[Tuffcore]

^ the sad thing is, I predict that she will want you back anyway. If you don't make the decision to end this right now, she will probably draw you back into the relationship. And later on, whenever the two of you get into a quarrel, she'll recall this incident and use it to demean you: "You slapped me before!" And when she spits this in your face, you might feel so guilty and awful and worthless that you just might lose your temper, and slap her again...

Stop it, please.

Good call! Nice. Very nice. and so she came back after that... only to have us break up 2 days later.

After we broke up officially, we both had a soft spot in our hearts and saw a way to give it one more try the next morning.



We're even talking about marriage now...

but that's only in the works. What's more important at the moment is that you predict 6 numbers between 1 and 49. The draw is this Wednesday night. We can split the winnings

[blue_shoe]

^^^^

Don't worry about it, I am sure if the right guy came along you won't even think about being shy and just try everything to talk to him.

Like I said, I'm shy but it's not like I don't talk.

sigh, arent we at an age where we kinda dont have time to have a guy/girl just come along? i kinda feel like that, like time is running out..

yeah I do feel like my time is running out too, how old are you anyway? Guys are still attractive in there 30s, but a woman is considered OLD.

I feel the same way. Now that some of my friends have gotten married, I am obsessed with marriage. When I meet a girl, the part of her body that I look at first is her ring finger. When I'm around my female friends, I think to myself, "What about her? Could I...?" When I'm asleep, I have dreams about getting married. I have even asked my parents to find someone for me.

Wow, asking your parents to help you. Gosh, I wish I can help you cause asking your parents mean you're really in NEED.

[suki_*]

^ yeah, it'll be WEIRD. Had the role been reverse, it wouldn't. It's not that you don't have a lot of money. It's the fact that you live with your dad is gonna be weird for her to like you.

I have a question to people out there. I don't know why, but older men don't seem to like me. Don't get me wrong. I get guys who like me, but it seems only the ones who are younger than me. What do you ppl see as the problem?

At first I thought it's because I look like a kid. I'm 23, but I really look 16. Then I'm thinking, it's because I'm inexperience and seems immature? I don't know. Or is it because I'm shy around older guys which makes me seem unattractive, but since I don't like younger guys I'm more confident which makes me more attractive?

maybe change style and dress a little older? There's always immaturity with different ppl at the same age too, so it's all about they way you present yourself. try to open up a bit more, and be more out going, carry good conversations and just be yourself!

[papabear]

hi, im new to this thread, just had a random thought this morning while i was taking a shower and wanted to share.

im still a student, male, 23 years old. i was thinking, how i am still in school and not working, not making any money. i kind of still live off my dad. lets say theres this girl that i was interested, but she is currently working fulltime, graduated, making over 100k. is it "weird" for me and this girl to become a couple? its just a random thought i had, like, with any girl, if they are making that much money while im still in school, living off my dad, wouldnt there be a huge difference? just with the independence, scheduling of plans, and money issue, and how the girl would be the one to pay for everything? don't get me wrong, im not gonna be a bum forever, just another year, and ill be placed in the same situation, making +100k, living on my own, and im gonna buy my own home right after i graduate and all. i think it would also be different the other way around, if i was the one working fulltime, and the girl was in school. i think that's okay. maybe its just a pride issue how I wont be able to pay for anything.

just a random thought, theres really no girl im interested now but if there was. like, after i broke up with my ex a few months ago, i decided that i wont "look" for anyone else until i graduate because i feel like i have nothing to offer right now.

If you want to be responsible and serious in your conduct and are aiming at marriage, then you are thinking correctly--aim at economic independence first. It's may not be the most important aspect of maturity, but it is nonetheless foundational.

[watcher]

hi, im new to this thread, just had a random thought this morning while i was taking a shower and wanted to share.

im still a student, male, 23 years old. i was thinking, how i am still in school and not working, not making any money. i kind of still live off my dad. lets say theres this girl that i was interested, but she is currently working fulltime, graduated, making over 100k. is it "weird" for me and this girl to become a couple? its just a random thought i had, like, with any girl, if they are making that much money while im still in school, living off my dad, wouldnt there be a huge difference? just with the independence, scheduling of plans, and money issue, and how the girl would be the one to pay for everything? don't get me wrong, im not gonna be a bum forever, just another year, and ill be placed in the same situation, making +100k, living on my own, and im gonna buy my own home right after i graduate and all. i think it would also be different the other way around, if i was the one working fulltime, and the girl was in school. i think that's okay. maybe its just a pride issue how I wont be able to pay for anything.

just a random thought, theres really no girl im interested now but if there was. like, after i broke up with my ex a few months ago, i decided that i wont "look" for anyone else until i graduate because i feel like i have nothing to offer right now.

i think if the girl and you are ok with it, then it shouldn't be an issue. it will only be a matter of time when you two are on equal level anyways.

what i'd like to know is what your profession is... 100K straight out of college is quite an accomplishment. i started at 45K, and i thought that was a lot back then...

[sasuke-kun]

i think if the girl and you are ok with it, then it shouldn't be an issue. it will only be a matter of time when you two are on equal level anyways.

what i'd like to know is what your profession is... 100K straight out of college is quite an accomplishment. i started at 45K, and i thought that was a lot back then...

pharmacy, esp in community setting, i heard someone just got hired at a supermarket pharmacy for 120k. well for a 2 additional years of school, i think starting +100k is awesome.

[Tuffcore]

I feel the same way. Now that some of my friends have gotten married, I am obsessed with marriage. When I meet a girl, the part of her body that I look at first is her ring finger. When I'm around my female friends, I think to myself, "What about her? Could I...?" When I'm asleep, I have dreams about getting married. I have even asked my parents to find someone for me.

It's when i read stuff like this, i hang onto everything i have in my relationship and thank the Lord for everything that He hath given me.

[watcher]

pharmacy, esp in community setting, i heard someone just got hired at a supermarket pharmacy for 120k. well for a 2 additional years of school, i think starting +100k is awesome.

really? i live in LA, and most of my pharmacy friends start in the 70~80K range.

[k1D3Ck]

really? i live in LA, and most of my pharmacy friends start in the 70~80K range.

Wal-greens pays 110k for new hires straight from school.
Might change depending on which school you go to, and what undergrad experience you have had.

[watcher]

Wal-greens pays 110k for new hires straight from school.
Might change depending on which school you go to, and what undergrad experience you have had.

that's pretty cool. perhaps i should tell my friends to keep searching

[chairmanK]

It's when i read stuff like this, i hang onto everything i have in my relationship and thank the Lord for everything that He hath given me.

WTF? This is too funny. You're trolling, right?

[melkimx]

WTF? This is too funny. You're trolling, right?

that's what i've been thinking. and trolls aren't allowed on soompi, so....

you know, i'm getting to the point where i kinda want to get married and have children too. i don't know though.

[k1D3Ck]

that's what i've been thinking. and trolls aren't allowed on soompi, so....

you know, i'm getting to the point where i kinda want to get married and have children too. i don't know though.

Thats serious.
I am wanting a relationship, but it's not happening.

Also Watcher, obtaining a Walgreens spot is not easy. Both my roommates went to STLCOP which is one of those special schools, and their program was very intense.

[blue_shoe]

i think if the girl and you are ok with it, then it shouldn't be an issue. it will only be a matter of time when you two are on equal level anyways.

what i'd like to know is what your profession is... 100K straight out of college is quite an accomplishment. i started at 45K, and i thought that was a lot back then...

Most people don't start at 100k no matter what profession. Some lucky ones does, but most ppl think they'll be the lucky one.

[donporkuloin]

Nvm.. problem solved.. sort of.

[blue_shoe]

^ I guess, be like "wow, didn't know you work at Target, can I get some discount?" ---->>> friendly joke to start a conversation.

[Tuffcore]

Now that some of my friends have gotten married, I am obsessed with marriage.

you know, i'm getting to the point where i kinda want to get married and have children too. i don't know though.

It's not so important that two people begin in different places. It's important that two people end up in the same place and acheive similar goals.

It's a good start for you two.

[badboy yardy]

It's not so important that two people begin in different places. It's important that two people end up in the same place and acheive similar goals.

It's a good start for you two.

[Tuffcore]

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[Majah Flavah]

Seeing as how this is my thread and all, thought I'd stop by to tell everyone I asked out a girl yesterday and now I'm officially in a relationship i actually see as worthwhile. let's all celebrate! *busts out the maracas and pinatas*