[xsarangxmex]

Well I'm a happy person overall ....

but my whole life i've had this like majorrrr social anxiety so i've always been reserved....
when i was younger i was worse....
i got a little better as i got older but stillll haven't changed much...:X

i can't stand conversations at all....and when im with people, i end up sitting and feeling so anxious....:X


Sometimes i wonder if I need medication cuz of the fact i always feel nervous and uncomfortable
unless i've known the person my WHOLE life.....

[7thprincess]

Yeah, sure why not.

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[chitah]

theres plenty of people like you. there was this girl in my 4th grade class, she NEVER talked. only only replied when asked. i think its unhealthy too O_o

[chopstick^^]

so how about online? ... are u shy online too? ..

u said no one knw this about u!? .. what do u mean? u put on an act? .. so they couldnt tell ur shy?
so wot do u think they think of u? ..

n yeh its not healthy.. because your face is not moving = not excercisin ur muscle which can cause wrinkle at a young age .. bcoz its stiff! .. it links because if your face moves more as in talking, laughin, smiling, then ur b doing face yoga naturally.

So whats your problem? do u find it hard to trust ppl? .. is this why ur shy? ..

still feels kinda vague... about your shyness... if ppl dont really knw this about u.. then u cant b as shy as u describe as 'realllyyyyy' shy? since really shy ppl r obvious!

[MNLV27]

i am the same...im a shy girl around people, like i dont really talk and stuff...
i was even asked a question once, "linda how does it feel like being the quietest girl in class?"
in my head i was like wtf..lol...
my s/o even said that in my group of friends, im like the blacksheep..lol..because he was hanging out with us at school
and noticed that i barely talked with my friends, that i was just always sitting there and jsut listening to them talk and stuff...
but i love talking to people, just talking about anything, but then its just that i dont feel comfortable enough to
be open with some people..only a few people can really see how i am, im actually a funny, dorky girl, but most people
think im a boring quiet girl..lol..oh well...

[piggyx3]

i used to be like that, but after my first semester in college, i got mad at myself
for not being more social, so i decided to be more open and talkative, and
because of that i was able to get attention from this really cute guy >.<

[springyangel]

I'm pretty much like you..

I'm not comfortable around people I don't know..and if I'm uncomfortable around someone, I don't talk and usually end up just smiling and laughing '' However, when I'm around friends and people I'm comfortable with, I become a totally different person o_O;; which is sad because about 75% of my friends are people who continuously talked to me until I opened up and became comfortable with them ^^ I'm usually really close with my true friends though<3

[Left_King]

Im pretty shy too....mainly with girls...
Im really unconfortable with girls.... TT_TT not sure y...even with girls i've known for a long time....i still feel wierd :S

[eatsleepfun]

yeah, I'm so shy too. I don't talk much in public too cause I feel so uncomfortable too =(
Ever since my whole life, I've been quiet and stuff and I'm kinda lonely when I'm by myself
I feel uncomfortable sometimes when talking (depending on people) cause I don't have anything cool to say )=

[G-D]

i didn't talk at school until 4th grade o__o
ppl made fun of me because they thought i was stupid
i just thought it was weird.. idk why
but now i'm only shy around ppl idk

[jincx]

trust me you're not the only one...i am shy around people too, but once i get to know and get comfortable around them i would talk or chat with them more...it's not that i'm being two...but it takes time to get comfortable with people you just met....so, it's not something bad or anything...just be yourself and not someone who's totally different....

[Rykerz]

Dont worry haha heaps of people are like that sometimes just drop your emotion and so something crazy! just talk to people say hi to strangers, dont worry about what people think because what you do bother them a lot less then you assume.

[sillymeboy]

I'm sure there are lots of people like you. The internet tends to bring out the wild/inner/social side of you maybe because of anonymity ?

[eigengrau.]

I used to be like that, lol. Compared to before, I talk A LOT more.. O__O;;
DON'T WORRY! You eventually get over it, lol.

[jejeewawa]

Yeah, I used to be like that as well.
I was really shy back then, I can even stay quiet for the whole day if I dont find anyway that I can talk comfortably
I also have no idea how to start conversation, and I only talk to answer people questions and its only a word or so
the sad thing is people think that I'm not nice and arrogant, but I wasnt arrogant, its just I feel more comfy talking to my besties or fams that I am close with..

Anywayyy.. now I'm really talkative compare to me back then, I have no idea how I change, I just did

[Hakiri]

Well firstly it's good to realise that you are ^^ because I used to be shy and really really quiet, never saying anything, and didn't realise I was actually being like that until someone straight up asked me if I could speak lol XD
Over the years since then I just became more and more open, and would be happier talking. I still get really nervous speaking to new people, or starting conversations, but I try to overcome it, bear it, and just smile or laugh if I make a complete fool of myself ^^
I think a lot of people just grow out of it and become more confident, so maybe over time, that will happen to you too ^^
But if you are really worried about it, maybe you could speak to a counsellor or someone about it.

[!Lei]

How do you know if the person is just...really...really quiet, or really shy? T_T;;
I kinda assume quiet people are shy. xD

[Shooting_Star<3]

i hate it.. at school i am shy.. but when i am with friends then i can be open-minded and really funny... but I really hate to be shy because you cannot do something.. that is YOU and your kind... people you are confident and etc will have an easier life I think.

[ohemgee]

in elementary to gr.8 i was the shyest thing EVER.
i used to like this guy but everytime i talked to him i would go BRIGHT red, and start mumbling by myself...
in gr.9 i was still shy, and i HATED the fact that i was so awkward around ppl. i hated how i was boring, shy and awkward.
i would always think by myself, of how i could be more outgoing and i would always try to be more open with everyone. and i guess it kinda workked.
im definitely WAYY more outgoing thenn be4, but i still have aloongg way to go.
like for instance. yesterday, i was trickor trreating (yess im too old for it lmfaoo)
and we met some couple of cute guyys randomnly.
my sister and my friend were talking to them like they knew them since FOREVER but i was being quiet and awkward again.
they left us and i started to regret EVERYThing. so ii was thinking of how i could talk to themm. they cam eback to us again
and thankfully i began to talk ALOT. although i was still shy and scared , i had to be open with them or i would not have been able
to sleep last nighhtt, regretting my actionss.
but then my friends were already holding hands with them and hugging them while i was only talking to them LOOOLLLL
*sighhh*, i hope next time when i meet guyss i can go to the next level,,, cuz im ALWAYS one step behind my friends when it comes to
boyyyssss .

[rectitude*]

Around people I don't know well, I'm very quiet.
But when I'm around my closed friends or whoever, then I won't shut my mouth.
You're not the only shy person. There's many shy people everywhere.