[britnex]

my BF and I have been together for 2 months already..
but lately Ive realized that I dont really feel the same way I felt about him a moth ago..
basically I want to break up with him but I dont want to hurt him at the same time.
how do I break up with him in a nice way?
help?

[bigbangloverr]

uhmm as a advicee;;
i think you should talk to him in a place where you guys are all alone
and start with words that doesn't hurt and stuff..
and thenn start explaining in a calm voice what you feel and there slowly tell him what's wrong and what's the conclusion
say sorriee in some parts
i hopee i helped yhuu

[donporkuloin]

Don't lie to the boy. Don't make up excuses. Be upfront about why you feel the way you do.

[intricaciesx]

Do it in person. Just explain that your feelings have changed and you'd just like to be friends.

[Harbl]

Tell him you don't want to be with him anymore.

Offer him wild break-up sex.

Then let it be finished.

[jbigdog123]

Only two month?

Sheesh, that isn't much more than just dating.

Just be honest with him and tell the truth. Do not beat around the bush!

You could be honest without being mean.

[Namine]

Just don't say "Let's just be friends", I got killed for saying that once 8'D
Like holy horrible.

Hmmm. I guess you could just flat out say it.
Unless he's absolutely like. In love with you, and oblivious to any problems, he should slowly understand.

[jsyxlove]

just be straight up and honest.
i think he'd appreciate that more.

[myxo]

Don't lie to the boy. Don't make up excuses. Be upfront about why you feel the way you do.

I was called a pinkberry when I did just that ^^


Really, there's nothing nice about breaking up with someone. Doing it nicely is just sugarcoating the truth. There is nothing wrong with telling someone that your feelings have changed. Don't feel guilty because you no longer like him like before.

[insanelyCRAZY]

2 months...was that enough time to be serious?
just tell the guy "its not you, its me...lets be friends"
along those lines. lol.

how old are you?
(you sound kinda young..and if you are, dont worry, the two of you have your whole lives ahead of you)
not that im old. >.> but yea..
get my drift? lol

[PoooBear]

I don't think there is a nice way to break up
but since it was only 2 months, you guys are still fresh. He's young, he'll move on.
Just be straight up about it.

[Sleepy213]

Just tell him that you don't feel the same anymore. Thats all you have to say and break up.
Dont make up anything or try to be xtra nice. if you dont have the same feelings as before..what can he do yanno?

[Knee]

Tell him you don't want to be with him anymore.

Offer him wild break-up sex.

Then let it be finished.

That's a break-up after my own hard... uh, heart.

[Pogichinoy]

Talk to him in person.

"It's not you, it's me."

[mizz_J]

Tell him you don't want to be with him anymore.

Offer him wild break-up sex.

Then let it be finished.

LOL

Talk to him in person.

"It's not you, it's me."

Whoosh, it's the old breakup line

There are no easy ways to break up with your bf without hurting him. But yea, like what other people said, talk to him.

[Kenstr]

There's never a nice way in breaking up. Just be honest, you can never go wrong there.

[heheimawesome]

Be straight up, dont bull mini cooper. Don't try to sugar coat it. It will cause him to think otherwise. Such as:
"I don't want a relationship right now.." <- if he likes you enough, he will wait.

Just be straight up. "I don't like you anymore. I'm sorry" Seriously its the best thing you can do.

[Aria_Rheina]

Why is it that the "lets be friends" thing never work out anyway? lol i say text him "It's not you its me.." lol

[Emerald Snow]

"It's not me. It's you."

[CitrusFlower]

breaking up with someone is not jolly and smily so their is no nice way.