[._.]

Well i'm a guy and apparently i'm outgoing with others and shy around my girlfriend.

I can talk easily with other people but when I talk to my gf it's sort of difficult for me cause she's the girl who makes me so nervousssssss

also you know how couples usually hug, arm around, kiss, etc.?
it's so difficult for me to do that for some reason o.o
idk, maybe im not comfortable at doing that with other people around
or i haven't reached that comfort level with my gf?

like i do it, but it's difficult for me.

idk, this sounds retarded but yeah i feel like im clueless
(first gf too)

[Eijiro]

Considering the amount of topics you've created about your girlfriend, I'm going to say you aren't ready for relationships yet.

[mintcracker]

^ lmfao


I would think you would get with sb you feel comfortable around, but guess ppl are different.

[onewaylove]

^ ^ ahahaha

i think that's cute actually. she is your first gf but you've still got that nervousness around her- something that, if lost, can quickly make a relationship dull. not sure if im making sense but it's not necessarily a bad thing
heeh. just try not to let it get in the way of things. one of my ex's couldn't even hold a decent conversation with me

[._.]

^ ^ ahahaha

i think that's cute actually. she is your first gf but you've still got that nervousness around her- something that, if lost, can quickly make a relationship dull. not sure if im making sense but it's not necessarily a bad thing
heeh. just try not to let it get in the way of things. one of my ex's couldn't even hold a decent conversation with me

yeah its not that i CANT do these things, its just difficult.
i want it to be easy for me and feeling natural
problem is, doesn't feel natural.

Eijiro stop stalking my threads and making the same posts :[

[Eijiro]

Eijiro stop stalking my threads and making the same posts :[

What? This is the first time I've posted that in any of your threads.

[._.]

What? This is the first time I've posted that in any of your threads.

alright nevermind sorry.

[Pogichinoy]

Sounds like you're simply nervous with your first gf.

Give it some time, things will blow over and you'll have the courage to put your arm around her as much as you want.

[Emerald Snow]

You're just very nervous, that's all, since she is your first girlfriend. It'll take some to warm up to her naturally, I hope.

[bbyneleh]

wow i completely understand you.
that was the same problem as me and my ex..
he wanted to do couple stuff in front of my friends but i didnt.
it wasnt that i couldnt it just was that i didnt feel comfortable doing it.
then i realised that it was because i didnt really like him that much to show my affection in front of others.
thank god its over..

but that was just my reason for not doing that.. he was my first bf too.

you guys might just need more time to feel comfortable with each other :]

[cowsie]

Well it takes time for you to be comfortable with someone; especially those that gives you butterflies. give it time. just make sure she won't mind your nervousness.

[StealthGnome]

And make sure she doesn't get the wrong idea.
(Oh man... you SO don't want that. Believe me.)

[tsubibo200]

take it easy
gals like guys with a bit of confidence (but not too much)
you want to enjoy spending time with her and getting to know her, not get all nervous when you're around her

just dont take it too seriously..you're young, and dating should be fun