[chansay110002]

Well..my parents told me,that I am too young to have a boyfriend,by the way I am 13..,ok I am young..but I can't do anything.
You can't decide if you're in love or not..Trust me I live in Vienna and basically everyone in my age already had like 5 or 6 boyfriends..sometimes it creeps me out..
Well I have a boyfriend right now..we are together since 21 days together..
We really love eachother but the problem is,that I can't go on a date with him that often,because of my parents.They don't know that I have a boyfriend,and I am not going to tell..
Today was not a good day for me: I actually i should have been on a date with him but because of my mom I couldn't.And it's like the 4th time that I had to blow up a date.I totally felt so bad about it.When my mom was working..and my dad too,I cried my heart out,and I was scared of losing him.I couldn't talk to anyone.But I just talked to him and he promised he'll never leave me..

Is it everything allowed in Love??

what do you guys think of it?

I am not really sure if I am really tooo young for a boyfriend,but ..you know.. everything is allowed in Love

[dropdeadbarbi]

Wow, the good old adolescent days. Honestly, when I was 13 and chasing around boys, I too was always looking for an escape route from my parents to meet my girlfriends and that ONE boy. Looking back on the things I did, I wished that I, at least, let my mother in on my relationships. She ended up finding out of all of my "sneaking out days" anyways and I could sense her disappointment in not letting her know. I don't know, and would like to NOT know, the specifics on your relationship with your parents, but don't shut them out even if you feel like you'll get into an arguement with them, because of one boy. I feel like if they AT LEAST know that he's alive and in your life, less of your tears will shed and maybe you could hope for a FOREVER with him. Who knows? That's a whole other topic that I would have to talk on, but let's start with your very first relationship: your parents.

[MNLV27]

Well, that is still a young age and it's probably only just puppy love right now, but like the post before mines said, you should at least tell your mom, mom's should be a bit more understanding. Or if you're really set on being with him for a while just bring him home to meet your parents and from there on, if he leaves a good impression on them, your parents may let you go hang out with him once in a while, you never know until you tell your parents.

[mintcracker]

first of all, you're 13, woah it really doesn't matter what you do.

You're NOT in love. Focus on your studies girl. I know you won't listen, but you'll have so much time in the future to date.

[ShadowMax76]

i wouldn't listen too much to the people here... Lol.


i'd just let ya learn and experience it all by yourself. :] cuz you won't really get what these guys are saying unless you've gone through it already. i think.

well
that's the 'adolescent' and 'puppy love' part.

your parents.. i'd try not to give them too much hassle, and try to get them to trust me more and more.. and let them know i'm not a bad person. that way they'd know i wouldn't fall for any boy that walked passed me. >>' assuming if i was a girl.

[chopstick^^]

Is it everything allowed in Love??

Everything is allowed if it is according to Love!

But this question is really vague!

..

Your parents are protecting you.. this is out of love! .. Appreciate! Parents who dont dispiline their kids .. does not love them! .. Your parents dont know him.. but they were 13 onces.. and they know how u think and feel... trust me! they know what is best and is doing what they believe s good for u!

They think your too young! .. you are! ..

You can chat to him.. but dont think too deeply! Have friends around when u date..

Just coz ur friends has 5 boyfriends or woteva.. doesnt mean its cool.. wicked! .. and that u should have one.. are u a type of person who follows trends?

You understand when your older!

[marasshi]

I think you mean the quote 'All's fair in love and war' - but usually that's used when you're fighting for a person's affection (or in war, a piece of land, your beliefs, whatever) and there are no rules. :x

But on to the point: you're 13. You have the rest of your life in front of you, you have school, possibly university later on - by then you'll have enough time for a boyfriend, and you can go on dates without having to ask for your parents' permission. For now, try talking to your parents (or just your mom, whoever's the more lenient one LOL) and tell them about your boyfriend. It's never good to hide things from your parents because they know what's best for you (most of the time, anyway).

[Euphemism]

Well I have a boyfriend right now..we are together since 21 days together..
We really love eachother

In all honesty, you're NOT in love. I'm pretty sure you're way to young to understand what love is.
Sooner or later you'll grow out of this phase and realize your perception of love back then was definitely NOT love.



Oh, and I don't get what you mean by "Everything is allowed in love".

[STAR_x.]

LAWWWWWWWLS.
21 days & love?
sorry if i'm being mean :x but .. your "love" is prolly just puppylove :/

you're 13. its natural taht you cant go out that much. a lot of people are a few years older than you & they STILL can't do all those stuff you wanna do. like the previous poster said, you have your whole life ahead of you. just wait til you're older (:

[je_amourx]

The only love you should feel right now is from your parents and family missy! You're 13 .... my lord.

Perhaps the "love" you're feeling for your boyfriend is infauation; happy, giddy, smiles, etc. Man, explaining what love is to a 13 year old is hard.

[CriticalHit]

Trust me, all the kids think they're in love.
Wait a couple more years and see if you finally realize what love really is. It's so
much more beautiful than anything you can ever imagine. No I'm not talking about sex.

[xstarBURST]

Conformity any one?

But what do you mean by love? Rape? being taken advantage of? Touching in places you dont feel comfortable in nor when you dont want to be touched? Cheating?

be a little more specific and its pretty much puppy love, I think what your feeling is indeed infatuation like osme one above me pointed out.

[Sleepy213]

hahah awww dats cuteee :X

If he really love you, he wont leave you.
he should understand you and your situation .

stay stronggg !

[abcdaisy]

puppy love <3 hahaha justkidding
you are too young for a boyfriend
but what am i to say when i am like
17 and i never had one before...
LOL, so no comment just work things out with hiM?????

[andersennavy]

i dont think u can be in love after 21 days
but i could be wrong
i dont get it
how do u ppl go on a date that young
cuz u guys dont exactly hav a driver's license
so if ur parents drive u around, doesnt that kinda kill the dating part of it
at least it does to me
but not to bash
hope it works out for u
cuz if u stay w him for a long time, then u can make fun at all ur friends whos had 10384 bfs

[Ryu]

I cant judge if you "love" him or not. But if he "loves" you, he'll understand your situation. There's always obstacles in love (in your case, your parents) and you both have to overcome it. If he sticks with you till the end then you'll know he's the right guy. If he leaves, then he probably doesnt love you as much as you think he does.

[angelcadex]

What in the world do you mean by "Everything is allowed in love"??

Like just because you think you're in love, that makes it true?

O.o

[yuwing]

love in yourself for yourself is the truest sense of love you will most likely experience in life

[killjadeskye]

Wait, have at least 5 or 6 exes at 13?
Whoa, I only start having real crushes at 13.. You guys sure grow up fast..hehehe..

I don't everything is allowed in love, coz there are limits in everything.
Excessive body contact is a no-no, especially when you're in an early stage of a relationship..

[MaryMagdalin]

within another 21 days you will not be going out with him anymore
( well.... not literally........... but yea)

its good to go out and have and stuff
but honestly you will not be with him in the long run. i`m 99% sure.
he`ll never leave you? pshhh. i`ve heard that hundreds of times.