Yeah but at the same time - first impressions aren't always right. Always give the person a second chance at least. If they make you uncomfortable - yeah walk away but if it's just because you don't get a long with them - then at least give them a second chance, I honestly think that people aren't always themselves on a first meeting because they worry about a lot of factors.
haha, i think this is one thing that others never get about me.
but, i'm never wrong.
it's not a looks thing....
when i talk to the person, i can tell. and usually as i get to know them better, what i thought the first time around becomes more and more apparant.
and it's not whether i get along with them or not....i might be able to get on fine with them, but it doesn't mean that we can date.
i especially dislike guys that try to put up a front when they meet a girl...because they all use similar lines ("i like you're hair", "you're funny", etc). compliments don't win me over!
oh the drama.
@ little mixed girl..being 24 and not having a bf isn't a big deal...just think of it as being worry free of testosterone driven jealousy, other-girl-drama, other-guy-drama,i-think-i'm-pregnant-drama,i-got-someone-else-pregnant-drama, i-love-you-no-hate-you-drama, give-me-my-stuff-back-drama and so on and so forth.
however i will say that if you do want a bf..try not to take things so seriously..i mean, you're only 23 going on 24...it's not that serious. if you like the guy cuz he's cute, but he's an idiot..IT'S OK!! you don't have to click on some deep spiritual third level...just have fun and hang out with with him. if anything he could end up being your best friend.
the thing that gets me is why are we( those of us who are in our early-mid twenties) so hung up on finding ''the one'' i mean if you happen to find that person early on, then GREAT! more power to ya'..but don't sit and mope around about not being attached...go out. have fun. you're only young once..why waste it worrying about something as..well...dumb... as not having a bf.
you know that if you're looking and pining for someone to be with the chances of finding them are real slim...guys can spot needy and clingy and just overall depressing girls *and visa versa* and they steer clear of them. (well atleast the decent people stay away...)
(don't take this the wrong way please) but get a life. literally. find something that makes you happy and do it. chances are you'll meet someone who appreciates the same things.
...but then again on the other hand...maybe you haven't had a bf yet cuz....you're not really attracted to guys...maybe you're a lesbian..and don't know it...or you could be asexual..and not know it..lol iono..i'm reaching now...i need to take my ass to bed.
good night.
lol~
i don't need to date "the one".
but i don't want to fool around. if i'm going to date someone it's because i like them and not because they were just there.
because it doesn't seem right to date someone if i don't feel anything towards them. especially if that person really liked me.
and while i do have high standards, i don't have a set type that i *must* get.
i'm fine with various personalities and looks, which is why i know when i meet the guy whether there's a chance or not.
Sometimes, I wonder if they are just taking the piss (trying to be funny) or really think it could be possible.
Sweet though. I would only expect of another what I too can represent and give forth to him. I also don't expect a relationship of equalitarian, but one of which we both bring support, understanding, and acceptance to each other.
