[Ice]

because she's intriguing.
because the possibilities are unknown.
you're curious to find out.
she has something you might want.
and despite it all, it might work.

altogether now AAAAAAAWwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Im sorry I know Im spamming, but somebodys gotta give this guy props.

[Metro_Flip]

ever liked a person and you don't know why?
like i cant even see myself with this person but yet i care about her...
i dont think im her style and i totally dont think shes my style...
yet im crazy about her...

why is this?

Yes, I'm currently in that situation right now. She even asked me outright why I liked her so much, but I couldn't give her a proper answer.

[watcher]

Yes, I'm currently in that situation right now. She even asked me outright why I liked her so much, but I couldn't give her a proper answer.

hahaha... next time she asks you... tell her...
'i.... i think your THE ONE'

[clockwatcher]

ever liked a person and you don't know why?
like i cant even see myself with this person but yet i care about her...
i dont think im her style and i totally dont think shes my style...
yet im crazy about her...

why is this?

lol... aww, so sweet. Do you need a reason?

[Meenuh]

hahaha... next time she asks you... tell her...
'i.... i think your THE ONE'

Lol. You're horrible.

ever liked a person and you don't know why?
like i cant even see myself with this person but yet i care about her...
i dont think im her style and i totally dont think shes my style...
yet im crazy about her...

why is this?

ewwwww hahaha. i'm telling your mom! who is she?! hahaha.

[GO!zilla]

ewwwww hahaha. i'm telling your mom! who is she?! hahaha.

lol dont and dont even mention it to you sis.

[Meenuh]

lol dont and dont even mention it to you sis.

Hahahahahahaha. I bet I know whooooo. What are you gonna give me if I keep this little secret of yours? Hmmmmm?

[GO!zilla]

Dinner on my second paycheck? Ionno. I miss you. I think we shouldn't chat here haha.

[Meenuh]

Dinner on my second paycheck? Ionno. I miss you. I think we shouldn't chat here haha.

Hahah. Make it our own personal chat? You work? Wth... since when? Where? I have a feeling we'll get in trouble for this. D: Lol...

[Sweetraindrops]

how should i talk to this girl whos been showing me that shes interested...

-she stalk me in the morning when i go to the library..

-she stalk me after school and stand outside looking at me walk out..

i was going to ask her if she needed a ride.. but... ehh.. kinda weird but ye.. lol...

what should i do?

[watcher]

how should i talk to this girl whos been showing me that shes interested...

-she stalk me in the morning when i go to the library..

-she stalk me after school and stand outside looking at me walk out..

i was going to ask her if she needed a ride.. but... ehh.. kinda weird but ye.. lol...

what should i do?

is this the same girl? you're asking the same question over and over...

[Sweetraindrops]

its different one...

the other one got mad at me for no reason... but she talk to me today and held the door for me.. HAHAHAH... i feel like a hoomoo... hahaha

[jiggapeas]

Dating a player?

I know the logical answer is to avoid it or to get out before you put your heart on the line. But sometimes, dating and relationships cause us to do illogical things.

I met this guy in grad school a few years ago at a social event, but we lost touch due to our busy schedules. But of course, we added each other on Facebook but never really kept in touch. Then it so happened that we ran into each other again before school ended...of all places, the library where we were cramming for exams. He asked me out on a date. At first, I hesistated because I knew he had a reputation for being a partier and player. His facebook pictures and wall of women don't do anything to prove that wrong either. I normally don't date those types, but I decided to go out of curiosity on what makes him so attractive to us girls. But when I got to know him better, I realized that he wasn't like what I had assumed him to be. At least not yet. He talked about his career and future goals. I wasn't like the usual girls he hung out with either. I could tell because he kept describing me as "cute, innocent, and makes him laugh." I teased him about him trying to pull out his classic moves and pick up lines because I had already decided that I wasn't going to fall for him. We are only similar with respect to our (future) career. Since we hit it off pretty well, we had several more dates after that to the point where we saw each other everyday for the past week. It didn't always involved going out but staying home and cooking, watching movies, and jogging together. So yes, he's seen me in the sweaty, unglamarous way. But it was funny seeing him act akward and even shy like a schoolboy around me.

Anyways, I was trying to look for signs that he might be playing me. We both call and text each other. When we are on dates, he turns off his phone or won't pick up if his friends call. He's always on time to pick me up. If he says he'll call or promises to be there for something, he will. But the thing that sends red flags to me is that he is at ease already with hands around my waist and interlocking hands. Or maybe I just have my guards up? He's already acknowledged that we are dating and asked if I'm ready to meet his friends yet. But he said that since it's only been a few months since his 2yr relationship with his ex, he wasn't ready for a relationship yet. So he warned that his friends might misunderstand that I am his girlfriend. According to him, his ex dumped him because she was fed up with the fact that he had a lot of female friends to go clubbing with. I guess she felt like she had to "share" him with a lot of girls. But ironically, the ex is now dating his best friend. I'm not looking for a future husband either but at least I want to date, knowing that there's potential of becomeing an exclusive relationship. He teases me that I am mysterious and discreet. I do talk about myself but right now, I am cautious because I don't want to get hurt.

I just can't understand why his female friends (who already have boyfriends) find the need to always ask him to come out clubbing with them and call all the time. And if he always have company, why is he singling me out? Or is it because it's summer so maybe he's just bored? Should I walk away from this or should I give him the benefit of the doubt? And is he really a player at all? (I know that people don't change so once a player always a player...)

Thanks!

[watcher]

Dating a player?

I know the logical answer is to avoid it or to get out before you put your heart on the line. But sometimes, dating and relationships cause us to do illogical things.

...

Thanks!

if the fire's too hot for you, step away from the heat. hehe... try not to make so much sense out of this, as some players don't really fit a particular mold. there's plenty of guys out there who have successful careers and loving wives and shining personalities who still find ways to cheat and get away with it. the best thing you can do right now is play it by ear and see how honest you can get in your relationship.

i think you definitely have your guards up, which is a natural thing to do, and it seems to have had the side effect of adding a flavor of mystery to your persona to him. it sounds to me that both of you are somewhat in the dark and trying to read each other, almost like some kind of chess match. as chess games go, the one who thinks ahead more moves will win the match. however, when it comes to relationships, this chess match doesn't end until there's a forfeit, and the loser gets hurts.

i think as long as there's doubt in your heart, you should step aside. you're playing with fire. if you open up fully and go all the way with it, you leave yourself vulnerable, but at least it opens up the possibility of a sincere relationship.

all or nothing. good luck

[Laxntiga]

Players are picture perfect until you get played. Thats when you get hurt and label the guy a player, its because you let your guard down and got too comfortable (started depending on him, relying, looking for support emotionally/physically/mentally etc. etc.).

Enjoy the time you are having, live for the moment. Stop trying to plan too much, who knows what will happen tomorrow?

[watcher]

Lol. You're horrible.

not at all!! how can i be horrible? i take my dates out to nice places and pay for all the meals!!

[GO!zilla]

o man i didnt even see the responses...

Yes, I'm currently in that situation right now. She even asked me outright why I liked her so much, but I couldn't give her a proper answer.

ooooo well i haven't told her yet... lol~ and good luck to you. seems like you confessed already... you're a better man than i for it.

lol... aww, so sweet. Do you need a reason?

keke for her... nope. but she might not see the same thing as me... that scares me.

[jiggapeas]

Thanks watcher & Laxtinga for the advice!

[Meenuh]

o man i didnt even see the responses...



ooooo well i haven't told her yet... lol~ and good luck to you. seems like you confessed already... you're a better man than i for it.


keke for her... nope. but she might not see the same thing as me... that scares me.

Stop being a lion king and just tell her. Get it over with already. Sheesh. Lol. Jaykay. Seriously though.. unless you know she doesn't feel the same way and you don't wanna ruin a friendship then .. 2 words ... STOP IT.

[GO!zilla]

Stop being a lion king and just tell her. Get it over with already. Sheesh. Lol. Jaykay. Seriously though.. unless you know she doesn't feel the same way and you don't wanna ruin a friendship then .. 2 words ... STOP IT.

yes mam.