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#1 User is offline   g-dragonlove 

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Posted 18 November 2008 - 01:36 AM

ever spent soo much time with someone, weather it be boyfriend, girlfriend, friend or a brother or sister.. that you start being like them or start turning into them almost (not in a freakish clone-ish way though) just your soo similar..
though u may have your differences but you are completely on the same page with everything?
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 01:51 AM

i have two friends of the opposite gender and they are the same as me in the ways you described? i found it pretty cool like woah that's the female me
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 01:54 AM

Nope. Not to the point where I become a freakish clone of them, anyway.
Similarities in speech and whatnot, nothing more.
I've had a few experiences where these friends would want to be around me so much that they'd act (or try to, I don't know) like me.
I don't like to be around someone who's too similar to me... so I'd get irritated, push them away, see them less and less... problem solved.
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 01:59 AM

heyy!
i agree with you snow_kiss smile.gif i shhould have posted as to why i posted this when i asked.
haha my bestfriend and i are close no doubt and i love her heaps but sometimes its like i need my personal space. we pretty much do everything together and ppl think we're sisters cos we look the same.. and i think the only reason we MIGHT look the same is cos we spend so much time with each our habits grow onto eachother..
its a lil fustrating at times how similar we may be but i guess it has its up and downs!
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i have two friends of the opposite gender and they are the same as me in the ways you described? i found it pretty cool like woah that's the female me

thats pretty cool have close friends of the opposite gender.. haha a girl version of you smile.gif!
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 02:07 AM

If it's actually becoming an issue for you then just set some time aside for yourself. There's no harm in doing that.. besides, I'm sure your friend wouldn't be totally against it, either.
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 02:20 AM

My interests and hobbies sometimes change.
Speech definitely changes.
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 02:56 AM

Well I don't become a clone of them, but I do definitely act a little differently depending on who I'm around. It's just like boys, I reckon - I act differently around them in comparison to how I act when around my girlfriends. Sure, my friends & I have a lot of common interests, but I try my best to not forget who I am too.

As for my lil sis, she often does try to copy what I do. I think it's cute though! She'll find her own way when she grows up, though.

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Posted 18 November 2008 - 01:20 PM

I think if you spend enough time with anyone, you'll slowly start to copy their mannerisms, even if you don't notice it.

After four years with my boyfriend, I've definitely noticed some changes in the both of us. The most noticeable is probably the way we talk.

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Posted 18 November 2008 - 01:44 PM

Yup, I spend a lot of time with my bf (woop) and I'm starting to talk like he does! I used his words and phrases... :X
I wonder if he talks like me. O______o;;
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 02:05 PM

HAHA i've seen this happen to my friends and it's hilarious at times
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 02:25 PM

People say my boyfriend and I sound really alike when we talk. I think its more accurate to say that after dating so long, the "internal" talk we use with each other specifically is seeping out into our everyday conversations. That "internal" way of speaking is how we sound when we feel most comfortable and at ease. Which is to say the fact that we are together has made us more ourselves with other people.
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 05:29 PM

Oh yeah. xD I have five guy bifflez and three girl bifflez. They were all "normal" until they met me. xD
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 05:35 PM

Not clones, but pretty close I suppose. We've gotten to the point where we finish each other's sentences, know what the other person is thinking, and same crude humor. Oh yeah, and our comebacks are the same too. laugh.gif I think I'm spending too much time with him. Hhaahha.
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 08:58 PM

Okay, well I like see my sister basically every single day and talk to her every single day.

And now, whenever I talk to my mom, I somewhat find myself sounding like my sister.

And we do have somewhat similar problems (well, she's younger than me and pretty much stuff she goes through I've been through already.)
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 09:13 PM

omg me and my friend were JUST talking about this riht now!
wahhaah *coinki-dink moment*

anwyway. yeah, i hate it though. because my other friends would be like "what's wrong with you!?" and i feel so bad T___T"

especially if that "one person" i hang out with his annoying or mean =.=

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Posted 18 November 2008 - 10:13 PM

Yup
my bestfriend O.O
we're sooo similar it's funny xD
we llike it though cuz it's hilarious hahahha
we're still very different
but sometimes we're sooo similar o.o
people think we're sisiters =P
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 10:28 PM

yeah! beware, you may turn perverted
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 11:00 PM

Haha! Ya... I've been with my best friend for YEARS and I think it's cuz I absorb so much from people around me that I'm starting to think a lot like her =P
Same with my sister, she's beginning to develop an attitude like me >_< lol it's terrible

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Posted 19 November 2008 - 10:31 AM

Lol I hang out with my bf a lot and he's starting to say somethings like how I say it. For instances the word Jalapeno I actually say it like Jala-pen-o lol, I usually say 'ish cool,' I like to pout and now he does too and that's all i remember lol
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Posted 19 November 2008 - 10:37 AM

i do. my best friend. she and i end up finishing each other sentences and end up dressing similar too. we get mistaken for being sisters but I'm Vietnamese and she's Filipino.
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