[seksiiisazn]

im just curious, for you people, especially girls , who are not allowed to date but still have a SO
how do you keep up with the relationship if you cant go out of the house?

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

Phone, AIM, webcam, going out during the weekends, sneaking out late at night.

I've done all of these.

[trabia-wind]

phone.. after school
haha

[Gumball]

This is why mutual friends are awesome. Say you are going to the park or movies with a friend and have her come too wihtout your parents knowing. If the other guy knows he will back off and thats free time for you.

[Humilious]

Texting, chatting, and Facebook.

You're not allowed out of the house? Ever? Even if you're just going to meet your friends or something? Wow, your parents are really strict.

[NangTienUt]

well, my bf graduated last year and i didn't transfer to his high school until then, so either way i never went to school with him, lol. but i used to use school events as an excuse but now i just tell my parents that i'm staying after school whenever. we phone all the time and he drops by sometimes when no one's home. its risky, but totally worth it. just be really careful. XD

[blush]

Phone (call/text), internet, and lying to parents.

[Snowy_Angel]

Phone, msn, my free school days (I tell my mum that the school is having a free dress that day haha) and thats about it...we didn't really go out much which was really sad because my mum is strict and plus I felt guilty lying and going out like that. (Yes I have a conscience and I'm a girl)

[seksiiisazn]

Texting, chatting, and Facebook.

You're not allowed out of the house? Ever? Even if you're just going to meet your friends or something? Wow, your parents are really strict.

im NEVER out of the house, not even for friends. im 16 and i NEVER had a sleepover with my friends yet!! thats how strict my parent are

Phone, msn, my free school days (I tell my mum that the school is having a free dress that day haha) and thats about it...we didn't really go out much which was really sad because my mum is strict and plus I felt guilty lying and going out like that. (Yes I have a conscience and I'm a girl)

i would feel guilty too, i can lie but thats going too far for me

[Sleepy213]

Just like how others do, MSN, AIM , webcam? get ONE ! haha, phone.
afterschool, food and movies and BLEH more. :X

just keep your head up .
one day they will find out, rather they approve it or not..
just expect it. goodluckk

[intricaciesx]

im NEVER out of the house, not even for friends. im 16 and i NEVER had a sleepover with my friends yet!! thats how strict my parent are


i would feel guilty too, i can lie but thats going too far for me

your parents sound like my mom. i'm 18 and i'm still on house lockdown. can't chill with friends like twice a month. (wtf is that?!) never had a sleepover. can't have a bf til i'm outta college (PFFFT). but now since i got the car, i can drive around when i dont have class (but she thinks i have class)

to answer your question, i lied ALOT. snuck out ALOT. ....yea i'm terrrible.
but i dont do bad things! parents are just so freaken strict , i can't help it

[--joyful.]

we talk on the phone a lot
and usually after i have practice i pay him a visit at his friends house
and we walk home together

[forgottenmemories]

Don't worry dear. My parents were like that when I was in grade school too. Major house lock-down. I wasn't allowed to see friends outside of school, no school dances, etc. They didn't back off until I was actually in college. And even so, they're still pretty damn strict about going out at night.

Anywho, about your boyfriend situation. You can still maintain a relationship with him even if you don't see him outside of school, just tell him the truth. If he likes you enough, he'll understand. And you can always use the excuse, "I have a club meeting after school, I need to stay for a couple hours." And take advantage of those times and spend it with him. Or if you both have a free period and one of you have a car, you can always go out during those times. That's what I did in high school, if I knew that there wasn't anything due/to do in a certain class, I would just ditch it and hang out with friends. You can always chat, IM, Text, call. Come on! We're living in the digital age, take full advantage of it.

[CityCharisma]

see them after school, on computer, weekends, make up fake plans, lie

[seksiiisazn]

im down with the digital stuff, i just need a new router..mine has bad signal