[derrek]

They were going to arrest the fire and bring it to the fire department obviously.

[lamtch]

I guess lately, I've been a monster. My poor boyfriend.

No, you haven't been a monster. You shouldn't think this way. I think you're a wonderful girlfriend.

[watcher]

^ if you are who i think it is.. welcome

[Prot]

^ if you are who i think it is.. welcome

Haha read the intros watcher I personally think they should talk in person rather than over the net though haha

[watcher]

Haha read the intros watcher I personally think they should talk in person rather than over the net though haha

didnt u know? no one can talk to her except through soompi. it's her new rule

[YUNA!]

He never fails to call me once after he finishes classes and work...
He never fails to give me wakeup calls when I need it, and when I'm near where he lives, he always somehow senses it and calls me if I need a ride back home (we live about half an hour away). He doesn't really call me for that reason specifically, but it feels like it. He likes to plan things and let me have final decisions on dates. (His actual response to a mutual friend's phone call: "She's the girl, she gets to decide!" HAhaha.

HOWEVER, we still haven't made it official yet.
I'm trying to just go with the flow and see how things turn out and not put too much thought and energy to it, but somehow I always end my days thinking of him.

When would you guys "officialize" things? Or it doesn't need to? Ahhhh... I'm not even sure what we are.. >0<

[foreverursVi]

He never fails to call me once after he finishes classes and work...
He never fails to give me wakeup calls when I need it, and when I'm near where he lives, he always somehow senses it and calls me if I need a ride back home (we live about half an hour away). He doesn't really call me for that reason specifically, but it feels like it. He likes to plan things and let me have final decisions on dates. (His actual response to a mutual friend's phone call: "She's the girl, she gets to decide!" HAhaha.

HOWEVER, we still haven't made it official yet.
I'm trying to just go with the flow and see how things turn out and not put too much thought and energy to it, but somehow I always end my days thinking of him.

When would you guys "officialize" things? Or it doesn't need to? Ahhhh... I'm not even sure what we are.. >0<

lol....if you get to decide then i suggest you make a decision

[donporkuloin]

I was near my job and I met this woman. I talked to her and of course without failure she's engaged. But she said she wanted a bar buddy. Do you think that's normal for a girl to do if she's engaged? Or is this her way of trying to enjoy herself before she gets married?

So why is it so bad if the woman wears the pants in the relationship?

But then again its also like asking why is it so bad if a guy is whipped.

Oh well......

The pants thing is an ego thing. For me it depends on the flow of a relationship. If the girl is a take charge kind of girl? Then she might get the pants every now and then. It depends on how bad the guy is whipped? It can be bad to some extent. Like if the girl is using the guy, and has no intentions of being too serious with him. Yet he's caught feelings. Do you prefer to wear the pants in a relationship?

[HERMIT]

Come to think of it, I think I'd want to be in a relationship where nobody is wearing pants. So liberating.

[Because I'm a Boy]

YUNA!

nihon jin deska?

[JDM6]

When would you guys "officialize" things? Or it doesn't need to? Ahhhh... I'm not even sure what we are.. >0<

It's not like you guys are gonna shake on it or anything to make it "official". I think you'll know it when you just feel it. Or you can always stamp it with a kiss?
How long you guys been "just hanging out"?

[YUNA!]

It's not like you guys are gonna shake on it or anything to make it "official". I think you'll know it when you just feel it. Or you can always stamp it with a kiss?
How long you guys been "just hanging out"?

Hm, I guess so.
It's been about a month that we've been calling each other and hanging out...... maybe it's a bit too early?

[watcher]

Hm, I guess so.
It's been about a month that we've been calling each other and hanging out...... maybe it's a bit too early?

it's all about the facebook status. that's when you'll know

[JDM6]

it's all about the facebook status. that's when you'll know

hahaha...somewhat true. I know this guy, somewhat of a player if you will. He has countless stories he tells us of him hooking up with a different girls here or there. One of stories is about a girl he didn't intend to hookup with. Instead, of getting to know the girl he was setup with by a friend, he ended up hooking up with her younger sister instead. According to him, they just a had a better connection. The two started to really like each other. When the older sister found out, it actually put a strain on their sister's relationship. The younger sister, however, was only here visiting while she was attending college in another state. This guy liked her so much, he was willing to have a long distance relationship with her. I was really shocked to hear him say that. But I guess it all became official when she asked him to change his facebook status to : In a Relationship with xxxxx. So far, he's been faithful and they take turn flying in once a month to see each other. Seriously, I'm still so surprised that he's doing this. But, I'm glad that he seem to have found a girl he's committed to.

[negitoro]

it's all about the facebook status. that's when you'll know

LOL I don't know why but just somehow the act of publicly declaring something simultaneously to about 400 of your friends, family, former coworkers, elementary school buddies, friends of friends of friends and that girl you partied with that one night last year seems to make everything so darned official.

[Prot]

it's all about the facebook status. that's when you'll know

Thats just ridiculous that the society today revolves around that lol. "What? You didn't accept my relationship status with you to "married" even though we are just dating? We are over, that's it let's break up."

Related: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHi-ZcvFV_0

[HSuke]

Come to think of it, I think I'd want to be in a relationship where nobody is wearing pants. So liberating.

Sounds awesome. It's quite fun! ^__^

[Pogichinoy]

Hm, I guess so.
It's been about a month that we've been calling each other and hanging out...... maybe it's a bit too early?

It's never too early.

Sounds like he'd like you to take the initiative. Things can be made official with the seal of a kiss. ;)

[YUNA!]

It's never too early.

Sounds like he'd like you to take the initiative. Things can be made official with the seal of a kiss.

The thing with Stan is, that he's so much more different than the other guys I've dated. He likes to try different things like golfing, fishing, and other stuff other than playing dirty. I learn many different things from him (and sprained ankles many times) while I'm with him.... I'm worried it'll end when it becomes "official." End, as in, he becomes lazier. Cuz he sure can be lazy when he wants to......=___=.

Initiative? I cross-stitched him a medium-sized doraemon just because...and we're going out this Wednesday~ golfing, dinner, movie x3. I'll give it to him then... is that enough of an initiative? >_< It took me a week to stitch and fix it.....ugh stupid thing.

[derrek]

That's so cute! Worrying about what might happen is pointless though, you have to take a risk! Enjoy your date :]