[axe_pheonix]

Lets say you just met this girl. You havent know her for very long, so you wouldnt say that you "like" them or have a "crush" on them or whatever.

You're just "interested" in her and want to get to know her better.

Well Im in that situation, and I'm having a hard time letting her know that I'm interested.

Its a little difficult, because I can't just freely ask her to hang out very frequently because, again, I dont know her that well or for that long, and I might come off a little... weird?

Anyways, any kind of help would be appreciated.

[heheimawesome]

Talk to her
try to sit beside her
she will get it. i mean its just interest, not like.

[Tuxedomask]

This is not meant to be rude in no way at all bro.

Try to pick up on the little things and when you feel brave enough ask her straight up and don't dance around the situation. It's best to find out now rather then waste time =)

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Just talk to her and get to know her better.

[Flicksityy]

Just don't go extreme with the texting and msn convos.
Most girls hate it when clingyness goes too far.

[Kitty07]

Make small conversation from time to time ... Give her small comments .

Girls usually pick up quite easily . n__n

[Kiribati]

"Hi, I have interest in yoooouuuu!" Then crank dat soulja boy.

Nahh I'm playin. Just kick it with her often, ask her questions about... well, her. Don't expect what you want to happen to happen though, just kick back and go with the flow, see how she responds.

[bukatko]

Make small conversation from time to time ... Give her small comments .

Girls usually pick up quite easily . n__n

problem is they pick up everything too easily

i talk to her cuz i find her interesting, and im kind cuz im a gentlemen naturally. But I just wanted to be friends.....

[Xiaoba1tu]

Lets say you just met this girl. You havent know her for very long, so you wouldnt say that you "like" them or have a "crush" on them or whatever.

You're just "interested" in her and want to get to know her better.

Well Im in that situation, and I'm having a hard time letting her know that I'm interested.

Its a little difficult, because I can't just freely ask her to hang out very frequently because, again, I dont know her that well or for that long, and I might come off a little... weird?

Anyways, any kind of help would be appreciated.

Do you have her number or other ways of contacting her?
Once you talk to her every week, slowly increase that to every few days.
Open up about yourself slowly and she'll probably do the same. Later, you'll get to know her better and before you know it you would have talked to her or "known" her for half a year.
Ask if she wants to go out somewhere (friend's party or your party) with 1-2 of her friends, and 1-2 of your friends. When you get to know her a lot better and you feel comfortable hanging around, you don't need to bring extra friends to tag-along.

Yes, asking to hang out frequently without you getting to know her would be coming on too fast and she may find it awkward.

Also, I'm agreeing with Flicksity about going crazy with the text msgs. You are just friends, so keep it once a week max.

problem is they pick up everything too easily

i talk to her cuz i find her interesting, and im kind cuz im a gentlemen naturally. But I just wanted to be friends.....

Random hijack?
Just had to check if you were the OP or not.

[Maddie0407]

Talk to her, and hint that you are interested in her but don't make it a big deal or wayyy too obvious because you barely know her. Don't be too clingy either. And like, let time progress the friendship. Or like you can invite her to hang out with a couple of other friends, but not exactly a date either because that's just too early, you know?
I hope that helps?

[1heart1fate]

hey the best way to get close to her is to just come by with some little chit chat or be friends with her friends. so when her friends ask you to hang out with them and maybe she will pop out

[nagel]

if your interested in someone and are trying this hard just to talk to them ( posting on forums.. ) it means you like/crush them.. but are most likely in denial lol..
if you didnt like them in that way.. you wouldnt try this hard and think this much lol


if the 2nd one is the case.. just walk up and say hi i see you around a lot whats your name?
go on from there.

[narcotix]

try flirting her when you get teh chance to talk to her... if that dosent work.. just create some sort of small talk.. make her laugh... and once you get more aquainted with her things will flow, and theres your opening

[une_fleur]

Talk to her, when she speaks to you show genuine interest.
If she shows you genuine interest back, you're good to go.

Do you guys have a class/work together? That's always a good starting point~

[damyoungji]

From my perspective as a girl, don't be too extreme with trying to stay in contact with her, or pretending that she is just a friend.

Show interest by doing stuff like inviting her out to gatherings, or messaging her every once in awhile to let her know you care about her.
But don't go to the extreme of trying to get her attention by messaging her constantly (believe me, even if friends do that, it gets REALLY annoying).

If she is the type who don't mind compliments, you can compliment her every once in awhile when you really mean it.
Just don't do it too much or else you may come off as someone who is fake or someone who enjoys hitting on others =P

[j'★dore]

Talk to her & show interest in what she's got to say. Once you feel like you're comfortable around her, you can give her some hints lol.

[Misao]

^yea i agree with damyoungji

there's this guy in my sociology class, and we were assigned in a group. we introduced to each other and then later in the day he added me in facebook. i was like oh hey you found me. he responded asking for my sn. after that, we chatted and he asked for my myspace. i thought it was okay, but the day later he commented me to go out and eat pho with him and he said he'll pay for it. (though i declined because i was busy that day) i was starting to be creeped out. and during class, all the sudden he sat next to me. i was getting this uncomfortable vibe from him. he prolly just want to be friends and whatnot, but guess i was receiving the wrong signal. =/ he constantly iming me with random questions, but i only give him small replies and sometimes no replies. gah

eh yeah not much help, but don't go too fast or she might get weirded out like me

[ShadowMax76]

may i say this,
it's funny how some girls never get the hint that a guy likes her.
the sad thing is that most boys only ever take interest in a girl when he see her as someone he 'likes'.

_ how to show interest?
ask her questions.

how to make her interested?
give her small parts of answers.

eg. she asks "what's your favourite colour?"
you "the brown between coffee and chocolate"
. i doubt she could walk away without asking why. at least in her mind. :]

rofl

[Sleepy213]

It's better to wait till you want to say you like her.

I'm interested in you just means I like you in other simplified way.

Just get to know her more and when you get closer to the point and
really like her, then tell her.

[riloandthewall]

DONT let on that you like her or are interested in her, that is the opposite of what you want to be doing
DONT be needy or desperate

DO touch her, playfully not in a creepy way, have confidence or at least pretend you do

just keep flirting with her and make her want you.
remember, people value what they have worked hard to get, make her have to work.