[DIM_SUM_41]

Hey, this question goes out to EVERYONE:
how do you know and what do you do if
you're being led on?

-DIM_SUM

[Namine]

You don't? That's why you're being led on?


Ummm, perhaps if they're flirting around with you...
And other people too..
They might be reliable... half the time. Etc.

[insanelyCRAZY]

errr sadly, i dont know when somebody is leading me on til i end up getting hurt.
=/
and err..i cant really do anything after i get hurt right?
except find a way to get over it. lol.

[mizz_J]

Honestly, i dont know when i'm getting lead on at all
But i guess i can't really do anything

[bbyneleh]

i don't think you would really know,
unless they have been known to be those types of people who are flirtatious.

i hate people who leads others on emotionally.
they know that they have the power to do that and they keep doing it. ==
they probably love the attention.

[lovenotee]

well you don't really know.. thats what sucks about it
they can be so selfish, they're soo caught up on just wanting your attention and all for their self esteem

but.. for me, i can tell if they flirt way too much to me and other girls or leave me hangin so i'll want more of him aha
but dont fall for it.. play his game ahah jk

[litoaznbabix91]

I know I'm being led on right now and sadly I think i'm falling for itt.
It's so cruel how they can do that to girls and never once thought about her emotions. Guys are jerkss

[LukChaTastic]

I know I'm being led on right now and sadly I think i'm falling for itt.
It's so cruel how they can do that to girls and never once thought about her emotions. Guys are jerkss

i'm on the same [sinking] boat
he's such an a**hole! but i just can't help it.. kinda sad :[

[monicahhhx]

aaron!!!!
well ok you either know that youre being led on or you completely dont have a clue
umm what do you do? idk
if youre smart enough and know that the person is trying to lead you on you would probably move on
and if not!
that sucks

[la folie]

It's so cruel how they can do that to girls and never once thought about her emotions. Guys are jerkss

Uh, guys are not the only ones leading others on?
Very ignorant..

[Namine]

^ True dat
It's not just a guy - only thing rofl ..
And yes guys get hurt from girls leadin em on too

[Wendyyy]

When they flirt with you and then one moment talk to you a lot, and then later on in the month, distance themselves, but then come back doing the same thing.
Stringing you alongggg.

You just notice how it's easy to like them, but then if they like you back, why aren't they being consistent or why aren't they making the initiative to plan things with you or so on, right?

So that's where you should catch on and decide if they are worth this confusion over and go on with yo life!

[h0ney]

i kinda know.. but sometimes.. u just enjoy being with them that u dont care
and up to a point where ur starting to want something more than just flirting around and playing..
thats when its good to stop and just leave...

for me its like that..

[Kimbree]

Well this is from my experience, when I went hiking recently, I met a guy in another group.
Urm so we got on pretty well together ^-^
Then my friend was all like ''He flirts with girls all the time on hiking trips''
Iunno if it was true, but then a few days later I was thinking about what she said & felt quite used/upset.
Thus I ignored him for the rest of the hiking trip until we got back in Wales.
Ok so on the ferry I was still ignoring him and st00f, (he was pretty much upset and the night before he went to bed early cos I wouldn't talk to him at all plus avoiding eye contact, plus according to my friend he was being all moody the next day) at the last minute I felt kinda upset and wanted one of his sweet huggles. So I hugged him at the VERY last minute before we got off the ferry lols.

Well the point is, if he was leading me on/being a player, he wouldn't have cared if I ignored him and stuff and woulda flirted with other girls.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

when you keep putting in effort and time and making the best of everything
and your feelings are not being appreciated or returned.

you show up whenever he wants you to show up. but when you want him to be there, he's not.

i would cut off all contact without explanation. because he knows what he did. and you don't owe him anything or an explanation for that matter.
but you have to commit to it though. if you cant, change your number

[Longshot]

Q: How do you know if someone is leading you on ? ?

A: there is no one answer for that... all you have to do is look at the signs..
- whos texting who to start the conversation
- whos the one making the plans or dates to hang out
- whos asking more questions about who on a personal level

those are just 3 of the main ones.. but if they are doing with you when it best fits their schedule and when they want to.. then you being let on..

[supasheep]

i say the best was is to trust ur instincts. sometimes when it feels too good to be true, ur sure u've been punk'ed~~ there was once i had a bad feeling bout this girl, and in the end, fuk i was right, but it was too late, the damage was done. go for ur feelings mate. whenever it feels TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, u've definitely been punk'ed ass