[Cadbury]

Okay, I have a friend problem and I would like to know if I’m overreacting or if it’s completely understandable. This has been going on for a few months but I'd only just crack today. Warning: It’s kinda long…

There’s this girl who I’m really close friends with. And she moved to a different school. The people in my school have always disliked this girl for various reasons but because I was close with her I stuck by her, making sure she’s okay and checking up on her things like that. And the b.itching got to the point where even I became targeted for being her friend but I still stuck by her.

Now the thing is, I got into a lot of big trouble the past few months with my parents for sneaking out (I don’t go out at all so I decided to go out on my free classes) My mum found out and called my friend and started questioning her about me in a pretty peed off tone. And she knows the gist of the type of trouble that I get at home. So my internet got cut off, I’m constantly being checked up on and everything was just chaotic.

What I had expected of her was to actually email me asking if I was okay or whatever. But she didn’t. I have these two other friends who I’m not as close to as I am with her but when they heard about what had happened they immediately sent me msgs asking if I was okay. It’s been a few months now and she still hasn’t said anything. She ran into a friend of mine asking how I’ve been and said that she’d email me but she hasn’t.

We both have myspace and we wrote a lot of things on each others myspace. I was on her myspace yesterday and saw that everything that I had written was deleted and that I was completely off her top friends.

I might be overreacting, I’m not sure. But I find that it’s completely unfair that I had to go through crap for her and the one time that I actually needed to talk to someone she isn’t exactly there. And still isn’t.

So I suppose I just want to know if I do have a right in getting a bit pissed.

Edit: Nah, I know I will get over it. I just didn't expect it coming from her because she's had two people whose done a similiar thing to her and she was pretty torn up about it. And seeing as how we were really, really close I didn't think she'd do it to me. Lol, sorry about the font.

[ShadowMax76]

1. i never got why the font has to be so so small...

_ anyways.

oO' i 'spose you could be angry at her.
was it her fault? Oo'

x_X' then again.. neh. >.>' it's not about that .

-flaps arms- at least you found out who your friends are.

[eximius]

You're pissed and for good reason... but get over it.
I hate to say it but a lot (not all) of people are two-faced and will turn on you in an instant, and all that kind of crap.
You can't get hung up over it forever and for each time it happens... be upset as long as you need to be.

[damyoungji]

Your story reminds me a bit of my experiences with one of my three ex-best friends.

She was picked on by everyone because she used to cry everyday back in elementary school. I have to admit that I was annoyed by it, but I stuck up for her, nor did I join in with the bashing by students from our grade. With all my ex-best friends, I have protected them and helped them when they needed it. When I needed help, they will only get back to me when they have time to. Otherwise, they just told me to stop exaggerating and listen to their issues instead. All of them have done stuff to me that made me lose trust in them, too.

Anyway, the point is, you are not exaggerating at all. But like you said in your edit, you will get over it =) There are plenty of better people for you to meet!