[jinnyblue]

Ok, I'm not talking about french kissing, which I think feels nasty anyways, but just like a closed mouth kiss. With my last relationships, whenever I kissed my bfs, it didn't feel all hot and lovely like everyone makes it seem. At some points, it even feels a bit uncomfortable.

Is something wrong with me? Kissing honestly just feels like skin touching skin to me. Nothing more. I really do wish my heart would skip a beat whenever I did kiss a guy, but it just doesn't. Maybe it's just that I'm a bad kisser or the mood's never right?

Haha, I haven't kissed a guy in more than a year so the only reason why I'm bringing this up is that I'm kind of interested in someone and I wouldn't want this to be a problem in any future relationships.

[Sleepy213]

maybe your just not into those touchy stuff.
skinship.

when you feel REALLY loved..like from deep inside.
you will feel it

[wexbelongxtogether]

Def. Same with me.
I felt nothing too with past relationships.
But see this is how I see it, I didn't love him so I didn't feel any butterflies or whatnot.

[DeeIsRadicalYeah]

sammmmme.

but i did it w/ someone i hardly liked. maybe u hardly liked ur past bfs?

[jbigdog123]

Maybe you don't love or like your bf as much as you think you do?

I would think that if you love your s/o, you would want to let yourself go and get intimate.


Or maybe you aren't into guys? Just saying.

[&LETitgo]

I never found kissing that fun either.
But at a party a couple of days ago, I kissed this guy I barely knew .. but he was the most attractive guy ever.
That was the only time I've ever had that 'skip a beat' feeling.
Idunno, maybe it wouldn't have been the same if I was in a relationship with him and I knew him more, but I had a huge crush on him. Maybe?

[han.yung]

i agree with the others; its probably because you hadn't formed a deep enough bond/attraction for that effect?
i've always thought that kissin was kinda...ugh, too. but when my bf kissed me...WOW. and it was just lips on lips. i love him deeply, btw.

[Kira_Hyuu]

Wahh...maybe the two of ur aren't just like doing it right....omg it's like da best....

Couples that don't find any attraction from kissing probably aren't really couples in the first place. Like maybe ur just not true and so u don't have that bond; couples share when making out....like i mean when ur just making out for the sake of it - it tends to be tasteless since theres no really attraction...

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[xjarvi]

Same with me.. I used to dodge kisses because I didn't feel that connection with my ex's. But I think once you get into an emotional and physical relationship, everything will fall into place.

Good Luck.

[jaeka]

I love my boyfriend tons and my heart doesn't skip a beat when we kiss? Kissing is just the norm and stuff, I like doing it but I don't feel all shook up when kissing, doesn't mean I don't love him?
Hmm, though when we make out that's kinda special. =P

[plumplum]

Maybe you don't like him as much as you thought you did.

[motconkhinho]

you're doing it wrong..

[chocobo_knight]

your kissing the wrong guy
he// you are a really bad kisser
he has crusty lips?
your doing it wrong
your just not a kissing type, look into other options like hugging more or something?

[twinkle_l0ve]

I guess it was the wrong guy?
But don't worry about feeling uncomfortable about it
everyone's different with different likes and wants etc.

[scatter_me]

I'm sure it'll come to you :]

[prisonerzero]

The reason is probably the person you're kissing.

[ANYOTHERDAY]

Wow dams. You're missing out.

[Azngel]

you are a lesbian. you feel good kissing girls.

[derrek]

Some people just don't like it as much, and its something you become more comfortable with and will enjoy more with some lucky future gentleman I'm sure.