you five times?

should have been out of the relationship after the first time.

that's what i was thinking.

just ignore her. my friend was going out with this girl and everytime i'd hang out with him i'd have to be really quiet cause she'd go NUTS. even after they broke up he got like 50 of the same txt msgs at the same time all saying the same stuff like "i john teshing hate you". lol. seriously when people do stuff like that ... it only makes THEM look bad. have some dignity. sheesh.

[aznboi1107]

well my advice to you is to never say you're girlfriend was crazy to other girls you date in the future. Just say it didn't work out, trust me on that one.

[Hakiri]

Woah she cheated on you over 5 times?!? O_O surely that's her fault! >__< And all those texts and phonecalls would drive me insane! She sounds a bit creepy o_O;
If you're really worried, and if it becomes so serious that she's actually threatening to ruin your life, maybe you should call the cops... but I guess it's only if it becomes really serious, because I it's kinda hard to tell whether she'll actually do something after making all those threats. Anyway, it seems a bit pointless for her to be doing that, since it'll probably make you dislike her more, with her crazy reaction to the break-up -___-;
Hm.. I've had this one ex.. well, nowhere near as crazy as what yours is, (actually after reading your story, mine just seems completely normal in comparison!) but after we broke up, he went around talking to my friends, trying to make them like him and hate me... even though I'd been friends with them for about 4 years. He said that I hated them, and that I was spreading all sorts of lies about him around the school to get him expelled (wtf?!) =__=;; (a bit hypocritical of him..) luckily, they didn't believe him though. *^^*

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

My first ex-boyfriend cried so much after I dumped him. Afterward, he literally tried to talk to me 24/7 and begged me to take him back. And one time during a rainy day, he stood outside of my house, just waiting for me like a lost dog. Eventually, I just cut off all connections with him and he gave up, yessss.

[gisbiz]

5x's???

WOW, you must be very forgiving.

save all her threatening texts and messages,
you might need proof in case something horrible happens.

some people are visual learners,
so i might suggest you draw her a picture of why it's over
between the two of you.

"how to draw the picture"
ok, now get a piece of paper
landscape view
draw 5 funny sticks on the left side of the paper
draw her above the five guys
draw devil horns coming out of her forehead
add some flames on their side of the paper
now draw you all alone by yourself at the right corner of the paper
with angel wings and a halo
now draw a cellphone and X it out
draw a little hand on you, waving good bye
draw an arrow pointing to your hand
and write 'this means, "good-bye"

lol...ok, im just kidding!

[vi3tazntoan]

thanks everyone for all the help and tips.
i know i was stupid but she was my first love.
one time on 4 of july, at 2 am she just show up in front of my house,
crying her eyes out begging for me back,
so i just took her in and lets her spent the night.

I just wanna move on with my life, I mean im only 17 i still have my whole life ahead of me, right?

[x kisekiboshi]

^Of course. You don't need to spend time on a girl who cheated numerous times on you.

My friend had a crazy ex, like she was seriously psycho. She would get mad at any girl who talked to him, like she literally wanted to go beat down every girl who talked to him. And she always asks him every weekend to go to Dunkin Donuts with her, but sometimes he'll have plans with me and my friends or he has to do something else, and she gets super pissed if he doesn't go.

[xlullaby]

My ex was worse..........trust me......

The best thing to do is ignore..and let her deal with it and give her time to get over it. Mine really got over it when he just KNEW it was over (he just didn't get it for a while)......but moreso when he found another interest/girl...But he still goes around talking crap about me to everyone he and I knows. It's freakin irritating, really......But what can you do.....I'm just glad it's over. and I'm really looking forward to the day that he stops wasting so much energy talking about me (knowing him, not anytime soon..maybe when he moves somewhere else where know one knows me). All I can think is how much I regret getting with him - he makes me look bad now that people hear all the crap he has to say about me. Sigh.

In the end, I learned: choose your bf/gf WISELY (check their maturity level)..know what you're getting yourself into.

[WildSevenGirl]

....
You LET her cheat on you five times? o_o.

Well anyway. Keep everything she sends you, just in case something bad may happen, as someone said before me.

Also, I suggest you be mean enough to her to the point where she'll just stfu and leave you alone.

I also think you can call your service provider and ask them to block her number.

And if she actually starts taking action, like actually STALKING you, restraining order time.

[WonderShinkiLuver12]

I think you should beat her up and film it.

[thumperrr]

WOW. You let HER cheat on you 5 times???
Gawdd. You're too good for her!
Bleh. First of what can she do to you anyways?
Some girl she is, psh, seriously.
If I was you, I'd continue ignoring her.
She'll get over it soon.


one of my ex bf was a psycho!
He threatened ME that if I break up with him that he'll commit suicide.
I ignored it and break up with him anyways.
He got so mad that he vandalized my car and my house!
He would call my house and cellphone and leave not so pretty messages,
in the end my parents called the cops and put a restrain order for him to not get anywhere near me.
That didn't stop him because he had FRIENDS.
So he got his friends to gang up on my best friend to "supposedly" scare me.
But they got arrested.
& That was the last I heard from that ex.
&& Now I heard that he's bothering some other girl at some other school.
:/ augh. he's hateful.

[AsianL0ve]

well my crazy ex. wasnt as crazi but was like WTF.
He goes to school with me and had like every class with me
he'd pick SO many fights with me to the point i had to throw a lotion bottle at him because he was being SO disrespectful
about my current bf. He was saying oh u sck his d1ck yet? you guys look like siblings. MAD UGLY. slut. and so many things
i couldnt stand it and i threw a lotion bottle at him. Once I almost fought him but my friend sat on me.
he was just crazy and drove me crazy.
Then he spread a lot of rumors about me to a lot of people.
but whatever


and yeah about your girl.
how do you cheat on someone 5 times?
did she slip on a damn bar of soap and her lips land on someones mouth =_=!!!!?!?!
She's crazy, ignore her threats. Save em though to prove to people when she does stupid things.
Tell her once and for all to leave you alone cheater cheater pumpkin eater!

[StraWbeRrY1123]

why would u let her cheat on u for 5 times........ if it's first time maybe u could give her another chance. the second time should be a big enough hint that she's not gonna change



i was with my ex for 3 years on and off >_> and everytime we break up he'd kinda give me threats like imma go drive just remember that i love u forever if i dun make it back and i would just be like WAT THE! D:

the last time we broke up, his friend told me that he got into car accident and was hospitalized and that he might not make it if _______ happens and i was just like O_O so i called him and he sounded perfectly fine O_o i asked him why the hospital allow cellphones and he said he just doing it secretly or something. so i asked him for his room phone and he started giving me these excuses >_> so my conclusion was that he was just bsing with

and recently, i had a dream that my ex was trying to stab me! !!!!!!! i got sooo scared that i had to leave my lamp on for the whole night.... idk why i had that dream cuz we broke up for like more than 1/2 year already o.o

[EscR4Fantasy]

two words, restraining order that will solve everything =]

[mrskaneshiro]

Not really an ex, but I knew a guy who liked me so much (we were friends) and when I got a boyfriend and told him I didn't feel the same way so he keyed my new boyfriends car. After I ignored his calls he started to call my boyfriend's cell phone. It was ridiculous.

[lildinmui]

why cnt yu just change yur mob #? o.O"