QUOTE(Tuffcore @ Feb 23 2007, 02:38 AM) 
Not many guys want a women who will bring them humiliation man. Get serious. Would you want a women who will bring you humiliation? No right?
You sound like a guy who would date your friend's ex. May i ask, how do you do it?
How do you face your friends when you're with her?
What would your friends think of you when you're dating an Ex from the crew?
It would depend on what kind of guy that ex-boyfriend is. Fair enough though. You bring up a good point though and i need to resolve these thoughts before entering into any new relationship.
"Leftover" is just a word. Chillax. I also called women "treasure" in the same breathe but nobody seemed to have taken notice.
You sound like a guy who would date your friend's ex. May i ask, how do you do it?
How do you face your friends when you're with her?
What would your friends think of you when you're dating an Ex from the crew?
It would depend on what kind of guy that ex-boyfriend is. Fair enough though. You bring up a good point though and i need to resolve these thoughts before entering into any new relationship.
"Leftover" is just a word. Chillax. I also called women "treasure" in the same breathe but nobody seemed to have taken notice.
no one likes to be humiliated, but i believe there are girls (to me) in life that are worth the humiliation. furthermore, if my crew were to insult me and attempt to humiliate me over it, you can guess where their friendship lies. heh
would i ever date my friend's ex's? my preference is no, but if i found her to be someone i want to get to know more and would want to date, i'd figure out a way to date her and keep peace with my friends.
as for your choice of words, i dont think i was trying to get all worked up over it. lately i've had a soompier or two who didnt like the tone of my post. but im being pretty chill about it. it might have come out bluntly, but it was just my opinion based on the way you talked about girls in the past few posts.
in addition, i'll take notice to your choice of the word 'treasure' as well, since you wanted to point out the double standard. leftover, garbage or treasure... i still disagree with the use of words that describe girls/women as possessions.
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And watcher, i do treat women well... too well in fact. I suppose I had a moment of lapse and didn't "talk" about them with adequate respect. I understand the offence taken by others. Heck, it was blindboi who threw around the term "leftover" and although i agree with the context of his message, let me also agree with everyone that he had a tasteless choice of words. Basically, what blindboi said was what you said. You said you wouldn't date your friend's Ex right? Mind if i ask you why?
if the girl is someone i've thought about and decided was good for me, and worth all the effort, then i'd go for it. but there are many times when i'd meet someone i'm open minded too, but not very excited about. in such a case, i'd lack motivation, and any extra effort on my part would influence me not to try. and the extra effort of keeping peace between the friend and the girl i date is something i'd rather do without. (in most cases at least)
