[Kimbree]

Well title says all but when someone is already in a relationship is it possible to love two people at once?
Or is it just plain cheating?

[grainsofrain]

It's possible, but to me, that's like cheating.

[ElectroHime]

i dont think its possible.
i think you can only truly love 1.
if you cant figure out which one it is, then you dont "love" either one at all.
I think if a person can "love" more than one person at the same time, then their probably not "in-love" with the people they're seeing, but they're in love with the idea of being in love itself, so they search & search for whats missing .

[love_hurts]

I think it is possible. Because I just do.
But I won't call it cheating.

[aiyan]

I don't think it's possible to truly love two people at once, but it's possible to have two likes/crushes at once.

Having feelings for two people isn't cheating, unless you actually do something about your feelings such as flirting excessively with a person other than your significant other.

[Kiribati]

Emotionally cheating, perhaps.

[ShadowMax76]

"don't leave the one you love for the one you like." - some chick around here quoted that.

oO' i'd say it's just plain rude... LOL. i mean. it's like you got bored of the first one.
then you find a more charming person.
but you SAY you still love the other one. but really.. it's pity and loyalty that makes you stay...

>.>' but hey. that's just me being bad humoured.

-shrugs- i think it's not love. just feelings. test of faith, perhaps.
"wanting what you can't have"

hm. i feel sorry for those who have their hearts caught off guard when they're already taken.

[cheerydumdum]

yeah, you can. but it's like cheating to me. on oprah, this lady was talking about how she had a husband and a boyfriend both at the same time, and all three were okay with it. it's really strange in my opinion, but hey, if they're happy, then it's all good. :]

[_ATELIER]

i think it's possible,
however life is unfair and apparently doing so
means cheating =[

[pocketsoul]

If your feelings are conflicted, you really shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. That is cheating.

[Rekidai]

if you think you love both of them, you love none of them. its simple, you can only love one person you can't love two. you shouldnt be in a relationship at all because thats cheating to the other person if you like another.

[xblendizzle]

yeah it's possible. i dont get why ppl regard love as soo high & special & only for one person. We can create as much love as we want & give it whoever whenever. If u love 2 ppl, just remember not to be unfaithful

[PandaKiss]

^ Umm, isn't that already being unfaithful?
'Cause she did mention about being in a relationship...

Hmm, I don't think so.
The other one is more lust, 'cause you're already in a relationship,
so you want what you can't have?

[aznsweetie143]

Everyone's opinion of "love" is different.

Some say "love" is genuine, and there's only one love.
Others say there are different kinds of love.
It's up to you to decide for yourself.

I think that you can "like" two people, but not "love,"
I think you if you'd love two people, it's be obvious who you'd love more, since love is such a strong emotion.

Anything is possible in a relationship.
At the end of the day, it's just a label.

It's not cheating.
You can be attracted to another person,
but it's not cheating until you act on it.

[bri2cu]

i think you can love 2 people at once.
we have soo much love to go around.
just see which one you love more...give them both a chance.

[eximius]

Possible? Yes.
Cheating? Emotionally, yes... unless you're physical with both of them.

[Jennibeans]

then you dont "love" the person

and yeh i'd consider it emotionally cheating

[Flicksityy]

If you're in a relationship but yet love another, it means you're simply loving the person who's not involved with the relationship. In order words it's just one person.

It would be regarded as cheating as long as there's no action towards the guy. That's what I think.

[redvelvet.]

its possible, but its emotionally cheating.

[-One-]

anythings possible...but really it's cheating.

this kind of reminds me of an old chinese drama(?)

its called wei siew po ^^ he had 12 wives