[champagnee]

close this thread please ~~~~~

[Wendyyy]

When you get the chance, just sit him down and confront him about it.
If he's going to, then he'll do it. But do you really want to wait for that?
Ask him what's going on and if that's what he wants.
He might be trying to hint to you that that's what he's doing, so it'll hurt you less if it's sudden.
I don't know.
But my advice to you is to talk it out with him, so you can get it from him instead of from other people who aren't him.
You never know what he's going to say.

^^

[eximius]

all of my friends say that this means he's going to break up with me
and i'm pretty sure that they're all right

they tell me to break up with him first
but i can't.. well, i can.. but i really don't want to

I really don't see how breaking up with him first is going to solve anything, but okay.
If you don't want to break up with him, then you don't need or have to.

If he continues to drag out this awkwardness longer than you can stand, then yeah, dump him.
Just prepare yourself for the worst.

[reset.love]

i think there is really a problem between ur boyfriend and you since he text and call other girl but not you.
i think u shld be honest and tell him how u feel.
it will be good if he said that nothing happen between her and him.
but if he admit, then maybe u shld break up with him.

[Blu3Wind]

Hmm..
From your stories, I think that he's losing interest in you..
So I would have to agree with your friends on that one..

And the way he treats Sienna...
You said that he used to like her..
Is there maybe a possibility that he never stopped liking her from the start?
I'm not saying this to make you feel down or make you even more depressed..
I'm just telling you a possibility..

There' no need to break up with him first before he does..
But I think that you should get over him..
This way it would just hurt you even more..

[mikomi]

That guy is a loser who could not appreciate you even if you stood there with neon lights. He's had his eye set on someone else and sucking you in for a game of retarded boyfriend. It might hurt, but give yourself time and space and you will be ok =). Clearly, he's got a thing for this other girl who is his friends ex. He's got karma cut out for him, so don't you think twice about it! ..and just so you know, I don't think its important who dumps who. IF he dumped you, it just means your feelings were real and you're not playing hot potato with other's feelings OR yours.

[arianna90]

aww......sorry to hear that, but you dont know for sure right? you should try talking to him. hopefully he'll tell you what is really going on. if turns out your assumptions are trueeeee,dont take it too hard..you deserve better. besides, karma will bite him in the butttt someday.

[h0ney]

confront him about it.
and if he avoids it.. his not worth it.. not even man enough to face his own feelings..

[jay-t]

i think you should really just sit down and confront him, and the sooner the better, cos that'll cos less of a heartbreak on your part since i think it's already affecting you. but he's a jerk for doing this to you, i prefer it if the guy straight out told me that a relationship isn't working anymore.

[GOOMBA]

Nothing you can really do other than talk to him about it.

Or break up with him before he breaks up with you.

[donporkuloin]

Either dump him or prepare for a breakup either way. I agree with mikomi.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

break it off and if you can, do it before he does

why?

because you'll feel more powerful, because you were the one in control of the situation and you had the guts to make a decision.
or you can just decide NOT to contact him at all without saying 'i want to end this relationship'

doesn't really matter because he doesn't care.

i know it's really hard to hear it but......you don't love him. because if you do.......love won't make you feel like this.

i hope everything works out for you, you definitely deserve better.