[Pomegranate]

He's male, and i'm female and we have been pretty tight friends for about a year.
My one (female) long time friend is a consistant cheater and pretty much, a skank, but she looks really innocent.
I started hearing dirty things about her last month and it just...totally ruined my image of her.
I told him about these things and how disgusting and degrading they were and he agreed with me.
Two weeks later?
I heard at a party I was at, she gave him a bj. (I didn't know at the time)
2 days after that?
They're going out.
4 days after that?
They had sex.

What's worse?
He barely talks to me at all
When he talks to me on msn, it's either about his girlfriend, or what he does with his girlfriend.
If I talk to EITHER OF THEM on msn, it is quickly followed by a response by the other. EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT TALKING TO THE OTHER.
EXAMPLE. (I don't call him by his real name, I made a nickname for him long ago)
Guy: Gf calls me by my real name =)
Me: =OOO No way!
Guy: Yes way =)

*I go to her window on msn*
Me: YOYOYOYOYOYO!!
You call your bf by his real name now?! =o (She didn't before they started dating, or the first week)
Girl: I'm sorry =(

*in another window*
Guy: Don't freak out at her man. It's not her fault

Me: >_>**************

He is extremely...bland now. I can't talk to him properly anymore =\
He's not as cool as he used to be.
What should I do...? =\ He says he's really serious about her, but he's always in a "serious" relationship >_>.
I still want to be his friend, but I feel as if the part of him I knew is gone...

[unforgettable_misses]

it sounds like you like him...

you can continue talking to him, but he's
prolly gonna be busy and wants to spend more time
with the gf...sorry. If its really bothering you
just tell him that you miss talking to him.

if not
make new friends with other guys...
everyday is an opportunity lol.

[winteryskys]

sounds like a guy friend i use to have. he was pretty cool and fun to talk to.
but then he hardly talks to me now. always talkin to his gf and stuff.
you could tell him that you miss talkin to him.. but he probly wants to spend most of his time with his gf since its like all new and stuff.
maybe after some time he might realise he misses talkin to u? and will start talkin to u again.

[Pomegranate]

unforgettable: I def. DO NOT like him =p. My interest in white boys is SEVERELY limited xDDD I do hang out with my other guy friends, but I just miss being his number one girl, y'know? =(. The sad part is, he does try to talk to me at school, but he makes it look like such an obligation I avoid him so much...

winteryskys: I was thinking of just laying low for now, but we have so much together =(
We're going to see a concert soon, and my birthday is coming close. I have a class with him next semester as well. We also scheduled to go to Japan together in the summer and he invited his girlfriend... >_>"

[ngarky]

wow.....b1tch move. no joke.
what an ass.
but bros before hoes never applies until after their relationship turns to sh1t and they come back crying to you for help cuz they realize what a skank their girlfriend is.
but chances are you'll still be there to help.
and that's when they realize its "bros before hoes"/"chicks over dicks" or w/e.

but i hope your friend realizes soon enough.
since him and the slut are taking things fast enough anyway >_>

my advice to you is:
a. don't let it get to you.
b. talk to him when he does/needs to (i.e. continue to back him up)
but c. give each other space and lots of it.

yeah. you're "losing" a part of him. but it's whether or not he comes back that's important.
if he's a true friend he'll appreciate you properly.
if not, then..you're not losing much either. (c'mon..he chose a bj over you).

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

why should you have to do anything?


let it be. it won't last long anyway, trust me.

but anyway, be there for your friend when he needs you, thats it. um although, don't always be available for him though.....ugh..just keep a balance between the two.

don't judge your friend for his actions....

[heheimawesome]

In your case its hoe before hoe
HAHAHA since you're a girl. i'm not calling you a hoe though. dont shoot me. please
PLEASE.

[Pomegranate]

ngarky: Thank you ;_; You've been a lot of help, really. I just hope i'm not really bitter after the relationship >_>

sourcream: I'll try and keep it balanced...@_@ Though I have a habit of either always being there, or just cutting off all ties...

heheiamawesome: >_>; Wow thanks...um. yeah I can say something really mean but I won't.
I just want you to leave this thread. >_>

[Flicksityy]

I think you left out a line in your post. You somewhat like him, you somewhat think you somewhat own him.

And why did you get all worked up after the 'girl' called him by his first name? Why does it matter that they aren't listening to you on what to do anymore? You don't control them. They don't have to listen to your ranting and jealous comments.

These things happen in life, things do not always go the way you want. And why does if even matter of what you want? You cannot control them selfishly and they have their own lives. You have your own.

Let them have their fun.

[<3 Kim]

Yeah, they sound like they won't last very long.
Go find some other friends and hang out with them instead

[Kira_Hyuu]

Hmm honestly i've never believed in that line because i mean guy's just don't think it through sometimes - like i'm kinda generalising but yeah it just never works like that....but yeah sounds like ur kinda jealous...ima just has like some impression.

They'll be over in a few weeks don't fret...

[Pomegranate]

I think you left out a line in your post. You somewhat like him, you somewhat think you somewhat own him.

And why did you get all worked up after the 'girl' called him by his first name? Why does it matter that they aren't listening to you on what to do anymore? You don't control them. They don't have to listen to your ranting and jealous comments.

These things happen in life, things do not always go the way you want. And why does if even matter of what you want? You cannot control them selfishly and they have their own lives. You have your own.

Let them have their fun.

Like I said before, I definately don't like him.
I most likely am possesive about him though.

I didn't get worked up. I was just really surprised. That's why I got really annoyed when he told me to calm down >_>.

I just feel very betrayed that he would agree with me and say that shes really dirty, and then suddenly they are madly in love.
We were really close friends and we would talk about a lot of things, and him liking her never came up in our conversations.

I've realized that what they are doing is expected of their age, but seriously, they tell me all this stuff that I DON'T need to hear (PG-13 plox x__x), he pushes me away when she comes, and he still expects me to be his bestest buddy when she's not there.
So who's really being selfish?

[Daikirai]

My one (female) long time friend is a consistant cheater and pretty much, a skank, but she looks really innocent.

I guess you don't have much to worry about, since it'll be over soon after she cheats on him.

[xMoix]

Call him a h0rny little boy. FO SHO. :]

LOL @ THE GIRL WHO SAID YOU LIKE HIM. And A WHOLE LOT OF BS SOMEWHATS. LOL. GET A ROOM FLICKSITTY. :[]

[Juli~<3]

theyre just having some fun.
give it a week or so and it'll be history.
in the meanwhile, get a better friend.