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How Not To Be Clingy?

#1 girlygirl8

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:07 AM

Been in a relationship foe awhile and feel that i am being ignored away b'cus i am too clingy, any help on how NOT to be TOO CLINGY?

#2 Meenuh

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:11 AM

Get a hobby. Don't make your s/o the center of your universe. Concentrate on school or something. Just keep yourself busy.

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#3 mikomi

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:11 AM

The best way is to fill your time doing things away from your significant other- go out with friends, have a night to yourself watching an old favorite, if you have pets dedicate a day to hanging out with him/her, help out with your family. Be busy doing things away from your s/o and mabe limit yourself to half the amount of time you usually spend with him/her.

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#4 damien devlin

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:21 AM

try to play hard to get, but not in a spitefull sleazy way, just try not to be around her and she'll then want to be around you, it works for me:)

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:21 AM

get busy perhaps or train yourself not to be the jealous type. i think clingyness comes from jealousy.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 02:23 PM

go out and do something. then you'll become busy and there will be less time to cling.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 03:06 PM

Hang out with your friends. Dont schedule your life around him.

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#8 Flicksityy

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 12:04 AM

Do not concentrate on your s/o most of the time, give yourself a life out of that barrier.

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#9 tofu plushie

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 12:17 AM

Focus on your attention on other things like focusing on studying or finding a hobby you like. Or maybe hang out with your friends more to get your mind off you s/o.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 12:35 AM

It's simple really: Don't try to make it seem like your life revolves around your S/O

Spend time on yourself too.

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#11 damyoungji

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 01:46 AM

Remind yourself that relates are not everything. There are others around you who I am sure you can have fun hanging out with.

Becoming too clingy might make you lose yourself, too. Everyone needs personal space and different people in their lives.

Clingy is good, but not when you do it too much. It might annoy the person you are with, and it may make them feel like you do not trust them.

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