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i wanan know what ppl think bout CHEATERS. Is it Ok? Would you forgive them? Would you dump them or take them back?! like cheating as in - sex.

[mizz_J]

No, it is not ok
To me, it's "once a cheater, always a cheater". So no, i would not forgive them.
I would dump them, that's for sure.

Who wants to be with a cheater anyway?

[night]

Would you forgive them?
Even if i wanted to, i don't think i can ever forgive him.

Would you dump them or take them back?
Dump...i can never trust him again and I'll be too disappointed that he betrayed me.

[SiMPLY PiNk*]

i can't understand people who take back cheaters.

[sayuri43]

I'd dump them. Cheating goes against my morals... plus it means that your relationship is shaky and that would make me question whether I should be in a relationship or not.

[<3 Kim]

No, I would never take back someone who cheated. I probably wouldn't forgive them either

[GOOMBA]

I can't tolerate cheating.

Ever.

[Kira_Hyuu]

Hmm nah i'm really open about these things....so i'd won't care if my gf went to sleep with another guy....since it's her choice.....so she can't complain me sleeping with another girl....

[Keion]

No, don't trust them.

They proved that they have the mentality to cheat, so it makes them dangerous to your mental state if you get attached to them. You'll always be paranoid...it isn't worth it.

I would get back with them though, so I can get back at them for cheating on me (which I've done). It's not an issue of the pain they caused me because the pain would be trivial...not a lot of people can really do that to me.

I did it because I didn't like how they thought they can pull that off on me and get away with it. I would feel...irritated and a little inferior and we just can't live through life feeling below someone....and by we, I mean myself...yeah, confusing lol.

[-One-]

No, i probably wouldn't accept it and wouldn't do it.

[JetGirl]

dump. Obviously.
Why let him hurt you more? Even if you 'forgive' him, you still have to go through that REAALLY rocky phase of where you can't look them in the fce because you're psychologically holding it against him.

[TotalCamwhore]

For those that say "dump" so easily...wait till it actually happens and u might be surprised at your decision.

Obviously the trust between two people have been destroyed, provoking paranoia and constant arguments about the past, friends that are of opp gender etc...

But yeah. I took her back. Because i love her and I have forgiven her. She's changed a lot since then.

[ulat_bulu]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I'd dump him. No matter how much I love him. Bah.

[Flicksityy]

Once they cheat they'll find it okay to cheat again.

[Eijiro]

If you forgive them and take them back, then they just feel there are no consequences or repurcussions for their actions... they won't change at all.

[~~PuhPuhMuh~~]

maybe ill forgive him but ill never forget it..
it wont work anyway if there is no trust in a relationship

[jaeka]

Cheating is never right, or good, never. I'd dump their ass. Who knows they're not gonna do it again, if you let them off with it once. =P

[Kenstr]

If it's anything, it's trust. People like them disgust me.

[poop!]

no way in hell would I take a cheater back. I'm just not a very forgiveable person.

[ttsanhd]

I been cheated on to the fullest extent, I was young and dumb so I gave her another chance. I was in a 5 year relationship and she was my only gf so I didn't know what I'd do without her. But then she cheated on me again so I had to let her go. It was probably the hardest decision I have ever made but I had to do it because it's whats best for both of us.