[killerbeex]

i really care about this girl and we've been talking for a couple months now. i guess i acted too late and she has a boyfriend now. But i heard she doesn't like how awkward and boring he is. I talk to her a lot more than he does. I've already waited a month for them to break up but they haven't yet. I can't stop thinking about her. What should I do about my situation?

[jN x3 sK]

Have you expressed to her how you feel? Let her know, and see where it takes you from there.

[小甜密]

They haven't broken up for a month, doesn't that tell you something? Even though she complains about her boyfriend, it doesn't mean the relationship is going bad. In addition, it's not healthy to lead yourself on like that.

[killerbeex]

i know...
im so confused. her friends tell me that they're not doing so well, and that i only have to wait a little longer. but i have no clue if thats true. ahh! :/ i watched a movie with her last night and she didnt invite her boyfriend. does that mean anything?

oh yeah, btw, thanks for replying to my post.

[Namine]

Maybe it s too late to act on it now.
Does she even hint that she likes you? Or liked you?
It's really shifty to say, unfortunately!
I cannot clearly assume what she is feeling.
Everyone complains about their other person sometimes.
Hm.
But if she was the type to go with someone she didn't like, that'd be wrong.
I'm saying that she probably likes her boyfriend, or else she wouldn't have gotten with him, ne?

Hm. I can't say this could go anywhere.
I mean that'd be horrible if she broke up with him to be with you (if that would even happen)
Because then what would that say what she'd do to you when she is with you?

I'm going too far with this!
Sorry!

Edit:
If she does like you, you should talk to her.
Are you sure its not that she just thinks you two are really good friends?

[nicorobin]

Does she show ANY interest in you?

Maybe she's just adhering to the Cantonese Proverb "ride cow to find horse".

But why get off the cow if the horse is not showing interest ... get it get it?

[killerbeex]

Maybe it s too late to act on it now.
Does she even hint that she likes you? Or liked you?
It's really shifty to say, unfortunately!
I cannot clearly assume what she is feeling.
Everyone complains about their other person sometimes.
Hm.
But if she was the type to go with someone she didn't like, that'd be wrong.
I'm saying that she probably likes her boyfriend, or else she wouldn't have gotten with him, ne?

Hm. I can't say this could go anywhere.
I mean that'd be horrible if she broke up with him to be with you (if that would even happen)
Because then what would that say what she'd do to you when she is with you?

I'm going too far with this!
Sorry!

Edit:
If she does like you, you should talk to her.
Are you sure its not that she just thinks you two are really good friends?

well, she liked me a lot like 2 or 3 months ago. But i was too stupid to realize it. ;lakdjfs
idk, her boyfriend is such a Richard though. :/
he asks out girls before he even gets to know them.
So he asked her out like after a week of talking to her.
He's done it before also... this is the third time. :[
idk why theyre still going out!!! T-T they dont even talkk.

ty for your colorful yet helpful reply

Does she show ANY interest in you?

Maybe she's just adhering to the Cantonese Proverb "ride cow to find horse".

But why get off the cow if the horse is not showing interest ... get it get it?

LOL i didnt get the quote... but its alright hahaa
well, we talk almost everyday.
on instant messenger, texts, at school.
we talked a lot last night while we were hanging out.
gawd, i realize how much of a Richard her bf is... gawd. :/

[Wontons]

this happened to me as well lol, but it didn't end well. my advice is make sure you figure out the position your in. Does she takenyou as a friend? Or does she show interest in you. Because, I had the wrong MSG. I hung out with her more than her bf we talked more, and I was always there for her. But it all went wrong cuz I thought these were signs that she was interested. But she unfortunately took me as a best friend. But because of this, it ruined our friendship because its awkward to talk to her. Think it through. What does she take you as? Gluck don't screw up like me!

[popolala]

he asks out girls before he even gets to know them.
So he asked her out like after a week of talking to her.

o__O... she sounds shallow.. hey.. to me.. she deserve to b with him.. they both shallow! suit each other! who cares if 1 is boring.. thats how shallow ppl are anyways!

[killerbeex]

this happened to me as well lol, but it didn't end well. my advice is make sure you figure out the position your in. Does she takenyou as a friend? Or does she show interest in you. Because, I had the wrong MSG. I hung out with her more than her bf we talked more, and I was always there for her. But it all went wrong cuz I thought these were signs that she was interested. But she unfortunately took me as a best friend. But because of this, it ruined our friendship because its awkward to talk to her. Think it through. What does she take you as? Gluck don't screw up like me!

ouch, that sounds so sad... T-T
crap. LOL
well, idk were not as close to be "best friends"
but were definitely pretty close.
she used to like me, so... does that mean anything?

[tofu plushie]

Maybe she was waiting for you to make a move than gave up and moved on to her current bf. It seems like now you both are just a friends and she talks to you because she feels like she can confide in you. There isn't much you can do. You can either move on or continue to be patient and wait for her. Personally, I think you should move on because if she does break up sometime soon that doesn't mean she'll feel the same way about you as she did before. People's feelings can change.

[PoooBear]

Maybe you've moved yourself into the friend zone and became the guy that she complains to about her "crappy" boyfriend.
When in fact he isn't that bad, some girls tend to exaggerate
If you didn't know this, I'm sorry, girls do a lot of sneak attacks

Move on? or tell her how you feel?

[killerbeex]

Maybe you've moved yourself into the friend zone and became the guy that she complains to about her "crappy" boyfriend.
When in fact he isn't that bad, some girls tend to exaggerate
If you didn't know this, I'm sorry, girls do a lot of sneak attacks

Move on? or tell her how you feel?

mm, she never mentions her bf around me :/
idk if thats good or bad? LOL
im really not sure about moving on tho...
but im making it a little bit more obvious that i have feelings for her

[babybuggyY2K]

have you ever heard that a lot of girls dont mean what they say. sometimes when i feel neglected by my boyfriend or i'm mad at him over something i may say these things to my friends about him too. but it doesnt mean i dont love him.

and maybe you're just a very close friend to her

[donporkuloin]

Tell her what you feel and see what happens?

[killerbeex]

Tell her what you feel and see what happens?

i think i might D:

[supplayarr]

you've got to ask yourself.
why do you feel this way now....that she has a boyfriend.
its a common symptom of being lonely.
you dont think about someone until you've lost your chance.
in this case, you have.
regret it. but not too much.
talk to her. maybe show you like her a little more.
but dont come straight out and say you like her.
its quite rude.
cause you missed your chance. get in the back of the fuking line.
and you shouldn't be asking her friends how her relationship is going.
you should be asking her. show you care.
and if she does say its starting to suck and what not ask her to think if she truly likes the guy.
and if she staggers and doesnt know. then subtley imply that maybe they should break up.
and boom. youve got your chance back.
but dont take the disney fast pass right after things are over.
get closer to her. hold her. wait a few weeks.
and then dazzle her.

and you might be thinking, hey this is a freaking long process. why cant i just tell her?
well like i said before, you missed your chance. so earn it back.