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Why Are Guy That Have A Gf So Much More Attracting? ....... in some cases. Not all.

#1 User is offline   xxaznpersonxx 

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Posted 31 October 2008 - 03:30 PM

i read it in this magazine a couple months ago and i tried it out. It's actually true!

i mean why is that?

Does he seem more attractive?
Is he nicer?
Is he less perverted?

What do you guys think?
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#2 User is offline   Rykerz 

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Posted 31 October 2008 - 03:32 PM

I think when guys are in relationship their focus are not as much on surrounding girls and they wont worry as much as how they think of them, sometimes it makes them seem more confident and when you talk to them its not like they are trying to impress you like how people who are interested in you
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Posted 31 October 2008 - 08:00 PM

lol I think it has to do with how they treat their gf. But I only go like 'awww they're so cute' and that it. lol
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Posted 31 October 2008 - 08:04 PM

i agree with all of the above good reasons and another one is imo, "people want what they cant have." it's like you know you cant have him so you want him.

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Posted 31 October 2008 - 08:06 PM

you look 12, what do you know?

what magazine is this stupidity coming from?

i don't know, but all i can say is competition and lust and you just want something on the side.

but thats it.....i don't find it true at all though
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Posted 31 October 2008 - 08:48 PM

No because I know they aren't attainable. I mean if they're personality is attracting, I'll be impressed and thats it.
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Posted 31 October 2008 - 09:13 PM

QUOTE (LUVSSOURCREAM @ Oct 31 2008, 11:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you look 12, what do you know?

what magazine is this stupidity coming from?

i don't know, but all i can say is competition and lust and you just want something on the side.

but thats it.....i don't find it true at all though


um.. haha. watever you have up ur ass.. remove it wink.gif. (the answer u gave is pretty legit though)


it's not completely true, but somewhat true, coz yea most guys are way more confident when they have a gf. And most girls usually assume that a guy must be a very good bf if his gf is genuinely happy.
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 12:08 AM

QUOTE (LUVSSOURCREAM @ Nov 1 2008, 12:06 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you look 12, what do you know?

what magazine is this stupidity coming from?

i don't know, but all i can say is competition and lust and you just want something on the side.

but thats it.....i don't find it true at all though


It's actually not stupid. It's something that's been the subject of scientific studies before. I remember reading about one study that found women rate the same men as more attractive after they've seen other women smiling at them, and that taken men really are slightly more attractive to most women. It sounds weird, but it's not stupidity.

It could be because subconsciously there's the idea that if he's with another woman already then he must be a partner worth having.
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 12:12 AM

Cause you always want what you cannot have? You see a dude whose taken, you automatically know you cannot have him... so you always want it? I dunno. Human nature.
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 12:41 AM

Really? I find that a total turn off. There were some guys that I liked/crushed on but once they had a gf, I losed my attraction to them :/.
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 04:16 AM

It's a total turn off. Unless you are a homewrecker or you are simply in love with the guy since forever.
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 12:08 PM


he puts more effort into looking good

dressing up, hair, etc
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 12:13 PM

seeing a guy with a gf, well, it doesnt make one more attractive.....its just jealousy
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 02:56 PM

Cause you might be able to see sides of him that you normally wouldn't had he not had a gf... or the fact that he has a gf now probably makes him worthwhile to have and you know his gf is satisfied enough with him.

There's so many sides to this.. but I kind of did notice it before.

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Posted 01 November 2008 - 03:20 PM

QUOTE (Rykerz @ Oct 31 2008, 06:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think when guys are in relationship their focus are not as much on surrounding girls and they wont worry as much as how they think of them, sometimes it makes them seem more confident and when you talk to them its not like they are trying to impress you like how people who are interested in you



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Posted 01 November 2008 - 04:01 PM

I have no idea but the guy I like has a girlfriend. >.>
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 04:06 PM

Why was Eve so tempted by these delicious fruits? Because it was forbidden thats why, oh and the deliciousness of course.
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 04:13 PM

Is that really true....?
I guess that, at the end of the day, it depends on te individual really...(s)he can be attractive to u...but not for other ppl...
Ppl can argue that most of the pretties guys/girls hv gf/bf...so...this might be one of the reasons for ur conclusion...
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 05:11 PM

i always thought it was cos girls want things they cant have
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i dno

its maybe the appeal of a challange or something being forbidden is more tempting?
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 05:17 PM

there was an article on this in glamour magazine this month... it was like
1. women have a sixth sense [they can tell when a guy is taken?]
2. they've upped there game
3. they've stopped 'scouting'
4. their confidence is soaring

lol... i guess those are some reasons
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