[PaNgIeE]

Count me in. I'll bring Sunkist since I don't drink anything w/alcohol.

I am so ready for a party and some good food!

[switchlanez]

So I've been talking with this guy. Yes, I am interested. Yes, he is also.
We've been talking for like about 2-3 months. He asked me out, but I said that we should wait. (Its going to be a long distance, if I said yes). And I have other reasons.
We talk almost everyday.
He calls me babe. I really dont mind. Actually I kinda like it. But he asked me to give him a nickname. And um, I feel kinda ummm.."not ready"/comfortable..to call him sweetie/hun.
So I'm thinking about giving him a cute nickname, instead of babe/hun/sweetie. Is that fine? Is that sending a different message?

He wants a nickname? What a lovey-dovey pansy... next thing you know he wants you to do his nails then he'll eventually cheat on you for another man. Just let him play on your rack because we all know that's what he wants. Let him preserve whatever manhood he has left then you can dropkick his @$$ because you'll get bored of him quick.

this is about him being taken advantage of so no i don't see it as i'm being selfish.

This sounds like the type of situation that your bf can and should take control of in a professional manner. Tell him this is a test of his manhood and if he doesn't do it then he won't get the ______ tonight. That should get him motivated.

Personally, where I"m at is not my end all, be all in careers but I've worked hard for where I am and the reputation I've built is based on dedication.

Hey Vina, you're such a workaholic. jk, how's it going down in San Diego?

[watcher]

this is the l&r thread! not the watcher thread! let's get back to discussion here!!

how about a question... like... how does one get creative when it comes to 'special' dates? perhaps anniversary, valentines, christmas, etc? share some ideas!!

[7thprincess]

this is the l&r thread! not the watcher thread! let's get back to discussion here!!

how about a question... like... how does one get creative when it comes to 'special' dates? perhaps anniversary, valentines, christmas, etc? share some ideas!!

You want creativity? How about setting a soompi meetup date at watcher's place. You can probably do this around any day, or holiday. watcher will cook you nice yummy food and maybe he'll offer some wine. And next, he will dim the lights and put on some nice soothing music, and let you sleep on his nice comfy bed.

Isnt that cute!!!

[watcher]

You want creativity? How about setting a soompi meetup date at watcher's place. You can probably do this around any day, or holiday. watcher will cook you nice yummy food and maybe he'll offer some wine. And next, he will dim the lights and put on some nice soothing music, and let you sleep on his nice comfy bed.

Isnt that cute!!!

that's not creative... it's been done... =T

[coreancc]

You want creativity? How about setting a soompi meetup date at watcher's place. You can probably do this around any day, or holiday. watcher will cook you nice yummy food and maybe he'll offer some wine. And next, he will dim the lights and put on some nice soothing music, and let you sleep on his nice comfy bed.

Isnt that cute!!!

HAHA!!! Way to get the conversation back on topic, 7thprincess.
Let's see here... watcher, my friend. I've got a whole bag full of goodies that I've done with my wife... <rummages around> But I should warn you, I'm a hopeless romantic - so this might not be your style.
- I once called her workplace and got the day off for her, but didn't tell her (her whole office was in on the gig). This is before we had kids, for those who know that she is now a full time mother. She went into work and I got busy preparing an awesome picnic spread. I put it all in this nice, romantic looking picnic basket, then drove to my wife's workplace with a bunch of roses and a nicely wrapped gift - and, of course, a love poem written by myself. Oh, prior to this, I found a very beautiful lake nestled away in the middle of the mountains that few people knew about, but was just a gorgeous setting. Anyway, I "surprised" her by showing up with flowers and the gift box. She thought it was the most wonderful thing! I was like, "OK, I gotta get off to work - but, first, I thought maybe we could run out to Starbucks real quick and spend just a few minutes together. I'll bring you right back." She got permission from her boss, haha... At this point, she had no idea there was more to the surprise... (I love double surprises). Anyway, I ended up passing the Starbucks and she was like, "uhhh... where are you going?" And I continued to drive on into the mountains. She was very pleasantly surprised. We pulled the picnic spread out, set it under a beautiful tree overlooking the lake, enjoyed the food... and spent the rest of the day... uhh.... talking... there in the secluded place. (well! We did talk too, honest!).
- This last valentines I did something classic - but there is a reason this is so popular. I sent my wife out of the house for the day and turned it into a gourmet restaurant, complete with fancy table, perfect place settings, dim lights, romantic music, fire in the fireplace, etc. I prepared an amazing 5 course meal (my wife still talks about it to this day), complete with artistic flourishes. I told her to be back at a certain time. When she arrived, I took her coat, and showed her to her seat. I had written her some poetry, scribed it onto a handcrafted card, and placed that in front of her seat with a red rose (I told you, this is classic). Then, I poured some wine, served the meal, and sat down to some wonderful conversation with my best friend and soul mate. Yeah, this may seem overdone - but how many people actually do it? My wife loved it to death, and she hopes I do it again some day.

Well, I'm outta time... so I guess you only get two ideas for now.

[YUNA!]

this is the l&r thread! not the watcher thread! let's get back to discussion here!!

how about a question... like... how does one get creative when it comes to 'special' dates? perhaps anniversary, valentines, christmas, etc? share some ideas!!

special dates? hmmm. how about asking a girl out for study date at starbucks and sending her home early cuz you're too tired. HAHA~! yup, kudos to the men in Vancouver. =_=

[7thprincess]

that's not creative... it's been done... =T

BUT! Has it been done with 5 people? I dont think so!

HAHA!!! Way to get the conversation back on topic, 7thprincess.
Let's see here... watcher, my friend. I've got a whole bag full of goodies that I've done with my wife... <rummages around> But I should warn you, I'm a hopeless romantic - so this might not be your style.

WOW! That is soooo sweet! I'm so jealous!!


Now lets just imagine doing that at watcher's place.

[watcher]

HAHA!!! Way to get the conversation back on topic, 7thprincess.
Let's see here... watcher, my friend. I've got a whole bag full of goodies that I've done with my wife... <rummages around> But I should warn you, I'm a hopeless romantic - so this might not be your style.
- I once called her workplace and got the day off for her, but didn't tell her (her whole office was in on the gig). This is before we had kids, for those who know that she is now a full time mother. She went into work and I got busy preparing an awesome picnic spread. I put it all in this nice, romantic looking picnic basket, then drove to my wife's workplace with a bunch of roses and a nicely wrapped gift - and, of course, a love poem written by myself. Oh, prior to this, I found a very beautiful lake nestled away in the middle of the mountains that few people knew about, but was just a gorgeous setting. Anyway, I "surprised" her by showing up with flowers and the gift box. She thought it was the most wonderful thing! I was like, "OK, I gotta get off to work - but, first, I thought maybe we could run out to Starbucks real quick and spend just a few minutes together. I'll bring you right back." She got permission from her boss, haha... At this point, she had no idea there was more to the surprise... (I love double surprises). Anyway, I ended up passing the Starbucks and she was like, "uhhh... where are you going?" And I continued to drive on into the mountains. She was very pleasantly surprised. We pulled the picnic spread out, set it under a beautiful tree overlooking the lake, enjoyed the food... and spent the rest of the day... uhh.... talking... there in the secluded place. (well! We did talk too, honest!).
- This last valentines I did something classic - but there is a reason this is so popular. I sent my wife out of the house for the day and turned it into a gourmet restaurant, complete with fancy table, perfect place settings, dim lights, romantic music, fire in the fireplace, etc. I prepared an amazing 5 course meal (my wife still talks about it to this day), complete with artistic flourishes. I told her to be back at a certain time. When she arrived, I took her coat, and showed her to her seat. I had written her some poetry, scribed it onto a handcrafted card, and placed that in front of her seat with a red rose (I told you, this is classic). Then, I poured some wine, served the meal, and sat down to some wonderful conversation with my best friend and soul mate. Yeah, this may seem overdone - but how many people actually do it? My wife loved it to death, and she hopes I do it again some day.

Well, I'm outta time... so I guess you only get two ideas for now.

hmm... i've done the 2nd one, though not a 5 course meal. just a 3 course one. it's easy to turn my pad into a restaurant. i have a live jazz music and my theatre system. nice tablecloth. mebbe i can pick up some christmas lights.

btw... you sir... you're a big mushball

[coreancc]

hmm... i've done the 2nd one, though not a 5 course meal. just a 3 course one. it's easy to turn my pad into a restaurant. i have a live jazz music and my theatre system. nice tablecloth. mebbe i can pick up some christmas lights.

btw... you sir... you're a big mushball

I'll take that as a compliment. Hey, I'm confident in who I am - and I happen to love mushy things, lol. In fact, I embrace it and run with it.
When I have more time, I'll have to post some of the other things we've done.

[PaNgIeE]

coreancc: you're such a GIRL! lol! j/k its so sweet. like 7thprincess i'm so jealous. can me and 7thprincess come over next time you do something like that? we'll blend w/the surroundings. its just that we want in on it too. dang! where's all the good men at? by the way, you've got friends? hahaha...

watcher: stop trying to be like coreancc! lol! when you gonna cook for me and 7thprincess? we're still waiting....

7thprincess: watcher hasn't done it w/5 people let alone with 1. he's done it by himself. sad, but true!

[watcher]

coreancc: you're such a GIRL! lol! j/k its so sweet. like 7thprincess i'm so jealous. can me and 7thprincess come over next time you do something like that? we'll blend w/the surroundings. its just that we want in on it too. dang! where's all the good men at? by the way, you've got friends? hahaha...

watcher: stop trying to be like coreancc! lol! when you gonna cook for me and 7thprincess? we're still waiting....

7thprincess: watcher hasn't done it w/5 people let alone with 1. he's done it by himself. sad, but true!

dinner for 5? pfff... been there, dont that!!

[7thprincess]

dinner for 5? pfff... been there, dont that!!
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watcher..i'd sooo sleep with you. i'd have intense passionate sex with you. on your nice comfy bed, with the lights on.


HAHAHAH LMAO. I kid. I kid.

[PaNgIeE]

watcher..i'd sooo sleep with you. i'd have intense passionate sex with you. on your nice comfy bed, with the lights on.


HAHAHAH LMAO. I kid. I kid.

Me too!

[Tuffcore]

special dates? hmmm. how about asking a girl out for study date at starbucks and sending her home early cuz you're too tired. HAHA~! yup, kudos to the men in Vancouver. =_=

HEY! i've used that trick once and that's when i lived in Vancouver of all places! I call it the, "thanks for the date but i'm not interested in pursuing anything further with you" move. Yup, i learned it from another girl who did that to me a few months earlier...

[questions987]

Hey Vina, you're such a workaholic. jk, how's it going down in San Diego?

Hey you, good - I was just thinking about you the other day. I drove by the boba place. We should meet up sometime, maybe THIS time Hermit will show himself instead of watching from far away. We're not that scary!

dinner for 5? pfff... been there, dont that!!

Add one more for dinner watcher - I helped you pick that dishware.

As to whether you can cook it that would be a scary thought - can you actually cook?

watcher..i'd sooo sleep with you. i'd have intense passionate sex with you. on your nice comfy bed, with the lights on.


HAHAHAH LMAO. I kid. I kid.

Why, oh why would you want to do that? Watcher may think that he's god's gift to women, but I'd think he'd be too girly to be any good in bed.

[Tuffcore]

dinner for 5? pfff... been there, dont that!!

Cool, no "sausage" party. I'm in!

[watcher]

Hey you, good - I was just thinking about you the other day. I drove by the boba place. We should meet up sometime, maybe THIS time Hermit will show himself instead of watching from far away. We're not that scary!


Add one more for dinner watcher - I helped you pick that dishware.

As to whether you can cook it that would be a scary thought - can you actually cook?



Why, oh why would you want to do that? Watcher may think that he's god's gift to women, but I'd think he'd be too girly to be any good in bed.

i think nothin of the sort deary.
btw... u should go check out the 'food i cooked' thread. i do cook

[7thprincess]

Why, oh why would you want to do that? Watcher may think that he's god's gift to women, but I'd think he'd be too girly to be any good in bed.

He didnt object. LOL.

[watcher]

He didnt object. LOL.

object to what?