[ShadowMax76]

i find that the Americans that i've met are really mature and affectionate creatures [lol]

oO' but . that aside

does anyone believe in striving to become a good leader or understanding/big hearted person?

anything that creates an image of being 'perfect'. [like a 'perfect student' or those 'perfect' guys in those books you girls read. >.>' ]

or are you more inclined to finding out who you are , and be happy with that?

_ it's somewhat inspired by fiction, i believe..
my english teacher, a person who could predict your every thought and reason AS WELL as compose the perfect thing to say on the spot [for humour or advice]. he's part drama teacher/actor, but i think there's something in his striving to be perfect and away from stereotypes of being a dimwitted man.

_ then there's those asian pieces of fiction.
despite the fondness of making endearing qualities of imperfect/perverted men [think naruto or the many seinin mangas]


o.O' is it just.. the acceptance of faults that made us so lazy?