[aznsweetie143]

oki, well I'm a freshman now.

anyways, in middle school, a guy would stop to give me the time of day.
and I didn't have many friends.

and now in high school, suddenly guys are interested?

like, last week, some random guys just came up to me and introduced themselves.
(never happened before!)

and now all the guys are starting to like me.
for example, my neighbor told me:
"I don't know if it's just me, but I think that nearly all the guys on our block like you!"

I was just like: "really?"

I even overheard them calling me "hot"

Don't get me wrong, I like the attention. ^^

But I don't understand what happened.

I'm afraid they all of a sudden started thinking I'm easy or something. :/

And when I'm around guys, I'm still kinda.. anxious. (I'm a nerd.)

And girls are nicer to me, too.

I actually have good friends now.

So if you're wondering what the hell I need help with,

• What do you think cause this sudden change?
• What can I do to be less anxious around guys?
• How can I keep this "popularity"? Or is it just a phase?
• Am I just being conceited?
• If I'm not, how can I prevent myself from becoming conceited?

Oh yeah, kinda not related to any of the above questions:
I've never been kissed before,
do you think that would be a problem with any future boyfriends? :/

[Harbl]

Has there been any sort of 'growing' going on?

[lilsh0rtnancy]

You grew up and have boobs now? The guys around you suddenly grew out of the "eeww cooties" stage and are noticing you now. LOL.

Sorry, I don't really know you and know what you looked like before so I can't tell you what the sudden change is.

As for being less anxious around guys, once you start talking to them, it'll go away.

Umm... for keeping your current "popularity", just keep doing what you've been doing.

Are you conceited? Not sure... maybe you're just clueless (about this situation, not in general if that sounded mean)

How do you keep from becoming conceited? Make good friends that would slap you back to reality whenever your head gets too big.

[jimsayskabloh]

this happened to my friend over the summer when she got rid of her glasses&got contacts. i guess you've grown up&look more attractive?
it can be a little creepy when all these random guys come up to you, but why are you complaining? xD
enjoy it!! just know how to pick out the good boy from the bad ones.

[Gumball]

* What do you think cause this sudden change?
Well this is how my guy mind sees it DON'T trust it though Guys in middle school are immature maybe they are starting to see something that they didn't see in you in middle school through the process of maturing.
* What can I do to be less anxious around guys?
Just be there friend say hi back and smile and just go with the flow.
* How can I keep this "popularity"? Or is it just a phase?
Well I think you are popular because you are you so just stay being you.
* Am I just being conceited?
Well from seeing this you seem nervous around them and someone else told you and you didn't think to highly of it so i doubt that's the case
* If I'm not, how can I prevent myself from becoming conceited?
Be yourself!

Again I am not the best person for advise but I hoped I helped a bit.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

lol honestly, Girls are kind of shallow lol

Well, We don't know your life, we don't know what you did in previous years. So the only thing we can conclude is you've become prettier.
I mean, honestly, If a guy likes you, I bet they are talking about how pretty you are.
Coz I mean, You can't really find out someone's personality if you never actually talk to them.
So personality is out of the question, not because of that.

So the only thing I can conclude is you've become prettier. But I don't know as well, coz I don't know you lol.

Oh yeah, kinda not related to any of the above questions:
I've never been kissed before,
do you think that would be a problem with any future boyfriends? :/

oh come on, you've got to be joking lol.
I saw your 411 and you're only 13???
I'm 16 and I never kiss yet, there's nothing wrong in that. So you don't need to worry lol.
Anyways... you're too young... shouldn't really expect a kiss sooner lol.

[trankimuyen]

LOL, I'm sorry but this topic made me giggle.
I was a freshman last year,
and I must say, you're a little behind sugar.

P.S. You can't do things to stop yourself from becoming conceited.
If you're not, you're not.
But there are millions of souls out there that put up the modest front but deep down, think everybody's scum.

[danceplaylove]

LOL Good for you. I'm a senior and I'm still flat.
Not much has changed since junior high, but I learned to be more social towards guys.

[joie.de.vivre]

this is what is happening to me this year.

it's kind of amusing to see a 180 degree change in some people's attitudes towards me lmao.

[Sleepy213]

lol...are u showing off? ._.

make sure you spend that time wisely..when its over..you will miss it.

[DeeIsRadicalYeah]

have fun.

just don't let it get ur head.

[LiizziieN]

have fun.

just don't let it get ur head.

Mhmm

Stay true to the red, white and blue.
Idk why I said that, completely random. xD


Keke, this is high school; EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED.

The good and bad. .___.

[taebins_luver]

* What do you think cause this sudden change?
da hormones.
* What can I do to be less anxious around guys?
count to three while breathing in slowly
* How can I keep this "popularity"? Or is it just a phase?
dunno, probably just a phase until guys get used to seeing you around
* Am I just being conceited?
can't answer that for you
* If I'm not, how can I prevent myself from becoming conceited?
don't let the attention get ta ya.

it's high school.

[hippiehop]

^ Hormones, I agree.

You probably got more attractive too... Middle school is usually the awkward stage.