My girlfriend and i have been going out for a little over 9 months now. its been all great but lately, more like the start of school, shes different. we use to hang out all the time and stuff and now she leaves with out even saying goodbye, we never kiss anymore, and frankly, i don't even think she likes me anymore. she seems like a different person now. all her friends are guys and it bugs the crap out of me because all she talks about is oh yeah he did this he did that. hes good looking. she will seriously want to talk to any other guy except me. i talked to her about all this stuff that has been going on. she was like " why are you mad all the time?" even though i won't even be mad and she just makes me mad now. she use to make me feel better but now she just makes me so angry that i just want to punch a wall. she keeps asking me "do you stil like me" and in fact i don't even think she likes me anymore and it shows. she talks to my best friend more then she does to me. today i missed her call and so i called back and she was like "oh its ok im talking to robert" and it so happens that i was with him at the time. he left the room and came back and i asked him who was that? and he avoids the question entirely. they knew each other since elementary school and i have the Hugest feeling they like each other even though she claims she doesn't, you can see it even if you were blind. im basically over her but i don't want to break up with her. i want her to break up with me because just because she is just entirely opposite of what i met in the first place, i just don't want her to feel as bad if i broke up with her then she broke with me. im a nice guy that i would say so i always feel sorry for someone... what do i do?
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What Do I Do?
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 10:22 PM
i agree with u that there is no future with her. so u should break up with her. even if u ARE a nice guy..theres no use to dragging the relationship on any longer than it alrdy has...just hurts more in the end.
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Posted 01 November 2008 - 10:56 PM
Well since you've already come to your own conclusions, talk to her about it. Since you've already settled with this whole problem, it probably wouldn't come as a surprise to see her side of the story.
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Posted 02 November 2008 - 12:38 AM
Instead of thinking 'what should I do', I think you just break up with her. Why have it continue ... it's pointless. She obviously doesn't care about how you feel, so stop being so concerned about how you'll feel sorry for breaking up with her.
It seems like she's doing those things intentionally. She doesn't seem to be interested in you anymore and maybe is actually trying to get you to break up with her.
It seems like she's doing those things intentionally. She doesn't seem to be interested in you anymore and maybe is actually trying to get you to break up with her.
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