Is It Weird To Not Like To Be Around Friends Who Drink?

Is It Weird To Not Like To Be Around Friends Who Drink? like i feel im different...

#1 영원한 사랑

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 07:43 PM

I must be like very weird but i dislike being around people who drink ......

My dad used to drink ALOTTTTT so i had to put up with his annoying behavior like every week ..... he used to get violent and scare me with his drunk behavior...... so weirdly now whenever i see someone drunk i wanna get away......

all the people i know around me love being around it and whenever they go out and drink, i stay home cuz i dont like it ....and it for some reason i feel happy that way...... xDD

Anyoen feel uncomfortable/not like being around alcohol and friends who drink???

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 07:45 PM

Drinking, I won't care.
Smoking, get the hell away from me.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 08:05 PM

i used to hate smokers and drinkers.
then i started to accept both, to the point i would consider occasionally doing either in the far future. [special occasions..lol]

i obviously hated the idea of seeing people become a disgrace to themselves.. becoming disgusting creatures - making us question who they really are.

but there's that quality of being free from conscious restraints like keeping a 'fake' self-image, that seems admirable/desirable.

o-O' of course.. it's some sort of social culture across the world that is accepted..

'spose not all drunks are angry drunks. oO' some might be funny.. so a friend told me.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 08:12 PM

No, I personally don't think it's weird because I myself get very uncomfortable around my friends who do drink. I don't know why I don't drink but I'm guessing that it's because while I was growing up I had health issues so I don't want to take chances just in case. Off topic. Anyways I don't think it's weird. Since we don't drink most of us feel uncomfortable because we're usually singled out or there are reasons why we are antis.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 08:14 PM

It isn't weird. It is all based on person preference. Eventually you may have to come to accept that it is just a social aspect that we must all learn to cope with.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 09:45 PM

QUOTE (영원한 사 @ Nov 11 2008, 12:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I don't like being around friends that drink either. I usually avoid them when I know they're drinking but sometimes at birthday parties they'll drink some alcoholic beverage but they never try to make me drink it because I've told all of my friends that I don't like alcohol and it bothers me.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 10:37 PM

almost everyone i know drinks. lol. but i'd still go out with them even if i'm a non-drinker. =]

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:14 PM

It's not weird for me since my most of friends don't drink a lot. I have some friends who do drink a lot but, either way it's not awkward for me.

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:23 PM

i dont mind people drinking unless there like wasteddd and act crazy

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 11:25 PM

I don't mind having friends who drink, but I prefer my girlfriend to not drink excessively and not smoke at all.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 12:26 AM

I dont like people who drink/smoke.
I mean if they drink like a little or for special occasion or whatever, then that's ok. But if they become an alcohol, then please, dont become one in front of me.
I absolutely dislike people who smoke. They smell, seriously. When i'm near someone who smokes, i'm basically a second-hand smoker. Damn.

And no, it's not weird to not being around these people.
I dont like being around them either.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 12:30 AM

I don't really care seeing a guy drink. But when I see a girl drink, especially if shes close.. then I just feel weird. ><
I don't know. It sends off these weird signals and makes me think bad of them LOL..

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 12:51 AM

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We are definitely on the same boat xDDD

I also stay away from hang outs if it involves drinking, I don't like it and I don't care xD

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 01:06 AM

im used to going to weddings and funerals with people around me drinking.
i don't like being around people who drink, things could happen

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 01:13 AM

It's not weird, I try to stay away from people who drink as much as I can.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 07:04 AM

I can understand why you don't like being around drunk people due to your past experiences. This is not odd at all.

I don't mind drinkers but I can't tolerate smokers because by being around them, they are affecting your health too. I detest binge drinking. Like, I hate people who are dependent on being wasted to have a good time.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 07:29 AM

man if you keep hanging around those type of people, eventually they'll make you the designated driver.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 09:17 AM

As long as they aren't abusive drunks I don't care.
My dad used to have a drinking problem...and I threw beer bottles at him one day.
He casually drinks now so it's all good.
Then again most of my friends aren't big drinkers, and if they are they're pretty responsible with it.

Smoking on the other hand, go away. Be like 10 blocks away from me.
Because second hand smoking will kill you faster than the smokers themselves will die.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 09:19 AM

I grew up around my father drinking. He has a problem, but that doesn't speak for every person that gets drunk. But smoking.. Get away from me.

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 10:51 AM

Smoking, man I that, they better put it away from people...like no one wants to smell that ugly smoke.

Anyway there's nothing wrong. You just don't like drinking and you just don't appreciate people drinking around you...
I'm alright with close people drinking a cup or beer or so but yeah, it does feel weird lol.
My grandpa is a alcoholic and I hate it. Its like why drink your life away? So thats why a small amount is tolerable.